Ms. Li Xinmin, Yao Ma, said that compared with excellent Chinese and English scores, Yao Beina's math scores in are indeed not very good.
A joke was widely circulated in the public: When Yao Beina was in junior high school, she only scored 21 points in a math test, and the scores she got were more than the scores deducted by many of her classmates.
However, what many people don’t know is that because of this 21-point math test, Yao Beina ran away from home. What many people don’t know is why she only scored 21 points?
biography "Yao Beina: A Girl Singing with Life" revealed that several years later, when Yao Beina recalled this very shameless thing with her mother, she said that it was a math teacher who made her feel extremely frustrated.
The story is roughly as follows:
One day, Yao Beina encountered a math problem and couldn't do it, so she went to ask the teacher. But the teacher sat in front of the podium in the classroom without even raising her eyelids. In front of everyone, she said indifferently: "Go back to read a book!" But Yao Beina noticed that when those students with particularly good math grades went to find this teacher, he would explain patiently, which made Yao Beina, who seemed confident but was actually timid, deeply hit. Many years later, when thinking about this scene at that time, Yao Beina was still angry: "If I could understand it, do I still need to ask the teacher?"
Yao Beina, who was dissatisfied but helpless, started from then on, when she was in math class, she "non-violently did not cooperate" with the teacher. She simply lie on the desk and slept. When she caught the math test, she copied the test papers of her deskmate. (See the biography "Yao Beina: A girl who sings with her life" pages 63 to 67)
Because of a teacher's words, Yao Beina completely said goodbye to mathematics, but should this teacher also reflect on her simple and crude behavior?
It can be seen that every student has his own personality and is very sensitive. Their cognitive level is limited, so it is inevitable that they will be confused, let alone middle school students who have entered the rebellious period of youth. Therefore, it is a great blessing for a student to meet a good teacher. A teacher’s attitude towards students, even a little bit of carelessness, may affect students’ thoughts and behaviors, and will have a significant impact on their studies and personality. Unfortunately, the "Yao Beina's 21-point phenomenon" is not an isolated case. In real life, many students have caused psychological shadows and even destroyed because of an inappropriate statement from the teacher.
Of course, advocating giving students more care and care does not mean that they cannot criticize. Because criticism must be an important educational weapon, otherwise, how could a ruler be left in the hands of a private school teacher in ancient China? How come there is a common saying among the people that "there is a filial son under the stick, and the good man under the yellow jing trunk" is circulating? Although modern education opposes corporal punishment, returning the "ruler" symbolizing punishment to teachers is a common appeal from many knowledgeable people in recent years, which is enough to illustrate the importance of criticism and punishment in education.
Yao Beina has been criticized.
For example, when she transferred from popular singing major to national singing major, because the real and false voices were not smooth, her professional teacher, Professor Feng Jiahui from Wuhan Conservatory of Music, once laughed at her as a "broken voice". Comparing the voice of a student who is studying vocal music to a "broken gong", this criticism is very heavy, and Yao Beina cried in an anxious way, but Professor Feng did not try to speak quickly for a moment. She then thought of many ways to help Yao Beina break through this difficulty. When Yao Beina rejected the national singing style because she liked pop songs, Professor Feng not only criticized her harshly, but also explained to her the truth that various singing styles were different and the same. In the end, she was successfully admitted to the China Conservatory of Music.
Yao Beina has also been criticized by her mother.
Like all piano children, Yao Beina was scolded and even beaten by her mother when she was a child because she didn’t practice the piano well. But the most ruthless time Yao Ma criticized her was when she ran out of the recruit training base in order to participate in an art event, intending to leave without saying goodbye to the Navy Art Troupe.In response, Yao Ma severely criticized her for being "escape", which would leave a "stain" in her life, and warned her that "one should do things with reason, conciseness and rules." It was under the guidance of Yao Ma's soft and hard work that Yao Beina realized her recklessness and finally successfully resolved the "desergeant storm".
Former vice principal of Shayang Middle School in Jingmen City, Hubei Province Yang Jining was moved by Yao Beina's experience and picked out the above two examples from the book "Yao Beina: A Girl Singing with Life" and wrote a book review "Yao Beina: This Girl Once Comes", published in the "Yangzi Evening News", and was later forwarded by the "Jingmen Evening News".
As an educator, Mr. Yang Jining pointed out in the book review: " criticizes children with love, not in the name of love. The means of love are full of warmth, and the name of love is often scolding and torture." He also emphasized in particular: "Who says criticism is not education? Yao Beina turns from an ugly duckling to a white swan in criticism."
This is very true, which should arouse deep thoughts from teachers and parents.
