Introduction : "
,000 is inferior, only reading is high" . With the development of society, reading has an increasing influence on a person, especially for children from ordinary families. Studying well may be the best way for them to get rid of their original family status.
I have a friend z. Their family’s financial conditions are not very good. When they were young, they lived in a remote village. Although their lives were hard, their friends’ parents were very open-minded. They told z since they were young that if they wanted to change the current living conditions of their families, they had to study hard and get out of this small village.
With the support of his parents, my friend z was admitted to a first-class university. Finally, through his own efforts, he found a good job and settled a home in this city. After he made some achievements, he brought his parents to his side. Now the family is in a happy mood and lives a very happy life.
Because of his experience, my friend z also has very strict requirements for his children. He educates his children that if they want to live the life they want, they must study hard and not slacken.
Every parent has different views on the education issues of children. Some people think that they should let their children develop freely, while others think that they should be fully equipped to let them learn more. But smart parents often use some methods to make their children realize the importance of reading and take the initiative to read.
But in today's society, there are really not many children who can really calm down and study hard. The most important reason for this phenomenon is that in addition to the temptation of some electronic products on children in contemporary society, is that they did not develop a good reading habit at all when they were young.
Why is it said that good reading habits are the most important condition for children to love reading?
When they are still fetal, the first thing children develop is listening . About 2 weeks, they can already hear the outside world and what says to their parents, and they will also make some responses. During this period, some parents who focus on prenatal education have begun to read for their babies. They will read some picture books, fairy tales, etc. every day, so that their children will get used to their parents' reading in their stomachs.
This reading habit is something that some parents can persist for a long time, such as telling stories before going to bed at night. When reading becomes a common habit for children, they will fall in love with reading, and they can even take the initiative to read without their parents' forced efforts.
Reading is very important for children, especially in today's educational background. Not only parents, but even teachers are paying more and more attention to their children's reading, including the reading of some excellent extracurricular books.
Why do you want your children to read?
Compared with those children born with golden spoons, the best way for children from ordinary families to make their future better is to learn. This is the only way they can surpass the children of rich people.
CCTV host Dong Qing once said "If you don't study, you will get the humility and bottom of your life" .
In addition to the education of parents and schools, children can also gain more knowledge in books. Perhaps the books they are reading now cannot immediately show their role.
But as there is a saying: Those books you have read will eventually become your blood and change your destiny. When needed, the experience of books will become the confidence of children, giving them more confidence to face the difficulties and tests that will come.
As parents, don’t think that your children are still young. Let your children cultivate their reading habits later. It is never too late to cultivate good habits. Maybe when you realize that you want to cultivate your children in this regard, others are already ahead of you for a long time. Therefore, to make children fall in love with reading, they should focus on cultivating when they are young.
How to help children develop the habit of loving reading?
. The role of parents’ role model
Many times, the words and deeds of parents have a great impact on their children, so it is very important for parents to pay attention to their role model.
Imagine that in an atmosphere full of scholarly families, when the elders and parents around me are reading quietly, will the children go to play games or watch cartoons with their mobile phones? Or can children read there quietly in the noise of mahjong?
If you want your children to fall in love with reading, parents must first be their own role model, love reading, and be a positive role model for their children's growth.
. Don’t be too solidified in reading scenes
Some parents believe that reading is done in the study or library. Only by picking up books in these places can it be considered real reading.
This is actually wrong. No matter where people who truly love reading are, they can take time to read it, such as on the sofa, balcony, carpet, or even on the grass in the outdoor park.
Therefore, parents should not overly consolidate the reading scenes of their children, but let the reading habit permeate their children's daily life.
. Don’t read too rigidly
0 Just sticking to the reading form of books will make children feel too stiff, especially when reading some obscure content, if you just let the children understand it using the content explained in the book, it will easily dispel their interest in continuing to read.
Tips: Parents may wish to change the form so that their children should not be too rigid and tough in their reading. When they encounter some interesting things while reading, parents can practice with their children and learn more knowledge through fun and games.
Conclusion:
Reading is indeed a very hard thing. In addition to learning new knowledge every day, you also have to do a lot of homework, and the children are also under pressure. What parents can do is to give them support and encouragement behind their backs. When they want to give up, tell them that if they suffer the hardship of study, they will not have to suffer the hardship of life in the future. They will only grow once, and don’t miss the precious opportunity to study.
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