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When I was young, I loved the movie " Westward Journey" so much that the classic lines in the movie can be receded, especially in the movie 紫霞仙子’s classic line is still fresh in my memory today:
"The person I love is a hero of the world. I know that one day, he will appear in a highly anticipated situation. Put on the golden armor and marry me on the seven-colored clouds."
In the movie, Fairy Zixia has good expectations for the person she loves, and she is very persistent in her love. In order to protect her love, even if it is The loss of life is also not hesitating, and people admire at the same time, can't help but be moved to tears.
Like Zixia Fairy, women in reality also have their own expectations for the man they like, either handsome, mature, or reserved. .
However, even if you can meet the type you like, after a real relationship, the result is difficult to predict. Sometimes, some behaviors of men can easily make women feel sad or even give up.
However, there are many reasons that make a woman sad, but it is often not money that makes a woman give up, but these three things.
01: no sense of security
sense of security,It is the most basic emotional need of a woman in love, which is a feeling that can make women feel at ease.
This kind of feeling is not something a man can just say "I love you" casually, nor can it be brought by money. He needs a man's sincere dedication and understanding.
Some people may say that the sense of security is illusory and cannot be seen or touched.
Indeed, the sense of security is invisible and intangible, and love is also illusory, invisible and intangible, but the more invisible and intangible, the more you need to pay more to feel.
In fact, the sense of security a woman wants is often very simple. It may be a warm hug when she is unhappy, or a man’s sentence “Yes I am here".
Or, a man's exclusive love, these things can bring women a sense of security.
However, if a man can only make a woman happy with witty words on weekdays, and when the woman really encounters difficulties, but disappears, leaving the woman to face it alone, then this woman will not follow the man. Feel the sense of security there.
You must know that when a woman has a sense of security, she will have a sense of happiness. Sooner or later, a woman will give up when she follows a man who cannot bring her own sense of security.
02: Tangled with other women
Xiaolei and her boyfriend Xiaohao are high school classmates. The two have been in love for many years, although the two have quarreled and separated. , But finally decided to walk into the palace of marriage together.
However, just a month before the wedding, when Xiaolei was shopping with her best friend, she saw Xiaohao walking intimately with a woman, talking and laughing, and even kissing in the public.
waited until Xiaolei approached and discovered that the woman was not someone else, but Xiaohao's married ex-girlfriend.
Before, Xiaolei had quarreled with her ex-girlfriend because Xiaohao was entangled with her ex-girlfriend, but Xiaohao said that they were just friends, and Xiaolei agreed to continue dating Xiaohao.
Now that the facts are in front of you, Xiaolei has completely given up her heart. She didn't even argue with Xiaohao, but left the house of two people silently by herself, and deleted all the contact information of Xiaohao. No more contact.
When a woman is with a man, she always has a plan. If you don't plan your money, then you must plan your feelings. As long as you meet her emotional needs, she won't leave you.
But if you are entangled with other women all the time, you can't give her emotional satisfaction, she can't even find a reason to be with you, so she can only leave with all her heart.
03: No sense of responsibility
Men, whether they are married or in love, should be a responsible and responsible man. They should not just enjoy themselves and let women do everything. Do.
A good relationship requires two people to manage and be responsible together, not the responsibility of a woman alone.
a man with no sense of responsibility,It must be selfish. Even in love, he will not consider women's feelings. He will only consider himself first in everything. As long as he is comfortable, women's feelings are not within his consideration.
Moreover, usually such men are best at shirking responsibilities. They not only lack the courage to assume responsibility, but also lack the willingness to assume responsibility. They may not share good things with you, but they are professional when they encounter bad things.
In relationships, if a woman meets such a man, her relationship life will not be happy. They seem to be in a relationship with a young child. They have to take care of their mood and Accept their dumping at all times, and take everything on their own. A man like
can only make women give up in the end, because such a man who has no sense of responsibility and responsibility will only make women feel a deep sense of powerlessness, just like a fist hitting cotton, except There is no better choice to leave.
Many people say that women are reality. They are houses, cars, and money when they move. But men without money, cars, and houses can still find the other half. It can be seen that not all women are realistic.
When a woman really falls in love with a man, it doesn’t matter if he has nothing, as long as the man can bring a sense of security to the woman, make her feel at ease and not make him sad, this woman is the same Will stay with him without abandoning.
However, if this man sends warmth to other women all day long, is ambiguous with other women, and wants his own woman to be heartbroken to him, that is undoubtedly a foolish dream.
After all, it’s not just the warm man who sends warmth to other women everywhere.There are scum men, cinder slag.
Most women don't care about following a man's hardships. As long as this man is motivated, responsible and willing to work hard, then no matter how particular she is, she will do it for this man. Because she believes that as long as two people don't give up together, they will have a better life.
But when this woman left with all her heart, it was not that she was too realistic and thought you were poor and couldn't live a hard life.
After all, being poor is not the most terrifying thing. The most terrifying thing is that you make her insecure, can't give her the feelings she wants, and even make her lose hope, let alone share with her.
The reason why a woman really leaves is never related to money. Don't understand it too late.
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