There are two men in my life.
The first one is my husband.
The second one is my love.
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My husband made me a real woman.
And my love, let me have the happiness of being a woman, never emptiness.
What I want to say is that I love my husband at all times. I never thought about cheating, nor did I want to have an affair.
My husband and I come from the same village. From elementary school to high school, we are all classmates. He is a skilled craftsman. After graduating from high school, he worked in a local shipyard and soon became the technical backbone of the factory. Because he is operated by a lathe, he can do all the work related to technology at home. Whether it is plumbing or production, he can use ordinary electrical appliances, whether at home or in the community.
Whether it is renovation, expansion, or daily repairs, my husband has become the most popular person in the village. What's more, he has become the most practical young man.
After graduating from high school, I started to do wholesale and retail business. Once someone cared, the two of us quickly became one.
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It was a match made in heaven at that time.
Our hometown is on the coast. If you want to make a lot of money, most people choose to go fishing at sea, with an annual income of tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands.
I choose my husband because he is skilled, hardworking and popular. Although his salary is not as good as fishing, our family leads a prosperous life.
is not very rich, but it is respected locally.
At that time, our rural income was not low. We built four big tiled houses. Because of her husband's dexterity, the four of us dress like villas, with flowers all year round, warm at home and abroad. In particular, he used his own skills to design the kitchen, bathroom, and bathroom reasonably. People who come to our house admire our design. Especially the design of heating and tap water circulation loop equipment not only makes the home like spring all the year round, but also designs different levels of small fish ponds and flower stands in the yard. Our home is just a miniature horticultural garden, where you can raise fish and watch fish.Strawberries can be picked all year round, and various fruit trees are planted all around. We never need to go out to buy fruits and vegetables.
The various fruits and vegetables in our small garden have never been cut off, because my husband is a very diligent person, and he takes care of both the home and the outside very well.
People who have been to my house are very surprised.
Classmates and friends think that I am married to a genius from all over the world, no matter whether it is craftsmanship or character, I am impeccable.
But such a good life can't stop her husband's determination to go out and work hard.
At the age of 35, my husband saw a job advertisement for a job in South Korea with an annual salary of 300,000. Three years later, my husband was moved.
Because he is the backbone of the business in the factory, there must be no technical problems.
He now has an annual income of 30,000 yuan, which is 10 times the family's annual salary.
He repeatedly told me that working here for 25 years can only earn 750,000, but working in Korea for three years can earn all the income for 20 years. Why not go to work?
I was moved by this. I hope to go with him and work together, but there are no suitable jobs around. There are two elderly people at home who need my care.
After repeated weighing, he told me that after these three years have passed, we will get married in three years and continue to start after three years.
He also told me very seriously that in the past three years, you can do what you like. But I still believe in you. In the three years I haven't, I won't take care of anything you do.
Because I am not here, I cannot take care of you.
My husband told me to cry directly, because the person I love most in my life will leave me for three years when I need him most, and I won't say anything.
But at any time, you can't shake a man's heart to go out and achieve a career. Although I don't want to, I don't want to be separated from him.
At first, I felt that life was no different.
But with the passage of time, from the inseparability of the past to the emptiness and loneliness of the present
I am a woman of my age.
If I am not married, maybe I don't feel anything.But married people, suddenly the man is no longer around, but are they really uncomfortable?
My husband is also very popular there, and he does a good job. In the first year, he not only returned 300,000 yuan in cash in full, but also earned an extra 100,000 yuan in part-time jobs.
The annual income of 400,000 yuan is the most money our family has seen in so many years.
This also strengthened his confidence in working there. After the three-year contract expired, the factory was extremely satisfied with his performance and hoped to renew the contract for another three years.
Because in these three years, he paid 1.2 million yuan to his family as scheduled, which made me the richest family in the village.
But that's it, I don't want to, because I only have a few years of youth, and after three years I will be 41. There is nothing better than youth.
But for the sake of this family, my husband resolutely renewed his contract with South Korea for three years.
Although I can't stop him, there are still waves in my heart. Is making money more important than anything else?
Can he bear the pain of being away from home for six years?
I know it is not easy for him to go there.
It is not easy for a man to leave home for six years.
missed him very much, but in the end he barely supported his career.
is actually a 6-year income of 2.4 million yuan, which is equivalent to 80 times the local income. Nothing is more attractive than this.
