Are international marriages really happy? I was used by him, my aunt was also implicated because of my ignorance

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My name is Siyu and my husband is Kevin. Yes, we are a transnational marriage. And because of this transnational marriage, it almost ruined my life and my only relative.

My parents have passed away since I was a child, and I have been living with my aunt's family all the time. Since I was a rebellious child, I have not obeyed discipline and often provoke my uncle to take action against me. Every time, my aunt helps me out. At that time, I was still very afraid of my uncle, because my uncle said that beating was a real beating, unlike my aunt who said that beating was all done. Every time I was beaten, I remembered it fresh. I was often beaten by my uncle with wires. . According to what he said, it was the idea of ​​being a good person with a golden stick, because I was afraid of being beaten by him and because he was still my junior high school politics teacher, so I was a human being with my tail between my tails at home, and I was afraid of offending him.

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However, my uncle passed away when I just finished junior high school, which made me no longer afraid. So I was even more lawless at home, often playing truant and ran out to fool around. My studies were also scrapped. I didn't go to a good university. I went to a local vocational school. After graduation, I worked as a waiter in a hotel serving dishes. Once a customer left a bag, I stood at the table and waited, so I knew Kevin that bag was naturally his. He thanked me very much and said that he tipped me, but I refused, because of my backbone because this is my job. This made him look at me with admiration, and I agreed to add my WeChat to be polite.

After adding WeChat, he always cares about me. I often ask this and that, but I feel very annoying at first. Do i know you? Am I familiar with you? There is no novelty in asking three times a day if I have dinner in the morning, midnight and evening. Once I ran into him on the way to work when the weather was quite hot that day. I saw two people sitting in the middle of the road ahead. One was a beggar in his 60s, and the other was Kevin, who was actually Kevin. And he was eating steamed buns with the beggar, and the two of them were still talking and laughing, which made me feel quite curious. I have seen videos of foreigners chatting and eating with beggars before,I always thought it was a posing, but I didn't expect to meet it in reality. It was also from that incident that I had a new understanding of him, and I also slowly started chatting with him after that. During the chat, I learned that Kevin was originally an external foreign language teacher in a private training organization. He had been in China for 8 years and was 35 years old, 12 years older than me.

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Kevin told me about their country's affairs, the customs of their country, which attracted me deeply. I also asked if I want to go to a foreign country and say that I can help me work in their country. The same dish can get more than 10,000 20,000 yuan in their country, and I only get 3,000 yuan. He did not dislike me because I was a waiter. On the contrary, he felt that all occupations in the world should be equal, and there should be no discrimination between high and low. This gave me a lot of encouragement, and it made me feel as if I found a confidant, and finally someone who understands me. And we changed from friends to lovers, and within half a year after we became lovers, we became husbands and wives.

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First aunt fiercely opposed, after all, he is so much older than me, let alone Kevin is a foreigner. Sooner or later, it is time for China to return to China, what should I do if I leave, I am from their country or what will I wait for these series of questions. And I don’t care about it. If you love a man, you have to pay for him! This also caused a big mistake for us later. My ignorance hurts not only me but also my aunt who loves me. All of this is caused by me.

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After marriage, Kevin insisted on letting me live in his apartment. I naturally agreed, because I told him about my experience. My life experience and I grew up in my aunt's house, and my aunt has been single since I was in junior high school until now. My aunt is a more beautiful and temperamental woman. She looks like 36 7 and looks pretty well maintained now in her 40s. The main reason is that I don't worry much about my uncle when he is there, and both children are both old when my uncle is away. And there is a job that people admire. The high salary is also the work of high intellectuals in the Institute of Nuclear Power Research. Five social insurance and one housing fund, welfare benefits, wages, etc., are calculated to be more than 10,000 a month, which is considered a high-paying occupation on our side.

