"Honey, don't worry. I'm a man. You don't need to worry about my affairs. I can handle my own affairs myself." I looked at the man in front of me and felt ridiculous. If you say this too much, it will sound like a joke when you say it again. I said to him: "Leave your sense of re

"Honey, don't worry, I'm a man. You don't need to worry about my affairs. I can handle my own affairs myself." I looked at the man in front of me and felt ridiculous. If you say this too much, it will sound like a joke when you say it again. I said to him: "Leave your sense of responsibility to yourself, let's get a divorce."

My husband Qin Ming and I met at a friend's wedding banquet.

When we met, we were in different places. He worked in an accounting firm in the provincial capital. As for me, I fled back to my hometown in disgrace because my job in the provincial capital was not going well.

I was preparing to take the certified public accountant exam, so I talked with him a lot about his work. At that time, I was a year out of college.

We have a lot of contacts. When I asked him about his professional knowledge, he couldn't answer, so he said that he studied business administration , recommended his colleagues to me, and told me that he had said hello to his colleagues. His colleagues can always be consulted if needed.

His colleagues are indeed very professional, and I understood everything I didn’t understand after he explained it.

Later I took the bank exam and he also resigned.

He said that he was a business man and he really didn’t like the feeling of being restricted at work.

Qin Ming is a warm man who regards my affairs as more important than his own.

I wanted to make money so much at that time that I was willing to work 200 kilometers away from home. It was at this time that Qin Ming came to me.

It took three years from the time we met and got married.

I know that Qin Ming's family conditions are not good, but I think it is not easy to find a responsible man who is willing to put your affairs more important than his own.

Qin Ming and I had a naked marriage, and I didn’t dare tell anyone when I got my marriage certificate from him.

I am afraid that my family will be disappointed in me. I am also afraid that they will ask me what my boyfriend does and I don’t know how to answer.

I have to say that Qin Ming really dotes on me. If my shoelaces come loose, he will tie them up immediately for me without having to bend down. He did my laundry and cut my toenails. I'm afraid of the cold. In winter, he would sleep first, cover himself with a warm quilt, and then give me the place where he was afraid of the heat.

likes to hold me when he sleeps. Even if I am afraid that it will be too hard for him, he will not let go. I put my hands outside the quilt, and he would gently warm my hands and put them back on the quilt. As long as I cough, he will pat my back even in my sleep.

He knows that I am a road addict and I am afraid of the dark. Every time I work overtime or have a meeting, no matter how late it is, he will come to pick me up. Even if I take a taxi, he will come to pick me up.

I told my parents a lot about how good Qin Ming was to me, and my parents finally accepted him.

I love Qin Ming and covet his kindness to me. Qin Ming once said: "I have nothing now, but you have to believe me, I will definitely make you a happy person. What others have, I will definitely give it to you one day."

I especially like to hear this. There is one For a man who loves himself so much and has ideals and ambitions, I feel like I have found a blue chip stock.

After being married for half a year, Qin Ming said: "This city has your job, but it is not suitable for my development. I have no friends here. I want to go back to my hometown to develop."

My husband has his own ideas. How can I not support him? He agreed and gave him his own savings as start-up capital.

My work is already hard, and Qin Ming seems to have become very busy, but no matter what, he will spend at least one day with me every weekend.

Qin Ming really took on the responsibility of supporting the family. Although he did not hand over the money to me, as long as I was with him, he would not let me spend a penny. Even if I bought an ice cream, he would rush to pay the bill. .

When it comes to our future, Qin Ming is also full of confidence.He said: "I am a man, and I have to take on the responsibilities of a man. It is up to me to support my family."

My family said: "A person cannot choose his birth, but he is willing to work hard for you. It’s also a kind of happiness”

Because of the distance, although we have been married for five years, we still have no children.

My mother-in-law would occasionally call and say: "You are not young anymore, it's time to have a baby."

My mother-in-law's words put me under a lot of pressure. Qin Ming always comforted me: "Let nature take its course. What should be there will always be there. No need to It doesn’t matter what my mother says."

