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Today, there was a #matchmaker to find 3 objects for the seventy-year-old man to say it's dead# ’s news hit the hot spot.
"The matchmaker gave the seventy-year-old man 3 objects to claim that he was all dead." At first glance, there is a problem with this old man.
But after a closer look, I realized that behind the original joking title is the story of an old man being deceived by a chain, reflecting a sad social reality.
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Mr. Gong is 71 years old this year,I haven't been married in my entire life. I am old and want to find a wife.
After the neighbor knew that the old man had this idea, he took the initiative to introduce him to 4 subjects.
The first one is Pingdingshan . Before I met, I said that the other party was sick and was hospitalized.
because trust, the old man turned 20000 A lot of money, but I was told by my neighbor that the patient was not optimistic, and the person passed away!
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but the second one does not see the above,This time, it was because he was "stabbed by a knife" and needed to be hospitalized. During this period, the old man was given a treatment fee of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan.
but the result is the same: is dead again!
There is a third one, whose home is in Nanyang Xichuan.
The old man only met once, and was told by the matchmaker that the woman’s natal father had fallen to death at the construction site and needed to go home for the funeral.
Thus,The old man transferred more than 30,000 yuan, but unexpectedly, the matchmaker said that died in a car accident on the road.
see here, I believe you will see the article could see that this is a hoax, However, the old man who was thinking about finding a wife did not think of it at all, and was kept in the dark all the time.
The matchmaker then introduced him to the fourth one.
What is terrible is that when the old man gave the matchmaker 7100 yuan, he was told again that the other party had another car accident.
Fortunately, the old man's niece found,She told reporters that the matchmaker was still preparing to introduce the fifth one to the old man. At this time, she felt something was wrong and stopped.
introduced four objects, three did not even face Seeing the above, they were "all dead", and one was still rescued in the hospital!
The matchmaker always asks the elderly for money for different reasons such as rescue and treatment. During this period, the elderly transferred a total of more than 100,000 yuan to the matchmaker.
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Xiaoli help reporters find the matchmaker, she is unable to provide These people's death certificate and transfer records do not have their contact information. At present, the old man has called the police.
According to the latest news,The police have been involved in the investigation, but the introducer is missing.
Did the matchmaker fabricate the facts in this incident? Has the wife he introduced really died? Does his reason for asking for money really exist?
I believe the police will investigate clearly one by one. We just have to wait patiently for the results of the investigation.
However, the emotional problem of the elderly reflected in this incident is still a serious social problem.
Just in the comments on this news, in addition to sympathy for the deceived elderly, Haitang also saw another voice.
Is it wrong for the elderly to pursue "love"? Isn't it that a liar is more damned?
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just a few months ago,There was a video of about 10 minutes that caused an uproar on the Internet.
This video focuses on the love of the elderly in the park, but the key words involved are "taking advantage, one-night stand, sitting on the thigh, etc. 4span strong chat1 _panspan strong 4span1 _span strong .
At first glance, it seems too crazy and incredible. But this is indeed the true love state of the elderly.
Here, they are very straightforward, and they directly state their requirements for their spouse:
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in this" blind date "in the park,Some old people have appeared many times, just to find a wife who can take care of each other and can grow up together.
And some are doing emotional trading.
They don't want to get a marriage certificate, because getting married is like a bird in captivity, and they don't want to lose their freedom.
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Dancing is just an excuse, holding hands, hugging, or even taking home is the purpose.
In addition to the grandpa, many grandpas are also very open to chatting on and strong legs.
At this age, we all know what we need from each other.
Actually, whether you want to choose someone to enjoy your old age, or just want to play with the deformed view of love, there is no doubt that it is: These old people also yearn for love in their hearts!
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Remember the TV series " are very good " in "a larger version of your age, your map Don’t take a bath" ’s stalk?
Su Daqiang fell in love with the little nanny Cai Genhua, and desperately wanted to marry her, she wouldn't listen to anyone persuading her, and she didn't even care about the money. The moths were like a fire.
But as a result, Cai Genhua just fell in love with his house, and when he learned that the house was gone, she turned his face directly with him.
Do you remember the farce of the 61-year-old Aunt Huang who used to scan the entire Internet and insisted on remarrying " Jin Dong "?
The fake "Jin Dong" has a sincere relationship with Aunt Huang. They promised to contact her, meet her, buy a house for her, give her 1 million, and announce to the national audience that they like her ...
In the face of relationships, all women are easily lost, regardless of age.
Aunt Huang listened to the rhetoric of the liar "Jin Dong", and she did not hesitate to fall out with her family and even ran away from home.
What’s more incredible is thatThe profile picture of this account is a photo of Jin Dong, and the video posted is a clip of Jin Dong's online video.
This is such an obvious scam in the eyes of our young people, but more than 60 women have been deceived, and they still believe that this is true love.
Why are the elderly easily deceived into feelings?
In the days when parents were ordered by matchmakers, there was not much love. Just as when Aunt Huang was asked about having experienced love several times in her life, she replied:
"No, never."
, they just gave birth to the mothers who had just given birth for the sake of the water . It’s been a long time since they heard others’ compliments and humorous questions, right?