Attachment: Full text of Mr. Yang Jining's book review
"Yao Beina": This girl has been to
For the entertainment industry, I am quite hilarious, mainly because there are too many non-artistic things in the entertainment industry, which limits my willingness to further contact and understand, and is even a little disgusted. It was not until I read the newly published "Yao Beina: A Girl Singing with Life" that I realized that I had made a mistake of generalizing, just as Mr. Lu Xun said, I also poured out the child when I poured the foot wash water.
Author Fan Hongtao wrote Yao Beina's short and glorious life, which completely subverted my perception: the music circle is not just the entertainment circle. "Yao Beina" constructed the status of Yao Beina as a music goddess in my heart, and her "na" beauty convinced me. Yao Beina is not just a singer, she uses her talent and character to build "Yao Beina's appearance".
I am sorry for Yao Beina. Art is as brilliant as red leaves, but life is short-lived.
What kind of musician does "Yao Beina" describe?
On the back cover of the book, there is a general comment about Yao Beina:
"Touching Jiangcheng" 2014 Wuhan Character Selection Activity Award Sentence: She may be entertained, but she never entertains. She warms our hearts with innocent art, and she extends the journey of life with the steps of pursuing dreams...
2015 5th " National Moral Model " candidate introduction: As an outstanding young singer who is widely loved by the public, Yao Beina is enthusiastic about charity and participates in various charity activities. Unfortunately, she died of terminal illness and died prematurely. Her family donated cornea to many eye diseases patients according to her instructions, so that they can regain their light.
On April 4, 2015, International Astronomical Federation issued an announcement to name the asteroid 41981 "Yao Beina": Yao Beina (1981-2015), a talented and courageous Chinese female singer who has won awards for her achievements in pop music... After her unfortunate death, she donated her cornea.
This is her tag, the definition of her in the world. Ask yourself, how many of us can get one of them?
Yao Beina's artistic achievements are very significant. She is the first heroine of the large-scale musical " Sands ", the champion of CCTV's " Youth Song Competition ", the singer of excellent film and television dramas such as "The Legend of Zhen Huan" and "1942", and the uncrowned king of "The Voice of China"; CCTV's "The Sky of Heaven Is Light" at midnight in the Year of the Horse Spring Festival Gala...
How did Yao Beina grow into a "adult"?
"Yao Beina" tracks Yao Beina's life. What surprised me was that I could see from it that Yao Beina had also experienced loneliness.
Yao Beina's parents are music workers and often perform outside, so they can't take care of Yao Beina, so when she was a child, she was fostered at her grandmother's house and aunt's house.In a sense, Yao Beina is also a "left-behind child", but her situation is slightly better than that of left-behind children in rural areas, and she endures loneliness for a relatively short time.
Emotion doesn’t want you to stay away from your loved ones, life makes you have to go on the road. Fortunately, this embarrassment cultivated her spirit of independence.
truant school and fear are something that many people have had in childhood and adolescents.
When Yao Beina was in junior high school, her math grades were very poor. Once she only got 21 points and did not dare to see her parents, she ran away from home.
Many people think that singing and dancing have poor cultural grades, especially because they cannot learn mathematics well. But Yao Beina was unable to learn mathematics well because she had encountered a "critical blow" from her math teacher. When she asked for a math problem, the teacher impatiently asked her to read the book by herself. This indifference completely hurts a child's heart, so that she fights against the teacher by not learning mathematics, and also accidentally hurts herself.
Obviously, this story disclosed in "Yao Beina" is revealing that criticism of children should be done by means of love, not in the name of love. The means of love are full of warmth, and the name of love is often reprimanding and torture.
Fortunately, Yao Beina met a loving teacher.
In response to Yao Beina's idea of singing pop songs, Professor Feng Jiahui of Wuhan Conservatory of Music once criticized her for being a "broken voice". With her rich teaching experience, she told her that the national singing method can expand her voice range and lay a solid foundation for her to be a pop singer. Professor Dong Hua , Chinese Conservatory of Music criticized Yao Beina on the same issue and guided it carefully.
Who says criticism is not education? Yao Beina changed from an ugly duckling to a white swan in criticism.
There is a criterion for judging whether a book is good or not: can it attract readers to read it all the time. When you read "Yao Beina", you will be walked with the rhythm. The author writes like a flowing cloud, like a river flowing thousands of miles; the reader reads happily, like three streams of springs, one stack of laughter, one stack of crying, one stack of sorrow, constantly changing emotions. This taste has not yet ended, and the taste has come out again, and this is going on. The author is worthy of being a senior media person, knows how to tell stories, and grasps readers tightly.
After reading "Yao Beina" with tears, the " Heart Fire " she sang in her ears: "If I haven't cried late at night, how can I be qualified to talk about my destiny and life? I would rather flash heroically than be dull silence..." The cold and exquisite photo on the cover clearly tells us that this girl has been here.
(first published in the Yangzi Evening News on October 27, 2022, forwarded in the Jingmen Evening News on October 28, 2022)
