Blind date, a traditional marriage and love model, with its unique efficiency/safety/sex, has been preserved in Chinese civilization for thousands of years, and it still exists widely today.
The troublesome part of the blind date is: when we don’t meet the real person, we can use methods and techniques to shape ourselves, and you can build a good image of span 1. When I was , there was no topic, I didn't understand the display, and I was at a loss.
Many men have good personal conditions. They think that they can lay a good foundation for themselves by matching various requirements, but they have run into a wall countless times in blind dates. I thought that the first meeting was the beginning of the story, but I didn't expect to have reached the end.
Is there any way for everyone to form a perfect impression on the first date of a blind date so that they will not be the rejected person?
1. Choose the right place to get the best of your place
Is it consistent with what I imagined?
Choose the location for the first meeting, many people make mistakes,Some places are not suitable for meeting for the first time:
cinema. The cinema is not a suitable place. You don't know what kind of movies she likes. It's okay to choose a good movie. If you encounter a genre she is not interested in, it will be embarrassing. The two hours she sits with you are very embarrassing and boring. And the movie theater is not suitable for chatting, which will seriously hinder communication, which is contrary to the purpose of meeting.
playground. Similarly, the playground is suitable for two people who are very acquainted to play together, and it is not suitable for the first blind date meeting. Traveling with strangers can be very embarrassing, and some thrilling projects can make people scream out of control. These emotional expressions are not suitable for showing in front of someone you just met. So going to these places will be very restrained, and restraint itself is also a bad experience.
party. Take her to a party to meet. On the one hand, you have to take care of your friends, which will make her feel that she lacks attention. On the other hand, some people have bad intentions and may deliberately or unintentionally expose your dark history or make jokes of unknown depth. Disturb your chance.
So, which places are most suitable? There is only one purpose, that is, a good environment and a good atmosphere, suitable for communication. For example:
coffee shop, tea house. The environment is more elegant, quiet and convenient for communication, and you can order some drinks and snacks. When there is no topic to talk, you can eat some snacks and lick melon seeds to divert your attention.
2. Scenic park.The beautiful scenery, not a noisy environment, makes people feel relaxed. However, it is not recommended for everyone to go to popular attractions during holidays, otherwise the crowd will be crowded and it will not be suitable for the first date.
3. Restaurant. The most traditional and safest choice. Not only is it chatting, but it can also truly reflect whether two people can eat together. Choose a restaurant with a good environment, try to avoid barbecue and hot pot restaurants, these two places are not very good, and the taste will affect the following arrangements after eating. Two people can get three dishes and one soup together, with meat and vegetables.
Second, chat on the right topic, only to occupy all people and
chat. This can be uncomfortable and embarrassing. Such as income, family conditions, property conditions, etc., this is simply a conditional exchange for buying meat in the vegetable market, and there is no romantic atmosphere.
Don’t dig too deeply into the relationship history of the other party. Everyone is not familiar with it. Talking about this topic will reveal that you are very insecure. You can simply ask how many posts you have made, and you should not ask any more.
Talk more about relaxing topics that can involve both of you to create a relaxing atmosphere. What light-hearted topics are girls usually interested in? Like economics, politics, games, real estate, and the like, most girls are not interested. Food, travel, pets, recent popular movies, etc. are all good choices.
When there is no topic, you can open the mobile friend circle or Weibo for help,You can easily find emergency topics in it.
3. Points to note And it's better to choose the daytime. Meeting two people who don't know each other at night will make girls feel insecure.
2. Blind dates are more formal occasions. Girls usually dress up and go to the appointment. You should not dress too casually, otherwise it will be disrespectful to girls. Business casual style is most suitable.
3. Hasty physical contact and flirting will leave you with a bad impression.
4. Arrive at the appointment place 5 minutes in advance, which can show your importance to the appointment.
5. You must be humble and polite when you first meet, and you must not be aggressive. When you talk about a topic that disagrees with, don’t persuade the other person forcibly. The best way is to change the topic.
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