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Once my aunt invited me and Kevin to have dinner, Kevin was quite romantic and brought a bottle of red wine over. We ate while chatting, and Kevin and aunt were quite able to talk. After all, they are similar, and they all talk about words that I don't understand, such as what molecules, heat and electricity, fission, etc., so that I am a junior college graduate. The two of you chatted happily one by one, drinking and talking. I just watch TV on the sofa, eat fruit and listen to them talking about things that are boring to me. About 2 hours later, my aunt started to get a little drunk because she drank a lot of red wine and asked me to help her back to the room. Kevin and I were in charge of cleaning, etc. During the period, Kevin said that he needed to prepare for the lesson, after all, it was so late. He had to go to work tomorrow. He didn't have time to go back to prepare lessons, so he prepared lessons on his aunt's computer and asked me to turn on the computer in the study. And I went to the washing aunt to go to bed, everything is so natural for Kevin to prepare lessons.

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About a month later, Kevin asked us to go shopping in the supermarket and said that a lot of things at home have been used up recently. Just passing by the unit where his aunt worked, he suddenly asked to see his aunt and said that he hadn't been there for a long time. Saying that we buy some gifts to visit my aunt, I feel that Kevin is really sensible and knows how to honor my aunt. So we bought some gifts and carried them. Originally, we were not qualified to go in, because the people who went in were from the unit. Outsiders can't enter casually. I called my aunt and the guard let him go. When I arrived at my aunt's office, my aunt had a surprised expression at first. She watched the arrival outside, but she was sweating profusely and didn't say anything. Just a few words in greeting, Kevin said he had diarrhea and asked where there is a toilet. So my aunt told him the location and he went there by himself. My aunt closed the door immediately after seeing him go. What am I doing? Why bring Kevin here, don’t you know where it is? Where is this place for a foreigner to come? I thought it was only you who came to see me. Go to the toilet and wait for him to come out. You go right away! This makes me feel that my aunt at this time is completely different from when I was at home, and now domineering does not allow me to have any disobedience! I was shocked by her momentum and eyes,So ran to the toilet and waited for him. However, after waiting for 20 minutes, she did not come out, and her aunt was called to a meeting by the leader. I called Kevin, and Kevin walked downstairs and told me that the toilet on this floor was broken and blocked and could not be used. So I went upstairs and asked my aunt what was going on there. I said that after the meeting, let’s go back. .

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When I went downstairs, my aunt's words and her stern eyes kept ringing in my mind! I've never seen her so harsh when I grow up. Before we got out of the compound, we heard the harsh alarm sound, and we were surrounded by more than 10 guards standing at the door! And the aunt standing in the distance, the aunt stared at me more sternly, she had to stare at me, which made me feel horrified and scared, and more puzzled why? Let's take a look at why you want the guard to surround us, and not just to wrap our hands around us! More than 10 of their guards pushed us into a room, one after another outside and behind, more than 20 guards came and all of them had weapons in their hands. I cried with fright, and Mike was sweating with fright.

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I asked: Why did my aunt do this to me?

Aunt: Why? When you entered the unit, we intercepted a short message in the background with the message content XXXX. I asked you to follow Mike and let you go to the door and wait for him. Did you go?

Me:......

Aunt: Do you know where this is? where is this place? How can you let a foreigner come with you? what are you thinking?

Me: Aunty, you must be mistaken, Mike only went to the toilet because of diarrhea, and we didn't mean anything. He is also a teacher at a training institution

Aunt: I don't care when you are not texting people, I would rather catch the mistake than let you go. I am working now, not your aunt. The police station will come in a few minutes and wait for them to deal with it!

After Mike heard these words, I obviously felt his anxiety, and he also shook. I found that he kept silent, saying that trembling should be fear.

Several cars came in a few minutes later and we were taken to the Public Security Bureau. They found 2 mobile phones from Mike.There are also a few phone cards, headsets and many other things. A broken IC card was also found from the toilet. And I was taken back to our apartment and found a lot of evidence. Among them, Mike Baker’s computer contained a large number of military photos of some important local departments. Even the content of the conversation my aunt gave him before was edited by him. All the evidence before me makes me shudder, is this my romantic husband Mike? He is still a spy! According to the police, Mike and I will be punished by the law, and my aunt is a staff member and will be severely punished. This is not just a job loss. This has even risen to the level of GJ security. GJ anti-espionage law clearly stipulates that I even listened to it. Let me explain the problem. I not only harmed myself, but also harmed my aunt!


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