Hello, don’t be confused
Finally stepped into the university gate and began the university life that I once thought about. Students, is college life as you expected?
Many students say that when they really come to this stop in their life, they find that college life is far less interesting than they imagined. Although I am busy attending classes, eating and sleeping every day, only I know the confusion in my heart. I believe that many students have this feeling, confused about love and the future.
Why do we feel confused?
Adult initial manifestation
Psychologists call 18-25 years old "adult initial manifestation". Although we are in this period, although we have got rid of our physical attachment to our original family, our minds are not mature enough.
too many choices
too many choices, but I don’t know what I really want. Before going to college, we struggled to study for our ideal university. After going to college, we did not seem to have clear goals like the college entrance examination. The more open and free learning environment made us not know where to start.
small tips
Maybe you are very confused now. I hope the following small tips can help you clear the clouds.
01
Setting phased goals
In college life without goals, some students are often in an intermittent and daily "studying", which leads to a lack of sense of gain and constantly increasing their guilt day after day. It can be seen that the importance of setting goals. Set a few small goals for yourself, such as exercising for 1 hour a day, reading 10 pages of extracurricular books every day, etc.
02
Develop a skill
Interest is the most effective driving force. In junior high school, you may have been busy studying and delayed your favorite dance classes; you may have liked photography for a long time, but you have never had the chance to try it; you may envy others for playing guitars well... Now, you can join relevant clubs, or sign up for professional course training classes to meet many people with the same interests.
03
Don't leave learning
The first task of students is to study, and the same is true for college. However, learning at university is more about independence and self-reliance. Studying professional courses seriously and taking classes, homework and exams seriously is a relatively certain part of the university life full of unknowns and possibilities. Many students think that college grades are not important, but they don’t know that many opportunities are related to academic performance. Excellent results can help you gain the qualifications for to continue your studies and further your studies. Excellent results can add color to your resume.
Finally, I want to tell my classmates that instead of being confused, it is better to try to do many things. Many things do not need to wait until you are not confused before taking action. But after you do it, you realize that you are no longer confused.
Author profile: Wang Maoyao, Part-time counselor of the Mental Health Education and Counseling Center
Type: He Chunjuan
First review: Zeng Zhen
Second review: Wang Fang
Hand review: Luo Yu
Hand review: Guizhou Normal University Psychological Counseling Center.
