I am not saying here that you can live a good life when you marry abroad. You can live a happy life by lying flat. Marrying well does not mean that you can enjoy happiness by marrying. In fact, more often than not, it means to endure hardships, which can’t be eaten in the country, and cultivate oneself. Whether it is suitable for you to marry abroad depends on your wishes and whether you have the following points that I said?
1. Have the courage to challenge and give up the same life as you can see at a glance, but dare to pursue a different way of life. For example, in China, I might find someone to marry and have a baby like most people in China. I live a repetitive life every day, but if I choose to marry Germany, I must first prepare a lot of visa information myself, and many people have already give up.
2, everything starts from zero, even from negative numbers. In a foreign country, in order to integrate into the local life, it is essential to learn the language first. Learning a language requires hard work and persistence. To accumulate contacts, when you first came here, your unfamiliar relatives and friends are not around. This loneliness and helplessness, only those who dare to challenge will regard it as an opportunity to exercise themselves. At work, I’m going to submit my resumes one by one while bumping into walls, and my eating habits are very different from ours. All of these have to be faced alone.
3 The character that overcomes difficulties and is not afraid of losing. Many people may say that foreign husbands will help, and most foreigners are independent and do not cover all major and minor matters. The lengthy and cumbersome process of applying for a visa before marriage is enough to test the firmness of two people. If a woman with this kind of willpower does not live as expected after marriage, even if she is divorced, remarried or living alone, she will still live well, because first of all, she will manage herself well and get along well with herself.
In fact, a woman with a personality of marrying a foreign country at home or abroad is not only financially independent, but the most important thing is independent thinking, but also has a personality that is not afraid of losing and changing her destiny. Do you agree with me?
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