Thoughts after reading " Chicken Feathers "
Life is just any combination of countless little things, whether it is the sour tofu that you forgot to put in the refrigerator or the Coca-Cola that pleases the boss, they are all part of people's life and work. If the tofu is sour, just don't use it. If Coca-Cola can bring about a career advancement, then give it to him.
Work is work, study is study, and life is life. Since you are working, just be a worker. If you are studying, be a scholar. If you are living, then enjoy a happy life. Instead of getting tripped up by trivial matters, because a trivial matter will bring about emotional feelings, so that you can't concentrate on work, study can't be carried out, and life is not happy. This is not necessary, it happens when it happens, we have to solve it instead of worrying about it while solving it. This is emotional internal consumption. A person's energy in a day is limited. There is no need to waste time worrying about these small things. There are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover.
Moreover, a person's emotions are subjective feelings and are the reflection of perception on real life. In fact, you can control your emotions. Just like there are a thousand Hamlets for a thousand readers. Everyone's feelings are different. Maybe you are happy but she is not. You have to make yourself feel that this matter has no right and no need to affect me. I have other things to do, but I don’t have time to worry about this. Or, you can comfort yourself at work and eat delicious food after get off work~ and so on. In fact, this is needed and necessary.
Be the master of your emotions, rather than being manipulated by them. There is nothing in the world that can be accomplished with just emotions, and you also have the ability.
Thinking integration
A type of thinking: open and forward, constantly thinking, constantly integrating, stylistic thinking along the way, everything is connected. Don’t jump to conclusions, judge, or deny at will, and think carefully about the rationality of every aspect. Type II thinking: Not spiritual, but good at reading, moving upward, listening to superior ideas with peace of mind, and practicing them. Three types of thinking: able to live with the flow, thinking derived from worldly wisdom, and able to control life easily. Four types of thinking: Not learning, just walking around, but willing to change in the face of adversity. Five types of thinking: all driven by desire, without objective logic and standards of right and wrong, often hitting the wall but not taking it seriously. Happiness depends on luck generated by the collision of desire and objective facts. The six types of thinking are uneducated and know nothing except eating and drinking. When you criticize someone, you can never criticize any point of view out of your head, and you don’t even know what you are saying. The seven types of thinking include greed, anger, and ignorance, and no basic conscience.
To quickly realize a certain type of thought, one needs to have an elder from the native family who is wise, kind and spiritual to guide the way. Face the world with an open mind, think and discover. If not, you will be trapped in your own thinking attack and avoidance mentality for a long time. People at the lower level of thinking live in a mess, and the portrayal of their lives is the reflection of their thinking. Normal people will feel a very strange and uncomfortable magnetic field when they are with them. They are ignorant and difficult to communicate with, and their thinking is disconnected, and even runs counter to basic facts. Make people "stay away". They may have been fighting against each other at that level and never made progress in their lives.
Human beings should start towards a type of thinking. The whole mentality should be open and inclusive. The basic cognitive model should be established, and then the details of the experience should be touched in life to supplement the "blood and flesh". Reading and traveling are two basic ways of thinking. Without either one, you will become stupid. The deepening of professional knowledge is a necessary choice to make one's life full of connotation. Otherwise, the pattern cannot be opened, and the whole person becomes superficial and ignorant, without the ability to deepen life. Finally, you must be able to play. The source of inspiration lies in the unity of the physical and mental environment. Otherwise, all "success" will be isolated, there will be no sustainable progress, and you can only pick up people teeth and wisdom . Parents' oppression and suppression of freedom will always keep children at the second level, but it is a very stupid methodology to want children to be infinitely excellent.Deep cultivation on the inside, assessing the situation in line with the world, simple and easy-going on the outside, whatever qualities are lacking, find the corresponding environmental experience to make up for it, otherwise one day, your wisdom will be limited by your own shortcomings. Everything that seems to have no connection is somewhat connected, and things that seem high and unattainable are actually right under your feet. Giving up this ability and instead applying it mechanically would give Li himself a limitation.
Corrected model of cognitive world. Think professionally. Go read, integrate logic. We have to continue to experience it. Constantly listen to arguments from all sides and bridge even small worldview differences. The whole person's thinking is correct, round, open and not rigid and oppressive. This is the direction that should be adhered to. When the overall ability reaches a certain level, you will quickly perceive the inner logic of everything and accept and create new things very quickly. At that time, if you have the ability to criticize current problems and resonate with facts, you will be able to master all essential logic faster and faster, and solve and research problems faster. Perhaps the best way to learn is not to pick up other people's wisdom, but to improve one's comprehensive "spiritual power" to achieve resonance.
