We have been in a long-distance relationship for three years, and now we are breaking up. My parents won't let me marry far away, for fear that I will not be able to live well in the future.
He blamed me for not being brave enough and not believing him. Why couldn't I go to his city at all costs?
I know that this turn around is a lifetime, and we have no future.
I have thought about flying to his city at all costs.
I even packed my things several times, but put them down at the last moment.
Maybe he loves me a little more, so I will take this step.
But he didn’t. We are destined to be destined to have different fates.
Later, we separated
html on May 3, our hands were equally divided, and we were always calm when we were on the phone, without crying or making trouble. The moment I put down my phone, my tears flowed down uncontrollably like a flood that burst a dam.I hid in my room alone, cried myself to sleep, and continued crying when I woke up. I didn’t eat for a whole day, and my parents knocked on the door, but I didn’t respond.
After not eating for a day, my mother was worried, so she cooked a bowl of noodles, opened the door, put the noodles on the table, and comforted me not to be too sad.
didn’t want to worry her mother too much, so she got up and ate some noodles.
Tears fell down her cheeks again.
We were together for three years, but unexpectedly, after all the trouble, we separated.
My parents firmly disagreed with my marriage to Anhui. They blamed me for not being brave enough.
On one side is my close relative who loves me, and on the other side is my true love. Sandwiched between them, I really don’t know what to do?
My parents only have two daughters, my sister and me. My father is already 65, my mother is 60, and my sister is still a sophomore in college.
In addition to love, I also have relatives to take care of.
When we first started dating, I was joking, if you have three brothers, one more son is not much, and one less one is not too much. From now on, they can come to our house to be our door-to-door son-in-law.
When we were in love, we agreed all the time, but when it came time to talk about marriage, in addition to the emotional factors that we couldn't let go of, there were more practical reasons that we had to consider.
has a career that he has been working hard on for seven or eight years in his hometown. He has finally made some achievements. It would be a pity to give up.
We don’t have an older brother or younger brother in our family. In the future, we will have to rely on my sister and me to provide for our retirement. I can’t just walk away without a care. Going to a strange city and starting over, there are too many things to give up and the price is too high. I dare not make a decision easily.
We all have our own reasons for holding on, and there is no way to protect this relationship.
Our separation cannot be decided easily by just saying "love or not".
If he loved me more, maybe I would just ignore him.
Before, I had thought about giving the responsibility of taking care of my parents to my sister, to be selfish and to fulfill our relationship.
If for a moment he thought about sacrificing for me, loving me more, and not being so rational, maybe I would have enough courage and be willful.
He didn't. After weighing the pros and cons, he always insisted on giving up my job. It was the best choice for me to go to his city. Reason tells me that he is not wrong, and his career development is more promising than mine. Emotionally she was very hurt, why didn't he give in at all?
Maybe we all love ourselves more, and separation is the best choice for each other.
