A few days ago, a few friends from their hometown in Shanghai had a small gathering. Everyone had similar experiences and ages. They were all retired. Therefore, the corresponding feelings are roughly the same. Therefore, there are a lot of words. To say. During the banquet, everyone talked about their feelings and exchanged ideas. After listening to them, they couldn't help but feel a little emotional. Today I have nothing to do, and I sorted out a few to share with friends and encourage each other.
I found out that there are not many friends that I can contact frequently when I was older.
When I was working, many people had many kinds of friends. There were almost all dinners on weekends, and it was very convenient to do some things. As you get older, especially after you retire, you have fewer and fewer people in contact, and fewer people can contact you frequently, especially if you have nothing to do with friends who can actively contact you. Most of the people in the mobile phone address book are decorations, the longer the time, the less necessary to keep them. Therefore, as the age increases, loneliness will inevitably increase. It should be realized that this is also a natural law, and everyone has to learn to adapt.
Only when he is old did he discover that for children in ordinary families, going to college is still the main choice to change their destiny.
If our predecessors, including our generation, read to change their destiny, no one doubts this proposition. However, in today's era, I am afraid that some people disagree with this statement. The main reason is that the expansion of college enrollment in recent years has made it difficult for graduates to find employment. It is increasingly difficult for children from ordinary families to try to counterattack through college. The author believes that this is true, but it is not entirely true. There are two main reasons for this: First, as far as society is concerned, the number of students who can enter key high schools is a small number. In high schools, there are a small number of students who can enter a good university and popular majors. Then these students will be able to pass the exams after graduation An ideal way out is inevitable. It can be seen that in today's era, it is still a common and effective way to evaluate a person's quality through academic qualifications. Second, even if you are admitted to an ordinary university, as long as you study hard and earnestly in the school for four years, your future prospects will not be bad. Taking a step back, after graduating from university, if you can't even pass the exam for a civil servant or institution, what your future will be like, you can only let society or destiny choose.
I found out when I was older that the so-called useless gossip and nonsense are the most emotional
Everyone think about it carefully,What are the so-called useful words in the communication between relatives? I ask you: "Have you eaten? Are you cold?" Does it work? If you don’t say it, it’s OK? In the unit, the words between colleagues are generally useful, because it is research and deployment work. Think about it again, how many words are useful when you say something between lovers? But that is the most emotional. From this, it can be concluded that a person often actively talks to you some gossip, nonsense, that is the performance of being affectionate and righteous to you. Just imagine, if you don’t talk about gossip or nonsense at home, see how much more you can say?
I realized that the simpler things are harder to do when I get older.
Among the few of us here, some smoke, some love to drink, and some suffer from diabetes. If you want to quit smoking, you just can't quit, and I have decided to do so many times. Controlling blood sugar is very simple, just six words: "Keep your mouth shut, and open your legs", but you just can't do it, or you can't stick to it. There are many such things. Just as Chairman Mao said: “It’s not difficult for a person to do something good, and it’s not difficult for a person to do good things for a lifetime.” The fundamental question here is whether you can persevere. Unfortunately, most people cannot.
I found out that reading more is really useful when I’m older.
Several of us here have their own classmate groups. The difference between the members of the group is the elementary school and the middle school classmates. Look at those students who are a little prosperous. Basically, they were better at studying in the class. Let’s take a look at the people who have developed well in their respective units. Most of them love to read and think well. Therefore, if a person has a good reading habit, generally speaking, the development of the person will not be bad.
Only when I get older did I realize that health is really a person's biggest capital.
is important to health. No one will not know. But when I was young, I really didn't pay much attention. Irregular life and poor diet are common. As a result, when I get older, problems come to my door. Among the people we know, a few have passed away a long time ago. In fact, the root cause of the disease was sitting down when he was young. Therefore, the cost of health is very expensive, and everyone can't afford it!
only got older and found that parents are the first teachers of children. This is reasonable.
This sentence means that family has a great influence on a person's growth. There is a documentary in the United Kingdom that tracks the growth of several children from different families.It took more than fifty years. Finally, I see that the knowledge, culture, occupation, and cultivation of parents have a huge impact on children. Basically, what kind of family will grow up what kind of children, and there are few major changes. Several of us reviewed the situation of our classmates in our elementary school. Therefore, in order to cultivate high-quality next generation, we must start with our parents.
is exactly: old friends get together to chat about the mountains,
the parents are short and random.
Tao is a matter of ordinary people, but
is related to happiness.
Weekend chat
on April 18, 2021.
