A good dormitory atmosphere can have a great impact on the physical and mental health of college students.
In college, our roommates are most in contact with us, especially in junior high school and junior high school, and basically have no intersection with the outside world.
So a good dormitory relationship is essential for college students.
I have no good relationship with my roommates. My college life is likely not very beautiful.
Most of the campus violence we often hear about happens between dormitories.
Take an event with a relatively large social impact last year.
Shenyang University of TechnologyA senior student was bullied and insulted by the other four roommates for a long time, which led to his resentment for a long time. In the end, he stabbed a roommate with a fruit knife for more than 100 times.
Once this incident was reported, it attracted considerable attention in the society. In the end, the senior student was sentenced to death penalty and deprived of political rights for life.
In his youth, he ruined his lives and two families due to dormitory relationships.
And according to statistics, students of 53.2℅ have suffered language violence .
And in the campus violence that occurs, 75% of the cases are quarrels, fights, and some even develop into criminal cases.
A good dormitory relationship will make a dormitory warm and beautiful.
Take the seniors around me as an example.
Their dormitories are all from all over the world, and they will have obvious differences in their diet and lifestyles. Instead of worsening the dormitory relationship, they communicated and understood each other, tried to accept each other's cultural differences, tolerated each other, and resolved any contradictions in a timely manner.
So as soon as you enter their dormitory, you can feel a very natural atmosphere. And during the postgraduate entrance examination, they supervised each other, self-disciplinedly and undisciplinedly, and finally all the dormitories were admitted to good graduate students.
This has been passed down by word of mouth in our school.
Good dormitory relationships will be of great help to the physical and mental health of college students.
Because in our college life, we will encounter some setbacks more or less. Helping each other and rejoicing each other in the dormitory is a good solution.
So how can we have a good dormitory atmosphere?
First of all, put your heart in mind.
There will inevitably be some friction when getting along with roommates. But if we think from the other person's perspective, you will find that the resentment is not that great. If you communicate calmly and carefully, the conflict will be resolved.
Secondly, don’t be irritable when encountering things, and don’t be impulsive when doing things.
Tragedy often occurs because of poor control of one's emotions and impulse.
As an adult, maintaining your emotional stability is a compulsory course. When there is a disagreement between
, calm yourself down first. Impulse is the devil.
Finally, don’t integrate into the circle that cannot be integrated. University is a small society, and there are all kinds of people. We can only ask ourselves to do what we should do, and we have no right to interfere with others. But there will always be some troublemakers who will provoke us.
All we have to do is ignore it. If it really cannot be solved, we can communicate with the counselor and parents. With the intervention of teachers and parents, you can choose to change dormitories or rent a house off campus by yourself.
Faced with unreasonable troubles, people who like to find faults and gossip, it is best not to have a deep relationship with people. You often don’t know when people like
will cause you a stumbling block, and you can’t be guarded against.
So just maintain a normal dormitory relationship, but you don’t have to be spoiled, you can’t be the soft persimmon that can be controlled by others.
Finally at the end of the article, I want to tell you that
Whether in school or in society, we must abide by and be a qualified citizen. Don’t say everything, don’t do anything at all; don’t cause trouble if you have nothing to do, don’t be afraid of things if you have something to do!