When I talked about this with my mother, my mother said that I am really lucky. I will be very happy in the future if I find a husband who protects me so much.

I asked Qin Ming about his business situation, and he always said that I only need to be responsible for my own class and that I should not worry about his affairs.

He said that he had earned part of the money and told me not to worry. In two years, he would be able to buy me a house.

Every time I talk to him about his business situation, Qin Ming always deliberately changes the subject: "Such a laborious matter is not suitable for you girls. I am responsible for making money to support the family, and you are responsible for looking beautiful."

I was immersed in Qin Ming's sweet words and couldn't extricate myself.

I am still planning our future. In two years, Qin Ming will have enough money to buy a house, and I will also have enough money to decorate and buy furniture.

My dream was awakened by a phone call.

"Hello, are you Qin Ming's family member?"

"Yes, what can I do for you?" I asked politely.

"I am from China Everbright Bank . Mr. Qin Ming's credit card has not been paid back and it is overdue. I hope you can convey this to me."

I hung up the phone and immediately called Qin Ming to ask if he really hadn't paid it back. credit card?

Qin Ming was a little impatient with my question: "Don't worry, I will solve my problems myself."

I said: "What kind of difficulties have you encountered? You can tell me, and I will figure out a solution with you." "

"I am a man, how can I ask for your help?"

called me more and more, all urging him to pay back money. Some owed him bank credit cards, some owed loans, and I didn't expect there were online loans.

My life has been really disrupted.

When I went home at the weekend, a man entered the house with him. When he saw me, he said that Qin Ming owed him money.

Before I could say anything, Qin Ming said: "Wife, don't worry, I'm a man. You don't need to worry about my affairs. I can handle my own affairs myself." I looked at the man in front of me and felt ridiculous.

There are too many words like this. I used to believe them to be true, but now, debt collectors are chasing me, and I just feel ridiculous when I say them again.

I carefully understood Qin Ming’s situation: the shop was open, but he spent three days fishing and two days drying the net. As long as his friends gave him a shout, he immediately went to play.

He likes to be called Boss Qin, and he also likes my dependence on him. This gives him a special sense of accomplishment. He tells so many lies that he probably even believes it himself.

The store has always been losing money, but he was unwilling to close it. He even hid it from me and relied on loans to live.

To be honest, I was very angry when I learned about his situation, but I feel that since we are married, we should share the joys and sorrows.

I want to know how much money he owes, but he doesn't want to tell me. Every time he talks, he always talks about it.

"I am a man, and you, a woman, don't need to worry about my affairs."

I used to think this was his sense of responsibility, but I didn't know until now that he actually looked down on women in his heart.

Collection calls will still be made to me, but Qin Ming doesn’t want to face it at all. I asked my mother-in-law to persuade Qin Ming, but he thought I wanted to drag his parents down, and we had a quarrel.

I didn’t tell my parents about him. My parents were in poor health and I didn’t want them to worry about me.

The debt collector called me again. I said to Qin Ming: "Things must be resolved. Please tell me about the current situation and we can work out a feasible repayment plan together."

Qin Ming still said the same thing: "I can solve my own affairs by myself, and I won't use your money."

"But you have affected my normal life." I was a little angry.

"You don't have to worry about my affairs." Qin Ming's voice increased a little.

I said to him: "Leave your sense of responsibility to yourself, let's get a divorce."

Qin Ming looked at me and said, "Okay, divorce is good, I won't affect you."

When I said this, I I was shocked, and I regretted it a little, but Qin Ming thought this was a solution.

When I got the divorce certificate, I was in a daze. Qin Ming and I were really divorced.

Later, Qin Ming’s friend said: "Qin Ming is really a man. He has borne all the debts. Women are reality. When they are rich, they are wives. When they are in debt, they get divorced."

I lied to my mother and I divorced Qin Ming. It’s because I can’t have children. My mother sighed and said, “Qin Ming is a really good man and has a sense of responsibility. I guess his mother can’t accept it, right?” Looking forward to meeting you in the world of words. The

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