Today is a very ordinary day, because of the epidemic, all family members are refused visits. There are elderly people with poor resistance, so the management is strict. Even if they are critically ill, they cannot be visited even if they die. Some elderly people can only see the last remains after they have passed away at the funeral home.
Even so, this department is still full of beds, and appointments are often required. When the regulations first came out, I thought that many family members would take the elderly back. After all, they would not be able to see the last time before death. It was too inhumane, but no! Perhaps the family members are still lucky that these elderly people will live to be able to visit, but watching the epidemic, it feels like a distant future. Little did he know that the old man would leave at any time.
I still remember the events of the previous two months, there was an old man who said to leave and left without warning at all. It was one night, about 1 o'clock in the evening, and I heard someone yelling "Nurse nurse...come soon" in my dimness, which shocked me and got up to see what was going on.
It turned out that it was an old grandfather who left suddenly. At 12 o'clock, the nurse was handing over by the bed. The grandfather was still awake and talking to the nurse. Some old people here have nothing to do and sleep all day long, sometimes too much during the day. , I went to bed late at night.
The nurse left for a round and didn't arrive for an hour. The aunt got up to help turn over, but found that the grandfather had stopped breathing. She was so frightened that she hurriedly called the nurse. There was a turmoil. Because the doctor was busy trying to rescue her, she had to call her family to inform her family members. At that time, the speaker was turned on to facilitate communication between the doctor and her family. I heard an annoyed voice from the opposite side: "How could this happen? Yesterday, the video was recorded. , Okay, how fast."
In the end, the family members accepted the facts, and because they could not enter the ward, they had to wait outside the inpatient building. Wait for the funeral home car to pick you up before you can make the final farewell. So people, just leave without warning. We cannot help ourselves when we come into this world, and we cannot help ourselves when we leave this world. Life is a subtraction. When we see one side, we lose one side. Some people turn around for a lifetime.
We must cherish the people around us. I am not saying that we have to take these old people back. People are lazy. Once you get used to the easy days, it is difficult to return to the burdened days. It is very hard to take care of an adult who cannot take care of himself. He is not a child, and his size alone is not comparable to a child.
Many parents said that I worked so hard to raise you so much, and took my heart out for you. In the end, I just threw me to the pension institution. There are also some children who said that I worked so hard to take care of the parents who were lying in bed. I was not fake at all. Seeing how filial I was, I was moved and cried.
Every time I see these, I want to laugh. You have the obligation and responsibility to raise your children and educate them to be useful when you put your children down. In the same way, children also have the obligation and responsibility to provide for their parents to provide for their old age and be happy in their old age. To put it bluntly, this is an equivalent exchange. Why should you regard your obligations and responsibilities as a noble thing? I was so touched.
Some parents are usually very busy, and it’s okay to have an elderly person at home to help take care of them. Parents are sent to nursing homes to be taken care of. Why is it that the former is understandable, but the latter cannot be accepted? After all, the concept of the elderly has not changed, and then morality is tied to women.
When the parents go to work, the children follow in the back, crying "Dad, mom! Don't go." When the parents send their children to the nursery, the children cried out: "Don't stop, go home "In order to live, do parents ever stop? The parents feel guilty and want to leave too.
When children have to work and take care of the next generation, they do not have enough skills to take care of their parents and send them to nursing homes. The parents scold “the one who has no conscience and is not filial”. When the parents were sent to the nursing home, the parents watched eagerly, "Hurry up and pick me up." In order to make a living, the children have ever stopped. The children feel guilty and want to leave.
During the epidemic now, some family members want to visit and ask me to secretly let me go, but I can't do anything. There are surveillance everywhere. Once I find out, I have to bear the responsibility. The only thing that can be done is to frequently open videos to let family members take a look at the elderly. Some elderly people can talk and just talk to each other.
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