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"If you don't agree with 0 beauties to marry me, then we will break up." Three years after the breakup, the boy cried.
30-year-old Ms. Chen:
Three years ago, I broke up with my boyfriend who had been in love for three years. The reason why I broke up with him is very simple, that is, his family refused to give a betrothal gift. To put it bluntly, he wanted to marry me back home with a zero betrothal. Many people say that if two people really like each other, why bother about the bride price? I don't care about the lottery, but at least I have to give it. My parents have said that it doesn't matter how much you multiply, just give it a little, and it's just a cutscene. However, the man refused to make a zero breakthrough. They felt that the betrothal was a sale. So no matter how you accept this zero-beauty principle, don't give it.
In the end, I couldn't help but broke up with my boyfriend. I don’t even think about it. Why is it so difficult to get married now? Isn’t it just a bride price? Give more and give more, and don't give less. The rich can give more, and if there is no money, give less. Isn’t that enough? I just can’t understand why my ex-boyfriend’s family refused to give it. I didn't ask you to give hundreds of thousands. If you don't have tens of thousands of dollars, there will always be thousands of dollars. In fact, according to the conditions of my boyfriend's house, let alone hope, even if his family has two or three hundred thousand, he just doesn't want to pay the money. They think that giving money is buying and selling, and giving money is not love. But let me ask, which girls do not need a bride price to get married, but the amount of bride price is different. Some give more, some give less, but one hundred percent is a gift. My parents said that not giving the bride price is to disrespect the woman, disrespect me or love me, so they disagree with me to marry. I think this is the same reason.
Marriage is one of the biggest things in life. Why does he not give me a gift? Is it easy for my parents to grow up? Based on this, he just doesn't respect me, I don't respect me. Everyone in my family said, let him give it, just give it a little, what's the point? This is very considerate of his family's conditions, and his family's conditions are better than ours, so he even said that he would not give a bride price. I still want Lin Caili to marry me home. I'm not so stupid. You treat me like this before I get married. If I get married, do I still have my status in your family? No money for a word,The girl who was married was sent here. They will definitely be bullied by them after getting married. Usually when you buy things, you don’t use money for things that you take home and spoil them casually, and you will take care of those things you buy back with money, the same reasoning. Even if he loves him again, he firmly disagrees with the marriage of zero Caili.
broke up with him like this, and I will be with other men in the second year after breaking up. My second man was very nice to me, so I told him that just a little bit of the bride price would do. Then he said no. The bride price must be solemn. Although I can't give a lot, I still have to do my best. After all, it is not easy for my parents to raise me. The bride price is also a kind of respect for me. But this boy is so sensible, I don't understand my ex boyfriend... In the end, the boy gave 180,000 yuan as a gift. But my parents returned him 200,000. My parents said that this boy is a good boy, and it is not easy for him to make money, so he will take 200,000 yuan back. My parents didn't want our betrothal gifts, they just walked through the scene and asked me to take the money back and live with him. Of course, I will not give the money directly to my husband at once. I was thinking about bringing out a little from time to time, but I would tell him that the 200,000 yuan is in my hands.
But my husband said that the 200,000 yuan should be kept for self-defense. Although he doesn't have much money, he doesn't want to use the money. Just leave it to me. It turns out that my husband loves me so much. I thought he was just talking about it. I didn't expect my husband to give me the salary card on the second day. He told me that he would pay the salary in the future, and the money in the card is not allowed to spend the 200,000 casually. The 200,000 is reserved for me anyway. If parents need help in the future, they can take it out of the 200,000 yuan and give it to them. If it is not enough, then take it from my salary card. This is a peerless good man. Then I told them I got it, didn’t you say you saw a car last time? Then buy it now. Husband said that he has no money, save a little, and talk about it later. I went and drove the car back on the second day.
I am such a woman, and if others treat me well, I will treat her well. At the beginning, I wanted to marry me home with a zero betrothal gift. I just wanted to laugh when I thought about it. I have been married for two years now. In other words, it has been three years since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. During the two years of marriage with my husband, I lived happily.And had a child. Although it was a girl, I decided to give my husband another child, hoping that the next child would be a boy. In order for our husband to live a happy life, he worked overtime every day before coming back late at night. And I cook supper every night, waiting for him to come back. Of course I don't know how to eat, I'm afraid of getting fat. Then I put water for him, let him take a shower, and then I go to bed after washing clothes.
Although I did not live a rich life with my husband, I had a very happy life. During the day, I saw my ex boyfriend and his parents in the blind date corner of the park. Yes, they went on a blind date at the blind date corner. Then I heard people say that the mother and son are terrible, and I want to marry a daughter-in-law with zero beauties. They became the focus of the audience. I also heard that this boy once rejected a good girl, and now no one dares to have a blind date with him... let alone a girl who dares to marry him. Don't give a lottery, where are the girls who marry him? More or less, I need some beauties... The more people say that I see my ex-boyfriend, the more anxious I am. He wanted to leave there afterwards, but her mother stopped him. His mother stopped him and told him that you don't want to get married, but I still want to hold my grandson. His mother ordered him not to leave and wait for someone who is destined here...
According to the conditions of a boy and the zero betrothal gift of marriage, I don't think he will marry a wife in this life. In other words, they will never find the kind of girl they want in this life. At last the ex-boyfriend cried, but her mother didn't let him go back, and more and more people went there to watch the excitement... There was a lot of discussion... I pushed the child past him. You used to look down on me, but now you can't afford to stand up to me. Although I used to love you very much, but that was already who I used to be. From the moment you despise me, from the moment you want to marry me with zero beauties, there is no relationship between us anymore. Now looking at the situation of my ex-boyfriend, there is no fluctuation in my heart and even a pleasant feeling...I want to say "deserve it". It is impossible to marry a wife with zero beauties... more or less need beauties. Why should I have known this? Goodbye... I walked gently...
Conclusion:
It is true, it is not realistic to want to marry a wife with zero beauties. The bride price is a blessing,It is more of respect. Is it easy for someone to raise a girl? You don't want to give a penny, you want to marry someone home. Even if you don't have money, at least you have to be aware of it. And now many girls will give them back as many gifts as you give them. Isn't it a no-brainer? I just don’t understand what the heroine’s boyfriend thinks. I guess he was afraid that the woman would eat his gift money . But even if the woman eats his gift money, he should give it. It's not easy for someone to raise a girl, so what about giving it a little? Give it a little without losing a piece of meat. I regret it now, but regret is useless. I can only go on a blind date in that kind of blind date corner. And it will make your name worse and worse, no one dares to introduce a girl to you. It will be up to you what to do. Maybe you won't find a wife for a lifetime, so you will die alone at that time.
In real life, there are still many such boys. I hope we can not do this. It is unrealistic to marry a wife with a zero-beauty gift. Giving a bride price is a love for the girl, but also a respect for the girl. Of course, giving the betrothal gift should be done according to one's ability. Give as much as you can, not when the woman's lion opens its mouth. Without affecting the family's life, it is reasonable to meet the bride price offered by the woman. All this is done to make young people happy, not to meet the needs of some adults, or the needs of brother-in-law. I hope that people who see this case will be enlightened. Don't think about Lin Caili marrying a wife. The zero beauties are disrespect for the girl and the woman's family.
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