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Love is a two-player game. Only two people cooperate with each other and maintain the same frequency to make this game go smoothly.
If only one party is struggling and the other party is always indifferent, then in the end it will only let the active person exhaust his energy and choose to stay away from you completely.
Sometimes, love matters do not need to be directly spoken in words. The more easily spoken words are not so trustworthy. After all, the words spoken on the mouth do not require effort, and the effect can be achieved by moving the upper and lower teeth. Take any responsibility.
Judging whether a person likes you is always based on his actual actions, and his true inner thoughts can be measured through direct feedback on his behavior.
After we fall in love with someone, we always demand too much of the other person. We hope that he can take the initiative to do many things without explaining himself. I hope he can control the initiative in love. Before thinking of many things, let yourself be a child with peace of mind, and don't have to worry too much about anything.
If he is not proactive and considerate enough, he will feel sad and even rise to the level of love or not.
Actually, you don't need to be critical in love, don't demand too much of your partner, and don't easily doubt the other person's feelings for you.
There are some men who are not careful enough, do not understand romance, and are not thoughtful enough, but if they are willing to actively cooperate with you to do the following things, they actually like you very much.
Emotionally willing to cooperate with you, represents a kind of acceptance
In love, there are very few situations in which two people are in love at the same time. Most of the time, it is one of the first to express love. The other party slowly moved to you during the long-term relationship, and the two came together.
The person you like first is often very active at the beginning, and everything you get along with is dominated by you. When chatting, you will take the initiative to bring up the topic, and you will always bring up the date first. This is understandable. Even for girls, there is nothing wrong with being brave and proactive in pursuing the people they like, so don't think too much.
is the one you like him first, so don’t ask him to be more active with you. At this time, if a man is willing to cooperate with you, it is actually a kind of acceptance. There are good results.
Except for a small number of people who like to be ambiguous with girls, most men treat love directly and decisively. They are not prone to procrastination. If they like it, they like it. If they don’t like it, they will reject it directly. He did not reject you, on the contrary, they will be very decisive. To cooperate with you, he will respond to the messages you send in the past, and the replies are not perfunctory at all. He will accept all invitations you make, and are willing to accompany you when you are unhappy. You are willing to listen to all the nonsense that you say. A good omen, at least he is accepting you as a person.
Cooperating with you to do what you like is an unconditional pampering
Two people with independent souls come together, there will definitely be a lot of collisions and frictions, life habits and interests Regardless of hobbies, there will always be differences.
He can’t eat spicy food, you don’t like spicy food, he likes quiet games,You like thrilling things, he likes to stay up late, you like to go to bed early, when a collision occurs, the person who is willing to cooperate with you to do what you like, and who is willing to spoil you unconditionally, really likes you.
When watching "Daughters in Love", I can see that Li Bingxi likes Zhang Yuqi . As long as she likes things, he will satisfy her. He will be happy when she sees her happy.
Zhang Yuqi wants to dance tango, Li Bingxi will accompany her, Zhang Yuqi wants to challenge diving, Li Bingxi learns very seriously, Zhang Yuqi likes to play exciting sports, Li Bingxi is obviously afraid of heights and is too scared to let her down. Still mustered the courage to cooperate with her. She likes to eat dishes from a certain restaurant, so she privately contacted the chef to learn cooking, just hoping to satisfy her taste buds. Such unconditional cooperation and pampering made us see a deep love.
Love requires cooperation. To love someone is really not by words, but by actions. Some people say it very well, but the things you like never do with you. Of course, some things really can’t be reluctant, such as if he can’t eat spicy food, don’t force him to cooperate with you, but some things are completely OK. To cooperate with you, when he is willing to make changes, let go of some self-choices to cooperate with you, just like it.
Cooperating with you to do housework, it is a kind of heartache that you are not willing to work hard
Many men think that doing housework is something a woman should do, and they never give her a hand, let alone Said to do something for her.
In fact, in the relationship between two people, no one should do anything. She is willing to do it out of love, and you are willing to cooperate, but also because you want to share the burden for her. Only in this way, two people can be sweet Get along.
we will see those sweet and happy couples,Men are very cooperative in housework. If two people clean up the house together, or cook by one person, the food will be especially sweet. If these things are left to women, men will be even more involved. No, in the end it can only be a woman's resentment, and it is difficult for the two of them to continue walking.
Love comes from distress. With distress, many things will be done naturally.
A man is willing to cooperate with you in housework because he loves you so much that he is reluctant to look at you alone. Because of this cooperation, even if two people are very tired, their hearts will be sweet.
On the contrary, those men who don't understand you and love you do not love you at all.
In love, the higher the degree of cooperation between two people and the sweeter the relationship, the longer they can be between each other.
There are never two people who are naturally suitable. Any long-term love can only go on through constant cooperation and running-in.
You don’t have to ask the other party to do anything for you. In many cases, you can know whether he really loves you by seeing whether he is willing to cooperate with you.
Feelings are not so troublesome. The person who loves you will naturally regard you as important. As long as it can make you happy, he is willing to do anything.
Whether at the beginning of love or in the process of interaction, you need to cooperate. A person who is willing to cooperate with you actually means that he likes you very much.
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