My name is Zhang Aichen. I was born in 1988. I am an English teacher. Many people say that I don't look like a teacher, because the teacher gives the impression of being very dignified and rigorous, with the image of black-rimmed glasses. But I'm not, I'm a person who yearns for freedom. I dye my hair, perm my hair, do manicures, and dress very fashionably. I have a very straightforward temperament and I don't like to hide it, so what kind of people do I meet? , I will say whatever is on my mind, so that I have remained single now. According to my best friend's words, I am single by strength.
But even so, I don't change my personality, is it bad to be my true self? People, why should you change yourself because of others? has only lived for a few decades. Be the most authentic self. I don’t want to please anyone, and I don’t care about anyone. In peace, is safe and is at ease. I admit that my temperament is not flattering in this society, but why should I be flattering? I thought I had a clear conscience in and , but I found that I was wrong, this world is not what I imagined, after I broke up with him, I understood everything.
I broke up with him, not just for a moment, but for a long time, bit by bit. I used to open a supplementary school in Harbin . In my career, I can be regarded as a strong woman, but The other half will not work. He lost his job the second month he knew me. After losing his job, he became a little decadent, and he never recovered. He has never looked for a new job. At school, I also had to comfort him with . To be honest, I really didn't dislike him at that time because he didn't work, but later, it made me very sad.
No matter how strong I am, I am still a woman, what does a woman need? What women need is solidity, stability, understanding and tolerance to . It may be that he does not go to work, stays at home every day, does nothing , he starts thinking about , starts suspecting me, he flips through my mobile phone and suspects my relationship with the opposite sex. I have a very strong character, and I couldn't help but have this suspicion of me, and I had a big fight with him. I am very angry, You live in my house in Harbin, drive my car, I can support you without a job, and now you are idle every day, and you are half tired every day, you still want to suspect me?
I am really tired, I broke up with him. he was stunned at the time. Because he thought I couldn't leave him. I never thought I would choose to give up. That night, I said, please leave this house before dawn tomorrow, or I will call the police. Leaving this sentence, I turned to leave. He stood there blankly. Leaving this house, the wind outside was very cold, I tightened my jacket, and at that moment, I didn't even know where to go. Looking sideways, I found a small cafe, and I walked in slowly. The small cafe is very warmly decorated, and the waiter politely asked me what to drink.
I ordered a drink at random, the waiter nodded and told me to wait. At this time, I suddenly found that the man at the next table was very familiar. After a closer look, isn't this Tianhao? Tianhao is a real estate salesman, with a typical little gangster personality, that is, a very ruffian. He happened to look up and saw me, he laughed at me, got up and sat at my table. stay safe ? He has Erlang's legs crossed, typical of a social hooligan. I don't know what happened to . As soon as I saw him, I wanted to laugh. Although I was in a very bad mood at the moment, I couldn't help laughing out loud. Come on, this may be the charm of his own joy.
We chatted a lot that night. His presence made me feel better and I became clear about what kind of life I need. The next day, my boyfriend left my house, but he kept coming to me to apologize, I refused, and I said, we can't do it. He never came to see me later, but I became very interested in another person, that is Tianhao. I sent him messages every three days and asked him to eat and chat. After a long time, I found that he is very talented and has a very unique perspective on problems. I admit, I'm tempted. In the days after , I started chasing Tianhao.
Hard work pays off, Tianhao and I walked together, and a year later, we got married. Finally, I want to say that when chooses a life partner, you must choose to understand you and trust your other half, instead of complaining about you, doubting you, and holding you back the giant baby.
