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Before they met Cha Xiaomeng, they were best friends, and they met Cha Xiaomeng through Liu Yin. Mai Tong's character is not a enthusiastic person, but he can attract Cha Xiaomeng.
In the original book, the scene of Zha Xiaomeng and Mai Tong's love is described as follows: : "Zha Xiaomeng fell in love with Maitong at first sight, goodbye to me, and I am in love with him at first sight." _strong3strongspan
But they are not suitable, Cha Xiaomeng, the smoke on her body is too strong, and she values matter more. She is suitable to find a man who is as realistic as a stone to accompany her for life.
They broke up, not surprisingly, Zha Xiaomeng didn't understand Maitong at all. At first, she was with Maitong and wanted to transform him into what she wanted.
What kind of person is Maitong, can be easily changed, his role in "Mother-in-law's Bracelet" loses its meaning.
Maktong is versatile,It gives people a beautiful and noble feeling, not eating the fireworks. What he needs is a partner who shares his interests and understands him. He likes Cha Xiaomeng, but she doesn't understand him.
was with Zha Xiaomeng. Maitong seemed to be forced to accept. He didn't know how to refuse. Zha Xiaomeng was good at strategy. Over time, Maitong accepted Zha Xiaomeng.
In the process of their getting along, Mai was very tired. Two people with completely different personalities have been together for more than two years, and finally they can only face the situation of breaking up.
Although Maitong is not motivated, some people understand him and are willing to be "crazy" with him. When we get married, we need to find someone who understands himself.
Knowing you will not give you pressure
Two people can live their lives together not only by liking, but also by adapting to chai, rice, oil and salt.
For young people today, the most realistic problem is that they cannot afford to live a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Therefore, a lot of love stops on the eve of marriage.
The biggest reason for this is that men’s pressure is already great, and women don’t know what to do, so they constantly pressurize him.
is like Cha Xiaomeng doesn’t understand Maitong,Mai Tong also has the life he wants. Maybe he is not so rich and happy, but what Cha Xiaomeng nags every day is the reality, forcing Mai Tong to buy a house.
Zha Xiaomeng regards the house as important. She has lost her mind. She is material and lofty. It is understandable that she is just an ordinary girl.
But she wanted to buy a house and steal Liu Yin's bracelet, which is absolutely unacceptable to a person as honest as Maitong.
Mai Tong was very depressed because he did not have a house, and failed to meet Cha Xiaomeng’s requirements. The two of them were unable to get married for a long time, and Cha Xiaomeng’s doing so was tantamount to giving Maitong More pressure.
It is normal for women to get a house when they reach a certain age, but it also depends on the situation. Knowing that the other party can't afford a house, if they still demand it strongly, they will appear to be deliberately making things difficult.
If the house loses its bottom line and does something that violates morality, it will only make a man feel that he is particularly "useless", and it is necessary for a woman to do this to achieve the life she wants.
Mai Tong has never been a real material person, he pursues a romantic life, and what he needs is a woman who understands him, to accompany him to experience life together, work hard to buy a house, will not give He creates pressure.
As for Zha Xiaomeng,She is too far from the ideal type of Maitong.
Knowing you will not reveal your shortcomings
As the saying goes, hitting people does not hit the face, and exposing people does not expose the shorts. With Cha Xiaomeng, Mai Tong has no dignity at all.
Zha Xiaomeng always emphasized that they have no money, and when they catch the opportunity, they will ask Maitong when they can have a house that belongs to them. She thinks this is a reminder that Maitong should work hard to earn money. If you listen too much, everyone will get bored.
Maitong knows their current situation, but his current ability really cannot afford a house. This is a fact. Zha Xiaomeng has always been talking about this matter, which is equivalent to revealing Maitong's shortcomings.
Just like Liu Yin said : "Mai Tong is actually a very attractive man, otherwise you won’t fall in love with him at first sight. Maybe it’s because you have lived together for a long time. If you emphasize his poverty too much, you will ignore it. He may be chased by other women."
Shi Zhouxin’s appearance was an accident to Mai Tong. In the original work, he did not deliberately. He concealed the fact that he had a girlfriend, but as the two got in touch with each other more, Mai Tong discovered that it was easier to get along with Shi Zhouxin than with Cha Xiaomeng.
As Liu Yin said, Mai Tong is indeed very attractive, and Shi Zhouxin fell in love with him at first sight.However, Shi Zhouxin is not as realistic as Cha Xiaomeng, pursuing material things.
Mai Tong likes the drama, Shi Zhouxin also likes them, they are together, they have the same hobbies, there are endless topics, these are Zha Xiaomeng never pay attention. Will not discuss with Maitong.
Zha Xiaomeng only cares about the house, whether he is doing well after getting married, and does not care about Mai Tong’s feelings. As long as she thinks it can inspire Mai Tong to move forward, she will speak out whether it hurts or not.
Before Mai Tong has considered whether to get married, Zha Xiaomeng urged him to get married. Mai Tong proposed to marry him, but Zha Xiaomeng refused again. Her reason was that she did not have a house.
Mai Tong has always been good-tempered to cooperate with Zha Xiaomeng. He tolerated everything she said, and once felt guilty for not being able to give Zha Xiaomeng the life she wanted.
He really liked Cha Xiaomeng, and his patience was exhausted in the process of Zha Xiaomeng's continuous disclosure. It happened that Zha Xiaomeng secretly changed Liu Yin's bracelet and told Maitong to break up. chance.
Whether in love or marriage, it’s more important to find someone who understands yourself than you like.
is like Mai Tong and Shi Zhouxin,They are able to talk, even if they know that they are too ambiguous and inappropriate before Maitong is single again, but they still think about each other.
I think that they not only like each other, but also understand each other's life and things they like.
They have endless topics to talk about together, they will go out together to play together, change to Cha Xiaomeng, she will think that Maitong is a waste of time to go to the movies, it is better to think about it. How to make money.
No matter how much money they earn, they are eligible to choose a lifestyle. This is true for Zha Xiaomeng, and even more so for Maitong.
Mai Tong has not made any money for the time being. It is not that he has no plans for the future, but he can't let him change his habit just because of his marriage.
Cha Xiaomeng doesn't understand Maitong, and often drives him to suffocation. No matter how much she likes Maitong, two people will only quarrel about the house together.
Happiness is not only for men to women, but two-way. Maitong cannot give the "big bread" that Zha Xiaomeng wants, and Zha Xiaomeng cannot give Maitong the beautiful love, even if Zha Xiaomeng does not After secretly changing the bracelet, Shi Zhouxin did not appear, and their breakup was inevitable.
In love, only likes cannot be a pillar.You need to understand each other to carry on love.
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