Suddenly one day, someone "confessed" to them, "cared" them meticulously, praised them as "beautiful",So, easily, there was a turmoil in their hearts.
Then, he fell into the trap of scammers.
They thought that they had found the so-called true love, and they flew to the fire like a young man or a young man.
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Just recently, there are two elderly people living alone in Shanghai, Mr. Zhou and Ms. Zhao.
In order to relieve loneliness and improve life, we tried a new pension model: “cooperative pension” which is neither a couple nor an employment.
But after they lived together for several years,The development of the matter exceeded everyone's expectations.
It turned out that in October 2012, Mr. Zhou, who was in his 80s, saw an enlightenment in the newspaper for living together and looking for singleness. After making contact, I learned that the revelation was published by the 80-year-old Ms. Zhao.
After further communication and negotiation, Mr. Zhou is looking forward to cooperating with Ms. Zhao for the elderly.
In the case of the children’s approval, the two parties decide to live together, take care of each other, and sign the "Cooperative Pension Agreement": The two parties are neither husband and wife nor employment, but a partnership. Pension relationship.
Both parties withdraw part of their pension funds to form a two-person pension fund, which is dedicated to common living expenses. The monthly fund surplus is deposited in a special account in the bank for future shortages.
However, after living together for 6 years, the two went to court due to property issues.
original,In March 2013, Mr. Zhou and Ms. Zhao signed the "Supplementary Agreement" for the pension fund:
Mr. Zhou and Ms. Zhao contributed RMB 2,000 and RMB 1,000 to each other each month respectively All bank accounts are managed by Ms. Zhao.
In July 2016, Mr. Zhou applied for a bank card ending in 4321 at the bank and gave the bank card to Ms. Zhao to use and manage it. Soon after, Ms. Zhao borrowed a bank card from Mr. Zhou for financial management, and the two parties signed an "agreement" for this.
The two parties have agreed that Ms. Zhao will set up a password for use from March 24, 2017, and assume the risk of financial management. The funds in the card before then belong to Mr. Zhou, and in the cards after that The funds belong to Ms. Zhao.
On the same day, Ms. Zhao transferred 200,000 yuan to 4321 bank cards from her own bank card, and purchased 200,000 yuan of wealth management products. Since then, the 4321 bank card has been used by Ms. Zhao, and Ms. Zhao has repeatedly purchased the 200,000 yuan wealth management product after it expires.
originally thought that such a peaceful life with good years would go on.Until December 2018, after 6 years of living together, Mr. Zhou and Ms. Zhao terminated their partnership for the elderly due to conflicts.
At this time, without informing Ms. Zhao, Mr. Zhou went through the procedures for reporting the loss of the bank card ending in 4321 and obtained a new bank card at the same time.
and Ms. Zhao went to the bank a year later to go through the procedures for the 200,000 yuan wealth management product purchased through the 4321 bank card when it expired, she was told that the bank card had been reported as lost and the wealth management product redemption could not be processed .
Afterwards, Mr. Zhou neither handled the redemption of wealth management products for Ms. Zhao nor returned the corresponding money, Ms. Zhao sued him to the court and demanded Mr. Zhou to return 200,000 yuan.
The court ruled that Ms. Zhao’s appeal was reasonable in the first instance and that Mr. Zhou should be returned. However, Mr. Zhou refused to accept it and prosecuted again.
was originally an enviable elderly, healthy, innovative, and loving life elderly. In order to take care of each other and improve the quality of life, sober, rational, voluntary negotiation and agreement were combined, but ultimately it was due to money. Substances corrode the original intention and make copper smelly for the rest of your life.
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Some people say,The two have lived for several years, don't they have any feelings at all? Why bother in court for money?
Actually, this six-year tug-of-war is a deal in itself. How can love be discussed?
When it’s hard to get back to the true heart, even the partnership will eventually be lost to money.
The love of the elderly is really too difficult! There are too many scruples and a wider range of aspects, which is simply a mess!
Some of them are hindered by the incomprehension of their children, or the strange vision of others, and they choose to suppress their own needs and die alone!
Some are more open-minded, break through the common sense, and actively seek a wife who can accompany you to the old age.
Regardless of the former or the latter, it is certain that for the elderly, whether it is physical needs, emotional sustenance, or old age that needs mutual care, they all need love , Need a person to accompany you!
And this process is really too difficult!
For example, at the beginning of the article, the old man was cheated by matchmakers three times and twice.Not only lied to the feelings, but also wasted my life’s savings;
For example, the sentient beings of old people in the park who are in love, but it’s hard to change your heart and it’s easy to flow. , Indulge one's own desires, and then "degenerate" emotionally;
For example, Su Daqiang and Aunt Huang are lacking in emotions, but they are remembered as love under the guise of love. The wealth is countless;
is too much and too much...
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Just as Ma Dong said in " Wonders ", a person can fill up with "". Even though this kind of sweetness is not the sweetness that everyone needs, but the sweetness of white sugar, caramel pudding is sweet, but under certain circumstances, it is difficult for them not to be hungry and lower their standards. . Therefore, as juniors, don't neglect the care for their parents. In addition to material satisfaction, they also need spiritual sustenance.
understand and respect their choices and give them more company. Because of your negligence, maybe it will be done for liars! Because old people are also passionate and desire love!
