Many people choose not to have children when they are divorced. First, they worry that their children will endure hardships with them, and there is no financial means to support their children. Second, they worry that it is difficult to find new relationships with their children.
1. Inability to raise children and worry that children will suffer along with them
The divorce rate in society is very high now, and many people choose not to have children after divorce. It's not because you don't love children, or because you want to avoid responsibility, but because you don't have the ability to raise children. Many people are worried that their children will endure hardships with them, especially if the woman has such thoughts. Compared with men, women do not have much heart, so it is difficult for women to raise children alone after divorce. Women are also afraid that their children will endure hardships with them, so some women choose not to have children.
2. Worrying that it will be difficult to start a new relationship with a child
In this world, anyone who is away can live. Now the divorce rate is very high. After the divorce, no one will guard his life for whom, most of them People will start a new relationship again. If the divorce still has children, it will have a great impact on their new life. For example, if a woman takes a child and wants to start a relationship again, she may be rejected by the man. The man will feel that the woman with the child may feel more stressful in life and also find it very troublesome, so he will directly reject such a woman. Some men don't want to bring their children after divorce, because they worry that their children will become a drag on them. Men are very selfish. They want to re-plan their new relationships after the divorce. Therefore, men rarely live with their children. Even if the children belong to the man after the divorce, the man throws the children at his parents in many cases, just because he is worried that the other party will dislike him and take the children and refuse to marry him.
Concluding remarks
No matter how much you don't want children in your heart, you should understand that it is your responsibility to raise children, take care of them, and care for them. If you don't want your conscience to be condemned, you should bravely assume the responsibility of taking care of your children.
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