This is the 175th original article by Kiko’s mother
July is a hot summer day. Some people are happy and some are sad. This is a sentimental July.
The students who have been studying hard in the past few days have received the admission notice that they have been waiting for day and night. This is a testimony of their youth and sweat.
From young to young, from primary to junior high, and from junior to junior high, both children and parents have experienced laughter, sadness and tears along the way; there have been difficulties and setbacks, but also warmth and strength.
In short, no matter what the result is, if the children have worked hard and fought hard, they will have no regrets. If the parents have worked hard and worked hard, they will have a clear conscience.
Time flies so fast, and the children grow up before they know it. For those of us whose children are still young, especially the parents of children who have not yet embarked on the long journey of thousands of miles, we must cherish the time spent with our children growing up.
A child's growth is a one-way ticket that cannot be repeated. If you miss it, it will last a lifetime. It cannot be made up for. It is irreversible.
We all know that the younger a child is, the better it is to train him, because a child is a blank slate when he is born, and children aged 0 to 6 are at the peak of brain development, and their potential is very large. As they grow older, their potential Showing a decreasing trend.
It would be a pity if we missed the golden period of these first six years. Therefore, even if parents are more miserable and tired, they must find ways to stay with their children.
There is an old saying: "You are older at the age of three, you are older at the age of seven, and you are older at the age of twelve." It can be seen that children's personality and habits begin to form during this period.
If the parents are away from their children for a long time and are left to be taken care of by relatives such as the elderly at home or entrusted to child care and early education institutions, even if the children appear to be independent, they are actually fragile and insecure, which can easily lead to a series of problems.
When you grow up, you become rebellious. Because habits are formed and your personality is fixed, it is difficult to change. At this time, it is really too late to sigh and be helpless.
Another very important point is that in terms of learning, the earlier the enlightenment, the better. Some parents attach great importance to the cultivation of their children and do not hesitate to spend a lot of money, but the results are very little, because adults themselves do not like to study, and they do not learn how to accompany their children better. , I think it’s enough to spend the money and leave it to a good institution and a good teacher.
There are many wealthy parents in today's society. If money alone can solve the problem, there will be many, many talented children.
In this era, the most indispensable thing compared to when we were young is educational resources. Every big and small city, including towns, has libraries and bookstores, and thousands of books in the library are free, but there are still many Children don't like reading.
Because parents did not create an environment for them to read and study when they were young. People are products of the environment, and a good environment shapes a person, especially when children are young.
For example, if your children are reading a book while you are playing games and cards, and some are even playing mahjong in the next room, how can you make your children feel at ease and motivated to read?
Instead of nagging and forcing children to learn, it is better to teach by words and deeds, and be a growth-oriented parent, and the children will naturally make progress.
I saw a piece of news on the Internet before. A mother accompanied her to study and received a degree certificate with her child. It shows what a hard-working and motivated mother she is!
Of course, parents don’t necessarily have to take this certificate. This is everyone’s different life direction and positioning. We can delve into a certain field that we like, or we can try an unfamiliar field. In short, life is a long road. ,Life-long learning.
can also learn with your children. The children will be more motivated and confident.
If you accompany one child well, you will have the experience to accompany the next child. If you don't experience and practice, you will leave regrets and regrets again and again in your life.
