Women spend their whole lives dreaming about how to find a man who loves them deeply. Many women spend their entire lives living for others, for their children, and for their husbands, but they never live for themselves.

Women spend their entire lives dreaming about how to find a man who loves them deeply. Many women spend their entire lives living for others, for their children, and for their husbands, but they never live for themselves.

Many women complain about men. I love you with all my heart, but you turn a blind eye to my heart. Sometimes women’s love for men is cheap. Men will only love themselves. If you can’t give men what they want. Value, no matter how nice you are to him, it doesn’t matter.

This is why many couples have been married for more than ten or twenty years, and suddenly their husbands are diagnosed with cancer. The wife wants to save her husband at all costs, because in a woman's mind, her husband is her god, and without her, she feels that she will not be able to survive. Go on, that's a lot of women who spend their lives loving their husbands.

If there is still hope of saving her husband, a woman will donate a part of herself to her husband without mercy.

But what about many men? They encountered that their wives ran faster than rabbits after suffering from cancer, fearing that their money would be spent by their wives. At this time, the men began to be indifferent to their wives and began to persuade their wives to give up treatment. In the end, the women gave up for the sake of their children and their husbands, because Such women love their children and husband more than themselves. They are always thinking about others and never themselves.

The neighbor next door, Sister Wang, is 40 years old and has been married to her husband for 20 years. Sister Wang is usually very gentle. In our minds, she is a good wife and mother. She is a good mother and a good wife. She will be there when her husband comes home from get off work. I personally carry my husband’s briefcase and clothes.

Sometimes we are quite envious. Is this couple still very loving? Of course, what we see is only the superficial love. Recently, Sister Wang suddenly fell ill with breast cancer in the middle and late stages. When Sister Wang heard the news, the sky fell.

She could no longer continue to be a good wife and mother, so she told her husband the news immediately. After hearing the news, his husband had a normal attitude. Breast cancer was in the middle and late stages, so it was nothing. It would be fine if it was removed.

At that time, Sister Wang was on the verge of crying, and her husband just downplayed her illness in his mind. It was not until Sister Wang had to spend money for an operation that she really saw what her husband was like.

When I was about to have the operation, my husband said that the family didn’t have that much money. The operation was also risky. If you were lucky, you could get a good treatment. If you were unlucky, you might lose both your life and money. Look, our family still has a lot of money. We have a house and a loan that has not yet been paid off. If you do this, how will our family live in the future?

At this time, Sister Wang's heart felt cold. It turned out that twenty years of marriage was nothing more than this. The man she once loved wholeheartedly was so selfish. He never considered whether my life or money was more important.

Sister Wang thought that her life for the past twenty years had been in vain. She had never lived for herself. She had always lived for her husband and children, and she ended up like this.

First learn to love yourself

If a woman wants to live a decent life, she must first live for herself. Never live blindly for others. If you think you truly love your husband, your husband will truly love you. Do I really love you?

Women, wake up. You must first learn to love yourself before loving others. If you don’t love yourself anymore, are you still qualified to love others? Once someone doesn't love you anymore, do you have to cry like a baby?

Make yourself more valuable

Women should not think that they have someone to rely on after they get married, and then they can stop working and making money. Women should always remind themselves that even if they get married, It's also valuable.

For example, if you have economic value after getting married, will you live a decent life in your husband's family? In this way, you don't have to rely on your husband's appearance. Once you make a man feel that you are valuable, the man will always respect you and even love you more.

If a woman wants to live a decent life, she should be independent, have independent thoughts and personality, and live her true self. Women, remember, the first person you love in your life should be yourself. Love yourself first before loving others. , this is called decent.