Parents often complain:
"Children play mobile phones all day at home, are addicted to games, and their academic performance is getting worse and worse, and they don't listen to anything they say..."
Children love to play with mobile phones, which is due to nature, and there are reasons for parents' inaction.
As Ding Lei, a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, said in the interview:
"Many parents are lazy, so they throw their phones to their children to free their time."
After the Inner Mongolia college entrance examination results were released, a boy rushed into the Internet cafe in the early morning.
He checked his grades and saw that he scored more than 200 points, he continued to play games without caring.
In contrast, there is an ordinary rural family in Suqian, Jiangsu Province.
The three children in this family were admitted to Tsinghua , and one was admitted to 211.
They trained them to become talented parents, but they were farmers who had never read much.
They know the importance of reading and know that they can’t help their children in their studies.
So when the child is very young, he strictly urges his children to study and do homework every day.
Under the supervision of parents, children are becoming more and more conscious in their studies.
children gathered together to study and discuss topics together, making rapid progress as they chased each other.
It is an instinct for children to be self-disciplined, and it is a skill for parents to let them be self-disciplined.
Parents should not be too passive in the process of educating their children.
Passively expects the teacher, passively forces the child to study, passively sends the child to tutoring...
So how to awaken the child's internal motivation for learning and develop a child who consciously learns?
Chinese learning ability education advocate, Dr. Yu Jianxiang, who created the learning ability education system for Chinese children, once proposed the "six elements theory" of learning ability -
"learning motivation, learning habits, learning methods, time management, learning will, and learning mind".
Dr. Yu once said: "The improvement of any six elements will promote the improvement and improvement of learning ability."
So the set recommended by Taoma today - "Independent Learning Power of Primary School Students' Comics" is , which is , using the "six elements of learning ability" as the research and development logic, helping children to change from resisting learning to active learning, develop internal motivation, and regard learning as their own business!
This set of books subverts the traditional sense of "learning books". focuses more on stimulating children's interest and allowing children to learn consciously!
This set of books is divided into 3 volumes, namely: "Learning Interest", "Learning Habits" and "Learning Methods".
gradually corresponds to the three stages of cultivating "independent learning ability": Find interest-cultivating habits-mastering methods.
content is not boring without preaching. 5 life scenes with children as the protagonists are drawn into comics . These are real troubles that children encounter in their lives.
For example, when a child doesn't want to learn, what we say repeatedly is nothing more than the following sentences:
But -12 years old is in the "awkward period" , and you can't listen to the big truth, you say yours, he plays hiss.
"Independent Learning Power of Primary School Students' Comics" adopts a four-step approach to talk to children equally and help them solve their problems.
Step 1: Scene restore
First show a common learning scenario in reality:
"When the mother is at home, she pretends to study, and the mother starts to play as soon as she leaves!"
This real and interesting expression, vivid and humorous style, the child thinks: "I am the same!"
First arouse the child's interest in the content, so that the child can continue to watch.
Step 2: My emotional dark cloud
This part restores the little bit in my heart when my child doesn’t want to study!
Why doesn’t anyone want to learn when they look at it? Either you don’t want to learn or you can’t control yourself!
Seeing this, the child was very fond of the whole set of books and felt that this set of books was a good friend who knew him very much.
Get the distance between you and your child so that your child will not be "hostile" to learning.
Step 3: Dr. Yunduo helps
In the face of the troubles of children, Dr. Yunduo will give 3 suggestions.
First relieve the child's sense of self-blame: It is normal to require supervision from parents and teachers when studying.
Then tell the child why he has to complete his homework independently.
Finally, teach children practical and specific "the secret to defeating procrastination".
There is no complaint or criticism in the whole process, only Friendly communication .
There is no reason why children can’t see it. Only by saying it can children see it and be nourished!
Step 4: Chat with Dr. Yunduo
The problem is almost solved, let Dr. Yunduo sort it out again.
If the friend in the book is a good friend of the child, Dr. Yunduo is the elder that the child can rely on.
Doctor Yunduo will encourage children to overcome difficulties independently through comfort and help.
This is also one of the reasons why many parents especially like the elementary school student series.
The entire process does not require parents' guidance and answers. Children can adjust their status by reading it themselves and firmly grasp the independent learning ability!
and Psychology . Education experts protect children , targeted solution to children's learning difficulties, and teach children step by step a correct and efficient learning method!
This set of books is priced at 119.7 yuan, and the group purchase price is only 68 yuan. Buy now, gets an exclusive gift - practice guide !
has a variety of mind map and management tables, such as: 1-day habit development check-in table, daily plan management table, analysis and thinking method...
Q cute painting style + scientific learning tool , so that children can use it immediately after reading the book! While children are "addiction" in learning, improves their thinking ability and time management ability! Click the link below to buy:
