is well known ( does not have ), I have a roommate who loves to beat the glory of the king.
Yesterday when I was preparing to write an article, he suddenly sent me a WeChat chat inexplicably.
The tone is mournful and hypocritical, like an abandoned puppy.
At the time I thought his girlfriend broke up with him, but I didn't expect it to be.
It was just a game at noon and I lost and came to me to complain.
This makes me a little angry, and it’s okay to sprinkle dog food in front of me. Now, do you want to come to me to take emotional garbage?
As a result, I haven’t complained about anything. He suddenly said:
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Good fellow, it turned out that I was not the only one to talk to, Aquaman is no doubt.
I didn’t have time to type, so he went on to say:
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After the operation, I have to wonder if he has come to the "big aunt".
Yes, you read that right, boys also have "big aunts".
As everyone knows, every girl has so many days of emotional abnormality and fidgeting in a month, as if she has changed her personality.
What? You said you didn't find it? Please, because you are single! (Sorry, I will dare next time)
If you say,One day I will select "the relatives that girls hate the most".
Then I think the aunt is definitely the champion.
It is said that a woman will experience about 400 menstruation in her lifetime.
Menstruation accompanies the brightest and most energetic time of their lives, but it also brings a lot of trouble.
For example, girls not only have to endure physical bleeding, but also emotional malaise and irritability.
must always accept crazy acne, dizziness, chest pain, back pain, backache and so on.
Not to mention dysmenorrhea, "I really want to throw away the lower body when it hurts", "It's like someone piercing a knife in the lower abdomen", "Thousand arrows piercing the heart is probably like this I feel it"...
But actually,Not only girls will suffer from the great aunt, but even boys will not escape its clutches.
It's just for boys, it has another name, called "Uncle".
Speaking of this, some people may be "inflamed" again:
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_p Ah, don’t think they have a leg just because they both need to secretly wash their underwear and sheets when they come. Nocturnal emission is a sign of a man's sexual maturity. The so-called "fullness" means overflow. In fact, it has nothing to do with the "big uncle". (dig a hole about "dreams" here, we have a chance to talk again)
What kind of uncle is that?
Actually as early as the beginning of the last century,German physician Wilhelm Fries and Austrian psychologist Hermann Swaboda discovered through long-term clinical observation:
There is an emotional cycle in the biological rhythm of the human body, This cycle is universal in everyone regardless of men and women.
Basically every 28 days, male hormone levels will begin to change.
Testosterone and androgen content began to show a downward trend.
This phenomenon is called the "male low tide phenomenon" by medical experts, and privately called it "the big uncle".
In addition, a male emotion expert named Jed Diamond also firmly believes in the existence of the "big uncle".
and call it male irritability syndrome ,Referred to as IMS.
refers to when a certain hormone fluctuates until it finally loses balance, boys will experience mood syndrome similar to menstruating women.
The most obvious manifestation is restlessness, always thinking about finding something to do, but always feeling uneasy.
I don’t know what programs to watch when I watch TV, I don’t know which APP to browse when I play on my mobile phone, and I even struggle with where to play King of Glory.
In addition, boys will also show varying degrees of "aphasia" at this time, in other words, they become autistic .
The reduction of male hormones can change a person from an active personality to a passive personality.
not only loses the interest in active communication, but even avoids it when forced to socialize.
So,Some girls will find that their boyfriend seems to be taciturn for a while, and then returns to normal after a while.
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Although the older uncle is good at mental attacks, it does not mean that physical damage is zero.
The symptoms are obvious and will cause insomnia, fatigue and joint pain during the period of "big uncle".
Older middle-aged men may also have symptoms such as anxiety , headache, oral ulcers 3span, span1_span arrhythmia.
In addition, the uncle is notoriously long lasting, up to 28 days.
But unlike girls, men’s menstrual cycle is irregular and the boundaries are blurry.
is not necessarily monthly, and not every male is strong. The next time may be next year.
However, although the boundaries are blurred, there are still traces to follow.
Because when hormone secretion is strong, men will be more active, thinking quickly, and mood will be more relaxed and happy.
When the hormone secretion is in decline, it will show low mood, poor self-regulation ability, often irritable and fussy.
Therefore, to judge the appearance of the "big uncle", abnormal emotional fluctuations are a more obvious sign.
In addition,A characteristic of the "big uncle" is that it is "briefing the soft and fearing the hard."
A man with good physique is likely to have no feeling about his menstrual period.
Men with weak physique will experience greater mood swings during their menstrual period.
In addition to physiological reasons, life stress and work troubles are also a cause of periodic lows.
When the work pressure is too high and cannot be relieved, hormones and the brain center neurotransmitter are periodically unbalanced.
Men will experience a round of mental depression and emotional outbursts, resulting in psychological tension, depression, and emotional ups and downs.
At the same time, it causes physical discomforts such as decreased immunity and loss of libido. This low tide comes and goes quickly.
Since there is no obvious sign,Many times boys often blame it on other reasons:
Your favorite team has lost, played games and met orphans, girlfriends are chattering again, Party A is in trouble again, and the weather is bad. Now...
Because of the habit of hiding the true emotions, it is difficult for both men and women to notice when the "big uncle" comes.
So when every girl finds that every once in a while, your significant other has a sudden change in temperament:
It is very possible that the "big uncle" is harassing him.
What you need to do at this time is to pour him a glass of brown sugar water, or let him drink more hot water.
"My wife, I am uncomfortable during low tide."
0 Drink plenty of hot water. I'm going to start this round, I'll talk about it later! "
Just kidding, this is the best way to give him solitary space.
To reduce the frequency and symptoms of the uncle, the best way is to strengthen the physical fitness and pay attention to the release of stress.
In this way, the body's hormones can be maintained in a stable range, avoiding "unspeakable hidden".
Okay, let’s stop here for the issue of boys "big aunts".
Finally, the editor would like to ask, have you ever suspected that you or your boyfriend had been to the "big uncle"?
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