No matter what a person's appearance or economic situation is, they all hope that they can have a beautiful and pure love, but real life is full of countless special situations. People are ignorant and ignorant about love, but peach blossoms continue, and some people even exchange money for their feelings...
Actually, sometimes you don't mean that you can't meet love, but you don't have certain skills. In particular, many men in love are often as ignorant as wood, so they have missed a good fate in vain. In fact, many women will reveal some of his emotional thoughts, knowingly or not.
Especially in the relationship between the two sexes, these three feelings are what women "crave" most. As long as a man understands it clearly, then love is not far away from him!
23-year-old Miss Zhang: Women yearn most for " identity with " The most desired feeling.
Many men mistakenly think that women are the type of birds who depend on others, and they need men to help with even the little things of changing light bulbs. In fact, only a small number of women are this type, and more women are independent types. For example, I am actually quite outgoing, I can do a lot of housework, and I also have my own planning in my career. Secondly, I also have a clear enough understanding of marriage and the growth of future children.
So if I look for a man, what I want most is his recognition of me.If he always thinks that I am incompetent in all aspects and asks me to obey him in everything, then I will think that he is a macho who treats me with contempt and lack of respect, so I am all for this kind of man If he refuses , no matter how good he is, I will not fall in love with him!
So, if a man wants to pursue the woman he likes, he must agree with her! This recognition is not only an expression of speech, but more of a psychological recognition. After all, every woman grows up from childhood to adulthood. She can't be useless. She also has her own thoughts. Men must respect and agree with her concept of life and life!
28-year-old Ms. Liu: Women are most eager for " security "
Whenever I talk to others about women's special concern for security, many men think that this "security" is illusory and is only used by women to refuse Just one reason. Maybe some women will use "insecurity" as a reason to reject men, but in fact women do need a sense of security psychologically.
is like my ex boyfriend, he is a man who makes me very insecure. First of all, it's not that he is particularly handsome, there are many girls chasing him. If this is the case, I would not feel insecure, because there are many women chasing him, which means that my boyfriend is very good, but it will increase the sense of security he gives me.
My boyfriend is usually an otaku . He stays at home to play games every time after get off work, and he seldom accompanies me to go out shopping . His lack of companionship for me will make me particularly lack of love psychologically, and over time, I will lack a sense of security.
More importantly, he has no plans for his future life. Although I don't dislike him now that he earns less money, at least you must be willing to make progress and have a development plan for the future.But my ex-boyfriend didn't have any. Later, I had a big disagreement with him because of some marriage management issues, so I chose to break up. Although I still have love for him in my heart, I feel that if I continue to get along with my ex-boyfriend, there will inevitably be more conflicts.
For a man who makes women feel insecure, breaking up is the right choice!
31-year-old Ms. Chen: Women most desire " happiness "
Compared with a sense of identity and security, if a man can bring happiness to a woman, then he must be worthy of his life!
My husband is such a person. First of all, he is not a rigid person. Even if he is over 30 now, he will occasionally bring me some small romance and some small surprises. These are husband and wife. Some fun in life. Although it is not a lot of money, it will bring a lot of happiness!
Secondly, my husband is also very professional. He often stays up late at and works overtime until in the middle of the night. I was very distressed, and every time I persuaded him to rest early, but he said that in order for my child and me to have a better life, he must earn a lot of money. All his hard work is a blessing to me!
In fact, this sense of happiness is also mutual. My husband has brought me a full sense of happiness, and I will also bring him a full sense of happiness.
First of all, although I say that I am a housewife and cannot make money, but after my husband gives me the money, I will have a plan to spend it. The and places must be thrifty, and I also pay special attention to the children's Family education, now the child is in the top three in the class every time, his academic performance is particularly good, and his personality is also very lively and cheerful.
My husband often says that having a good wife like me is his greatest happiness!
