Introduction
Everyone knows that old cows can’t live long after eating tender grass, but some people still try with luck, thinking that they are lucky and meet someone who is good to them, but they didn’t expect to try. After that, the ending is worse than I thought, so if you want to remarry, you need to find someone of the same age. Don't find someone younger or older than yourself, otherwise it will really be miserable.
The following 65-year-old aunt cried out: "Since remarrying a 40-year-old man, I don't even have money to take the bus."
Let's take a look at this story.
Ms. Ma/65 years old
I am 65 years old this year, when I am 50, I retired. Because my condition is good, I go to the beauty salon every day for beauty treatment. Especially young, even if I am now in my 60s, it looks like a 40-something, not like an old woman at all. Many people praise me, saying that I am an immortal goddess, because I really look very young. .
When I was 25 years old, I married a rich second generation. At that time, my husband treated me very well, but after a long time, my husband actually chose to betray me. Because he was wrong first, so he chose After leaving the house, leaving the house, car, and money to me, he arrived, because he knew that it was hard for me to take a child as a woman, so he took the initiative to give up all the property.
Although he has gone out of the house, he is special and capable. He has a company under his name, so he doesn’t have to worry about starving to death. I still admire his ability because it’s really difficult. I met a man who was so motivated and capable, but he had betrayed his marriage, so he had to divorce. Only after the divorce, I will no longer be put on a green hat.
After the divorce, I have always lived by myself, because I have lost faith with you, and will no longer trust men and will never find a wife again.
And I have money, a house, and a job. I don't have to rely on men at all, so it doesn't matter if I can find them. A man is not important to me.
Later as I got older and older,In order to prevent myself from aging, I keep doing beauty treatments and taking hyaluronic acid. Although it costs a lot of money, I never worry because I have a lot of money, even if I spend it, I still have money to use. And my children don’t need my help either. They have their own jobs and never let me worry about them, so I am an old man with no burden.
When I reached the age of 50, I chose to retire. After retirement, I find something I like to do every day. I also arrange my time well every day, and I never let myself be bored, because I like to do a lot of things, basically I can't finish it every day, and I won't get tired of it.
At that time, many people persuaded me to remarry because they thought it was too lonely to live alone. Although it is not too late and the body is very good, you don’t need to rely on anyone, but you will find out when you get old. , I was lonely and helpless when there was no one to take care of.
Although they make a lot of sense, I still don't want to find it. First, I don't want to find it. Second, I also meet the right ones. I don't want to spend this time on these things.
But what I didn’t expect was that when I went swimming, I met a young man, he was only a 40-year-old divorced man, but the first time I saw him, I had a good impression of him , I know, I have no results with him, but seeing his figure and his appearance, I can't help but look at him more, because he is really too standard.
But I didn't take the initiative to talk to him, just watched him secretly. I thought we would not have a chance to chat, but unexpectedly, he came to say hello to me and asked me if I was about his age.
When I heard him say this, I couldn't help but smile, and I responded: "Young man, you are so good at talking, I am a 65-year-old aunt, not as young as you said, just looking young. Now my son is about the same age as you."
After he listened, the whole person was shocked, and he quickly praised me: "Wow, you are 65 years old. I don't believe it. , It looks like you are about the same age as me, how do you maintain it,How to be like an immortal goddess?
His words made me happier. I didn’t expect me to be so young in the eyes of others. I saw him praise me so happy. After swimming, I invited him to dinner.
I did not refuse, but agreed. When I was walking on the street, many people looked at us and felt that we were handsome men and women, because I was very beautiful, young and young, and he was handsome and good in body. So people who don’t know think we are lovers.
I was very excited when I saw the eyes of others admiring me. I didn’t expect that I would have such a day. I was really happy.
Later, after eating, We also asked for each other’s contact information. After returning home, he immediately sent a message to greet me and told me to pay more attention to my body. At that time, there was no generation gap, just rushing to him, I developed feelings for him.
But I am embarrassed to confess to him, after all, I am so old. If I confess to him, I am afraid. He despised me, and was afraid that he would laugh at me. An old woman wanted the old cow to eat tender grass.
It turned out to be unexpected. After we met for half a year, he proposed to me with a bouquet of roses. 99 flowers, it means that we are going to be long.
At that time, I was particularly touched, at such an old age, so that I can receive so many flowers, really happy, in order not to miss such a good man, I too He agreed to his proposal, and the two of them went to get the marriage certificate the next day.
After getting the marriage certificate, he asked to live with me, and I did not refuse. After he moved to my house, he got up every morning and gave it to me. I made breakfast and I felt very happy at that time.
As a result, after remarrying for a while, he always asked me to take money. Every time I asked me to take money, he had different excuses. I was embarrassed not to give it.
And he also took his children to my house and asked me to raise his children. At that time, I didn’t say anything. Every month, he would pay 10,000 yuan to his children.He also has to give him 7,000 living expenses. He usually asks me to borrow some, and he has never repaid the money he borrowed from me. I want to ask him, but I am embarrassed.
Later slowly, my previous deposits were also spent, because he once took 500,000 yuan and bought a BMW. After buying a car, I basically had no money, only retirement money. This way, 6,000 yuan a month, but it’s not enough at all, because he spends a lot of money with his children, and he can’t handle it without 20,000 yuan a month. If I don’t give it to him, I will say that I don’t treat him as a family. But I don’t have that much money anymore, how can I give it?
And since I was with him, my life is getting harder and harder. Sometimes I don’t have money to take the bus. I want to buy a new piece of clothing, but I don’t have money to buy it. My life is particularly miserable. And people are getting older and older, because he has to pay for the family every day, so he dislikes me more and more, always saying that I am an old woman, at that time I was particularly disappointed in him, and I know that he and I am together only for money.
I want to get a divorce, but after the divorce, I spent so much money on him, so I can't bear it, but I will get married and I feel very bitter again. I really don't know what to do now.
Concluding remarks
After reading the above case, let us understand that the elderly must be cautious to remarry, and remarry not to find a man younger than yourself, otherwise you will be like the above woman In this way, not only the life is miserable, but there is no money to spend, and in the end there is no courage to divorce.
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