Girls, why do we chase matter and appearance?

2021/04/0214:33:12 emotion 1371


Girls, why do we chase matter and appearance? - DayDayNews

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Recently, I received a private message from a girl’s question, she said: "Why do girls now take material and appearance so much"?

I replied: "Maybe they are not chasing material and appearance at all, but chasing the courage to leave a person."

If you leave him, you are not afraid that you will never meet better people, and you can also give yourself and your family a better life.

When meeting someone you like, the first reaction is not inferiority, but I am worthy and will not compromise for money. This is what we are chasing after.

For a girl like me who looks ordinary and has an ordinary family, you said that I don't work hard to improve my appearance, my own ability to make money, what am I going to chase?

Many of us are no longer the age to live by fantasy.

Besides, life doesn't become a good year suddenly.

Girls, why do we chase matter and appearance? - DayDayNews

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Here, I advise most girls to have their own goals, know what kind of life they want to live, what you really want, and then work hard in that direction Work hard so that you won't get lost in the trivial life, won't get lost in the process of begging for love.

Don't be a child when you grow up, no one will pay for the rest of your life.

I often find some bloggers on the Internet who tell girls: "How to find a rich boy", "How to fall in love with the rich second generation", and "How to improve your rank".

In fact, the essence is to improve yourself, If you don't improve your appearance and inner strength to the next level, you won't even have a stepping stone.

Do you really think that there will be a boy who loves you casually?

We all like good people,You ask yourself a question, if you were a boy, would you like yourself?


Girls, why do we chase matter and appearance? - DayDayNews

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There is also a type of girl who may never lack suitors in her life. She finds herself very attractive.

But I want to tell this kind of girl, you have to think about your suitors, do you really like you?

Besides giving some meaningless and worthless sweet words, what else did they give?

Maybe they are a sea king who casts a wide net, you are just a fish in the net of others, so this is not how attractive you are.

Whenever we ask ourselves whether we are worthy or not, we will measure the other's material conditions, what value can you bring to me, and what value can I bring to you.

Although it is said that falling in love is not a deal, who doesn’t like to find a better person on their own?

Girls, why do we chase matter and appearance? - DayDayNews

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To be honest, we pursue material and appearance, we just want to have more chips and more choices instead of picking among those rotten fish and shrimps.

I want to tell everyone, don’t have to die every day for the sake of feelings. . In this world, besides love, there are many important things!

For example, make money.

And who hasn’t fallen in love yet? I remember one time when my boyfriend proposed to break up because I was busy at work. At that time, I was very sad and wanted to cry, but I had a lot of work to do!

Then I forced myself to finish the work as soon as possible, thinking about finding a place where there is no one and crying after finishing the work!

Who knows when he is busy with work,Sleepy and tired, I just want to sleep, just like this day after day, I haven't been sad about the broken-up relationship, the broken-up relationship has passed quietly!

So girls, please chase the things and appearances that make us better!

Girls, why do we chase matter and appearance? - DayDayNews

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About the author:

Ou Xiaoxi, I hope that through my text, you will feel "worthy of the world".

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