With this money, you can even go to work for a lifetime.
was a bit reluctant, but in the end respected his choice.
During this period, I met my love through business partners.
He understood my difficulties and difficulties.
Every night, he chats with me on the Internet, killing the days of loneliness and emptiness.
His economic conditions are also average, our acquaintance is purely the encounter of two empty and lonely hearts.
He works in a company and is on duty every Wednesday.
He borrows his duty time, sometimes chatting, sometimes coming to accompany me.
Eat and talk.
As time goes by, I know that I am sorry for betraying my husband, but my body is the most honest.
He also told me that if my husband comes back, he will disappear and never bother me again.
I hesitated several times, and thought it was extremely immoral. I thought of my previous love with my husband, and thought of our beautiful life.
I have repeatedly advised us not to overdo it.
That person also accepted and said that if you don't mind, let's talk about it. If you really need it, he will come, but he will promise to keep the secret and not let me make any mistakes.
If the first three years are suffering, then the last three years are suffering for me.
At the same time, I heard that many people who work outside have joined as temporary couples. I asked my husband if it was like this, but his husband never told me.
However, he kept telling me that if I want to do something in the past six years, he will not object, as long as I am happy.
Are you suggesting that there is someone outside him?
Or am I making excuses for my cheating?
But I have never mentioned my netizens here.
In the end, as the chat progressed and time passed, I couldn't hold on anymore. I know my choice is wrong, but there is nothing I can do.
My lover is a handsome man, I am three years younger, and let me re-experience the joy of being a woman.
He always came at nine o'clock in the evening, accompanied me until four o'clock the next day, and then left quietly.
No one in the village knows that anyone has been here.
I also look forward to his duties on Wednesday.
That day, the door was always open. After he came to lock the door, he closed the door gently outside the next morning, without any sound or trace.
He is a temporary husband who has come and gone without a trace. He made my life wonderful again and made my life a little bit fuller.
I never told my husband about this.
Six years are short and long, because my life has never been empty because of me.
It was not until the end of six years of work that I told him that my husband was back and he would not come again.
He hesitated and told me on the Internet,OK.
He told me that he was very grateful for my existence, which made his life never empty. Although three years is short, he will remember it for a lifetime. Although we can never meet again, we can be friends for a lifetime. Although there may not be many opportunities to meet in the future, he will come again if I want to.
But I firmly rejected his idea.
I told him that he can chat online, but he never communicates in real life.
After the husband came back, our life was calm again.
I never dared to mention anything about my love to my husband, because this is always the secret in my heart.
Because of the good secrecy, no one knows that I once had a temporary husband.
After my husband came back, our life started again. Because he went out to work, the family became richer, but we didn't spend too much money, and there were a few things to play in the original house.
Because I might feel guilty about him, I never mentioned what happened in the past six years, whether he has been there, and he never mentioned how I came.
The more so, the more I feel ashamed of him, I can only be more tolerant. As long as it is my husband's request, I rarely oppose it.
My husband likes to play mahjong, so I bought him a mahjong machine online. In the evening, I called a group of friends to play. We did not gamble, but we had a great time.
I used to oppose this. After I came back from get off work, one was financially permitted, and the other was compensation for his absence for so many years.
Leave him alone.
My husband finds it boring to be idle at home. He returned to the shipyard where he used to work, and his life remained the same as before.
In fact, more money and less money seem to have no effect on our lives. With his current salary and my salary, we are more than enough to run this family.
Only in the future, our children's marriage or other aspects, our economic conditions are still very superior.
He also knows that the more than 2 million yuan is his hard-earned money. He does not trade in stocks or manage finances. The money is stored in the bank, which allows him to earn some interest.
he knows,Using your hard-earned money to start a small company is full of risks. If he does nothing, he will be in the bank.
At present, the salary of his company has also increased significantly. It has doubled in 6 years, and the annual income is nearly 100,000, which is enough for our small family.
A few days ago, my lover chatted with me on the Internet and asked me about my current situation. I told him that it was over between us and there could be no second time. The wrong thing made him pass forever.
I will remember the beauty he brought me, but life has returned to its original state, so let's not toss with each other anymore. Lovers also agreed. Now no matter what my husband does, I support him relatively. This is not a question of money, but a redemption of the past years. I must treat him well for the rest of my life. Let us grow old together.
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