Lili is a teacher from a high school department of a key middle school. She teaches English in two classes and is also the head teacher of one class. She is busy with work every day. My daughter is in the first grade of junior high school, but she is not a good-looking person, and she has many worries.
My daughter is smart and clever. She likes anime and food, but she doesn't like reading textbooks. After entering the first year of junior high school, she announced on the first day that she would not go to school for evening self-study and would stay at home to study.
Li Li has always been relaxed in her daughter’s education. She thinks that as long as she is conscious, it will be the same wherever she studies? I just remind my daughter to finish her homework after school so that she can do other things she likes.
My daughter was very excited and answered her mother's words. However, for several days, Lili got home from the evening shift and found that her daughter was sitting on the sofa watching TV, still eating popcorn, and laughing from time to time. It turned out that she was watching her favorite cartoon.
"Have you finished your homework?" Lili asked her daughter loudly while taking off her shoes.
"I don't know how to do math, teach me." The daughter shouted loudly.
"Take it over and let me see." Lili did not refuse. She remembered that she was a math representative when she was in junior high school, so she should be fine with math in the first year of junior high school.
turns out to be a simple one-element equation . Isn’t this easy? Lili finished it in just a few seconds. After listening to it, her daughter quickly copied Lili’s calculation process just now, and finished her homework after just a few strokes. Finally, I praised Lili for a few words: "Mom, you are not bad. You can do math problems. Teach me in the future."
For the next week, repeated images continued to appear. Lili returned home very tiredly, but what was waiting for her was her daughter's math problems, and her daughter was happily watching TV. In other words, she wrote her daughter’s math homework, and the other party just copied it.
She suddenly felt that it was wrong for her to do this. In the future, her daughter's math problems will become more and more difficult and she can't deal with them. She has to let her take the initiative to learn.
Sure enough, when it comes to the second grade of junior high school, Lili will not be able to do some questions. When her daughter came to ask her again, she asked back, "Why don't you ask the teacher?" Then he gave a suggestion: "Or, I'll take you to the building opposite to find a very excellent math teacher. She is my good friend, so let her guide you in person."
"I won't go, you go and ask, come and teach me after asking." After the daughter said that, she stuffed the test paper into her hand and kept pushing her out the door. Looking at her daughter's cunning appearance, she sighed, but she still walked out of the door with the test paper.
ran to the building opposite like a gust of wind, rang the doorbell of Teacher Xu's house, and the other party opened the door and was quite surprised to see that it was Lili. When Lili explained her purpose, Teacher Xu laughed and joked, "Lili, you won't change your career and become a math teacher, right?"
"There's no way, you know that lazy person in my family. I want to bring her to you. She doesn't want to do it, and she even said that I will learn to teach her again." Lili complained.
"It's not good to do this. You have to ask her to ask questions on your own initiative. You can't help her ask other teachers every day." Teacher Xiao Xu said sincerely.
"You are right. I have wanted to change for a long time, but I can't help but talk about my daughter, so I just took all her topics on myself." Lili said and nodded.
When I got home, Lili told her daughter seriously and said, "Teacher Xiao Xu scolded me just now. It is wrong for me to help you like this. In fact, it is harmful to you. From tomorrow on, you will go back to school to study at night. If you don't understand, you can go to the office to ask the teacher at any time. Mom, I have limited abilities, and I can't do your math problems anymore. You can do it yourself."
"By the way, I asked Teacher Xiao Xu by the way. She said that if you can't get A in the middle school entrance examination and your overall scores do not meet the standards, you may not be able to study in our school. You can only go to ordinary middle school, and then your mother will not be able to help you. In the future, you will be responsible for your own affairs."Lili threw down this sentence heavily to see how her daughter reacted.
My daughter was stunned at first, and didn't say anything for a long time. She hesitated for a while, and suddenly said, "Mom, why don't you ask me a math tutor too? I'm a math idiot, and I dare not ask our teacher's math problems. "The daughter's eyes actually had a scent of prayer, and she was a little moved.
"Okay, I happened to have a student opening a tutoring company, so I'll ask him first. "After Lili finished speaking, she immediately called the student's phone number and explained her request. "It's okay, I'll reply to you tomorrow morning. "The other party agreed readily. Three days later, the tutor came to the door. He was a female graduate student who hit it off with her daughter and came to her home twice a week. In fact, she was tutoring her daughter to do her homework. The girl was good at abilities and could teach both physics and chemistry. When her daughter arrived in the third year of junior high school, the homework was more difficult. The graduate student patiently guided her daughter, and her daughter's grades were also moving upwards.
Lili was also Never treat others unfairly. In addition to checking out after class, she also entertains her for a dinner. Sometimes she will give her clothes or delicious food to the other party. The girl is very happy. Her daughter also gained a good sister, and Lili has less worry and gets along well with each other.
The high school entrance examination came as scheduled. On the day of math, Lili was still a little nervous. After the exam, when her daughter said she still had 8 points to write, Lili felt a little sad and blurted out: "Then you may have some problems when you go to the A line, right? "
" That may not be true, I can do everything else. "My daughter is full of confidence. On the day the results were announced, Lili was still shocked. Her daughter's math score was 112 points. Except for the 8 points that she didn't start writing, she got all the other scores. She was indeed A and finally, with a score of 5A1B, she successfully stayed in the key middle school she taught.
. Who said, "Every flower in has its flowering period, and everyone has their own excitement" , education is a long-term process, don’t rush it. Lili remembered that her daughter’s three years in junior high school was indeed not easy. Her previous big take-up was simply depriving her children of the opportunity to grow up. Fortunately, she woke up in time and grew up freely.
The famous educator Mr. Ye Shengtao once said: "Education is agriculture, not industry." We need to wait patiently, educate quietly, and wait for the flowers to bloom. "
In fact, every child is a flower seed, but the flowering time is early and late, and the flowering period is long and short. All parents can do is patiently accompany each other: cultivate carefully, cultivate carefully, and wait for the flowers to bloom.
Waiting for the flowers to bloom is actually the persistence and perseverance in the belief in education, and a responsibility and responsibility. Let us wait for the beautiful bloom of each child with love and wisdom.
