Some things can be generous, but some things need to be restrained and stingy.
Women must know how to love themselves in their relationships, but many women devote most of their energy and time to men. They treat men generously, but they treat themselves very harshly.
When you put a lot of things into men, your own things tend to be less, because you think about men in your heart, so you often ignore yourself, sometimes you even ignore yourself Feelings.
In this world, a lot of love ends up being empty in a bamboo basket. Many women have turned from a simple and innocent girl to a bitter woman. These are all because Love, that's why.
However, there are always some women who are very lucky. This person seems to be very happy. Men are addicted to themselves, while women do not pay much. Men often love women.
Anything has a cause and must have an effect. Because of your performance, men will have some opinions on you, will have some actions on you, and will treat you in different ways.
Those women who keep men addicted have only one method, which is to be stingy.
01. Care must be stingy
Many women care about men very much. When men are a little bit troubled, women are always clear about the situation. .
Sometimes men go out to drink, then at this time, women are always very worried about each other, so when the other party comes back, the woman always asks each other.
Some women question their boyfriends or husbands in front of their relatives and friends, so that their husbands or boyfriends lose face. In this case, men will actually feel particularly embarrassed.Because a man pays great attention to his own face, she is not like a woman, but sometimes it doesn't matter if she hurts her face.
So don't care too much about men. Sometimes men go social, this kind of care is too redundant.
Women must know not to put too much pressure on men, but to give men a certain amount of space. Sometimes a man is like a handful of sand. The tighter you pinch, the other party will secretly Slipped away.
So sometimes after giving the other person space, the other person will stay by your side instead, and become more and more addicted to you, because the other person thinks that you respect yourself and give yourself a lot of face, so the other person will think you are like this A woman can get on stage, and taking you out will not cause inconvenience to herself, but will earn some face back for herself.
So in this matter, women should not care too much, men will love you more and more and become addicted to you more and more.
02. Enthusiasm must converge
Women’s enthusiasm for men must be converged. Don’t look for men all the time.
There are some men who are very busy at work, but women always want to let men be with them, so women often go to men, which disturbs men’s work and makes men feel very annoyed.
So under normal circumstances, if a woman finds that this man is very busy, then the woman must not go to the man again, because in this case, the man will feel powerless.
Women should never think that men are working now, so they don’t have time to spend time with you, because this man has changed. Generally, men are mainly career-oriented, and men’s thinking It is directional thinking, not divergent thinking like a woman, divergent thinking can be used with one heart and two purposes.But sometimes men just concentrate on doing their own business.
At this point, a woman must learn to understand, instead of always blaming the man, she will always go to the man to do something.
Some women will guess after seeing a man in this situation, so this makes them feel bad, and the other person's mood is bad. By then, both will lose out, and the relationship may not be well maintained.
03. Be stingy with money
When it comes to money, women must not be lavish on men and buy everything for men. This will not reflect the value of women, but let men Feel that this is right, or make a man feel that this woman is just sticking to herself, and the woman will also lose the price.
Men should be generous with women when it comes to money. Only in this way can they reflect the status of women in men’s minds, but women must not be too generous in this regard. Sometimes women can give men some gifts. In return.
If you spend money to raise a man, this is too exaggerated, and it is thankless for you to do so. In the end, you will suffer a lot from your love in terms of investment.
So when you spend money on a man like this, even if the man wants to break up with you, he will not feel that he has lost, but he will feel that he has made a lot of money.
If you let a man buy things for you, the man will spend more money on you, and the man will not be separated from you, because the man thinks he has invested more money in you , If you break up, then the man is at a loss.
Women should not think that you are generous enough to men, and men know how to be grateful. In fact, in most cases, men often don't know how to be grateful, and some men even know how to be grateful.
but can't control the rest of his life,Therefore, sometimes women feel that women are nurtured by themselves if they invest less in men, and they spend a lot of attention on women, so men will be more reluctant to give up, and women will resist the temptation of the outside world.
Maybe many people think that feelings should be given, but sometimes you have to move in the opposite direction. Paying less will also make men treat you more Cherish.
I always remember what my friend said to me:
"You must lead this man to pay for you, not you sticking to this man all the time, so that you will be very cheap."
Women know how to curb what they are good to men, but to guide men to be good to themselves, so that women will not be humble. In this relationship, women will also take the initiative, and men will become more and more addicted to women.
Because sometimes people tend to account for gains and losses. If a man pays a lot of money to you, over time, men will love you too, sometimes because they love you, but more Most of it is because I have paid too much effort, so I am reluctant to leave you, because after leaving you, these efforts will fall short.
So many men will say this sentence at the end:
"Sometimes I don’t know whether my attachment is because I love you very much, or because I have given a lot of money, so I am reluctant to give up this passage. Feelings."
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