The 32-year-old son works in a group and belongs to a public institution. His income is not very high, but it is not low. The daughter-in-law is a college student who has just graduated from the city and has not formally worked. After spending time with her son, she will eat, drink and have fun. As long as the son is resting, they will go out to enjoy the mountains and rivers.
At first I was not very optimistic about their feelings, but it was not easy to talk about young people, so I just watched their development with a bystander attitude. Unexpectedly, when they were together for three months, the woman became pregnant and the son wanted to get married. My wife and I held a wedding for our son.
The new house I bought for my son hasn't been renovated yet, so when we get married, they can only live with us. Considering that my daughter-in-law is pregnant, we basically didn't move our son's room, especially the bed. The idea passed down from the countryside is not to be moved. We just simply arranged it and bought a new quilt.
The bride-in-law said that it would cost 50,000 yuan, and we gave it as much. On the wedding day, they married TV, air conditioner, refrigerator and washing machine. The furniture at home is also a bit old. We put the vertical air conditioner in the living room, so we want our daughter-in-law to live more comfortably. The original TV is no longer usable. My son told us to put on a new TV, which is oversized and so comfortable to watch. There are also washing machines and refrigerators. My son also said that the old ones at home were too old, so he asked us to replace them with new ones.
After my daughter-in-law passed the door, I didn't know if she was shy. She rarely called me and my wife, and my wife had to go to work. I retired and happened to take care of her at home. When I was pregnant, I would cook some nourishing soup for her, but she didn't drink it. I thought it was because I had a bad appetite during pregnancy, so I didn't care. I continued to cook it for her because I was afraid that the baby would not be able to keep up with nutrition. Who knew that one day she directly said that the soup I made was awful and told me not to make it anymore. I was sad in my heart. Later I thought about it. Maybe the pregnant woman was in a bad mood, so I didn't take it seriously.
I cook three meals a day for her at home, but she doesn’t appreciate it and doesn’t eat at all. Instead, she takes out every meal, ordering a variety of hot pot, skewers, barbecue, snail noodles, etc. . I think it is too unhealthy for her to eat like this. After saying a few words, she didn't even say anything to me, and she didn't give me a good look.
I am really worried that my baby is not nutritious, and I have been cooking for so many years. I think it is OK, but I don't understand what makes her unsatisfied.Sometimes when my son comes back, I can’t help but say a few words to my son, wanting him to remind my daughter-in-law to eat more nutritious meals and eat less takeaway.
But after talking to my son, my daughter-in-law hated me even more. She locked herself in the room all day, didn't eat on time, and couldn't walk around. I really can't understand the young people nowadays. In the past, I only heard people say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were not easy to get along with, but when I became a mother-in-law, I really understood.
finally reached the expected date of delivery for the daughter-in-law, she usually exercises less, fetal position is not correct , the doctor recommends caesarean section The baby was born as a grandson. We are all very happy. During the days in the hospital, her mother took care of her in the hospital and I helped take care of the baby. After leaving the hospital, my son and I took care of her. Both of us were busy during the day and night. When the child cried, we immediately regained our spirits. The main reason was to let the daughter-in-law have a good rest and support her body.
But my daughter-in-law still thinks that we are not taking good care of us, and often gets angry. My son and I can only endure her. The son is going to work after the maternity leave, but he was too tired to take care of the child, so he went to the guest room to sleep on his own. Perhaps because of this, the daughter-in-law became dissatisfied, began to get angry, broke things, and the child did not cry Rationale. I couldn't stand it anymore, so I told her a few words, saying that my son would be tired at work, and that she and I can take good care of the children. After that, she even hated me, and the child refused to let me hold it.
In all kinds of contradictions and awkwardness, the grandson is full moon, we did not put full moon wine , the son said that the child is too young, everyone is too tired, wait a hundred days for the child to invite relatives. So I just invited my in-laws to come home for a light meal. In-laws are very close, a half-hour drive away.
At noon the next day of the full moon wine, several people came to the house, and there was a small truck parked in front of the door. I was wondering what happened. My daughter-in-law greeted those people and directed them to move things. They disassembled and emptied the air conditioner, TV, washing machine, and refrigerator in the living room. I wanted to stop it. One of them threatened me and pushed me hard. I fell to the ground and struggled for a long time before getting up. When I got up, they had moved my things, and my daughter-in-law and grandson’s luggage had also been removed.The daughter-in-law hugged her grandson and walked with them.
I quickly called my son to come back. When my son came back, he saw this scene. He drove to his mother-in-law's house. Who knew that he was stopped by those men and prevented him from seeing his daughter-in-law and grandson. The son tried to struggle and was almost beaten.
The son went home angrily and asked me if I was hurt. I just felt that the bones in my waist were particularly painful, but I didn't go to the hospital. I just wiped it with the medicinal liquor I soaked. The most important thing is to take care of my son and daughter-in-law. thing.
I asked my son if he had a quarrel with his daughter-in-law. He said no. It was just because her dowry was used at home when she got married, so she always had opinions. Later, she disliked me and said that she ate takeaway, and also during her confinement. I have accumulated a lot of grievances, so there is such a case, there is really no big contradiction.
I didn't expect that I had been waiting carefully, but in the end I still couldn't avoid the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I asked my son what he planned to do? The son said he was going to get a divorce. I told my son that the baby was just born and still so young. Don't be so impulsive. It might be fine to go to her natal house to coax her in a few days. But the son insisted that he had had enough, and he didn’t want to live anymore. If the child wanted to, we would pay for the support. If she didn’t fight for custody, even if there was no dispute, the child who was breastfeeding would usually be sentenced. To mother.
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Hello everyone, this is Xiaoxin. This is my aunt’s family affair. The aunt told me that she couldn’t communicate with the young people now. She felt that what she did was wrong, and she was also responsible for the failure of her son’s marriage. Although I am a young man, I don’t know much about what young people think. After getting married, isn’t it good for someone to care about and take care of someone? Are there so many contradictions? There are also a dowry and a few electrical appliances. If you care about it, you can communicate with your family to keep it first, and don’t use it first without disassembling it.
Compared with our own struggle to buy a house, decorate ourselves, buy furniture ourselves, and take care of our children, many people really don’t know how much happiness is, but there are still many people who feel that they have a bad life after marriage and want to divorce. I think maybe everyone’s growth,It's all in exchange for grievances and tears. The so-called maturity is just learning how to shed tears in the stomach. And everyone grows up, even if there is persuasion from family and friends, it is useless, they still need to experience and experience. What do you think?
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