We may have been misled by parents' words since junior high school, that is, " Study hard now, and it will be easy to go to college. You can play whatever you want." I believe many students have heard this sentence, and they are stressed during the college entrance examination. At that time, this sentence was even regarded as a golden rule. takes this as a goal, motivates himself to study hard in order to get rid of his parents' control after going to college.
But just imagine, even the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination are as difficult as thousands of people squeezing a single-plank bridge. Is it really that easy to graduate from college? And there is a common phenomenon in universities now - students who once had excellent grades in middle and high school have fallen into ruin after university. They have been decadent for four years in university, and no one dares to find a job in the future. But what exactly causes this?
In fact, due to the nature of education in our country, most children in middle and high schools are assigned learning tasks by their parents and schools. has no plans for his future, but he is moving forward step by step according to his parents' arrangements. But when they enter university, schools and even teachers will not have too many academic requirements for them, because relies on self-study for everything. Such differences make many freshmen feel very confused and empty.
The busyness of high school in was swept away, and what came was unlimited leisure and boredom. Let them start to abandon the good study habits in middle and high school, and start to overindulge themselves. Once there is no parental control, the school's goals become idle. They no longer even care about exams during college.
I just want to get 60 points in everything , just don't fail the exam. The learning atmosphere of has caused many top students in middle and high schools to start to degenerate themselves. Even at Tsinghua and Peking University, there are many such examples. Some students said that everyone who went to Tsinghua University or Peking University was a top student from various provinces. When they gathered together, they seemed particularly small. They no longer have the attention of middle school and high school teachers and the pursuit of parents, so they slowly begin to lose their goals and give up on themselves.
In addition, entering university is like entering a small society. After going to college, students can have a certain amount of monthly living expenses, and these funds are at their own discretion, which can easily lead to excessive consumption of . For students who have just entered college, their previous consumption concepts are still there. Not really formed, and now suddenly given them the freedom to consume, they become blind and nowhere to be found.
In order to show their self-confidence, some students even began to blindly compare, buy famous brands, etc. It is precisely because of this concept of consumption that many scammers have taken advantage of it.
They took advantage of college students' advanced consumption concept, defrauded college students' bank cards, and some even helped them get loans, thus owing high fees . This is a very common phenomenon in college. Although anti-fraud education is provided every year, students are still
inevitably deceived. This phenomenon is not uncommon among university instructors.
However, they still want to remind current college students that their words and deeds must be more controlled during college, as this will affect their future studies. If fails the exam, will even lose the school’s qualifications for and , and will have to compete with thousands of others. This is undoubtedly betting on one's own future.
Now is in the graduation season and employment season. For students who are about to graduate and enter college, the author wants to say: First of all, you should first understand the nature of learning in college, and adapt to it in advance and be mentally prepared. Don't wait until you go to college. I became confused and confused . Secondly, you must be clear about your future plans for , set a certain flog, and work hard to complete during college.
Finally, during college, studies are also very important, and you must grasp the four years of college. You must obtain the certificates you need and the practical experience you need to have .Take the CET-4 and CET-6 exams as an example. Although foreign languages are not paid much attention now, many companies still require students to pass the CET-4 and CET-6 exams when recruiting.
Therefore, during the university period, these aspects must not be ignored. For graduates who are about to enter the society and are looking for jobs. The first thing to do is to clarify the characteristics of and find a job that suits you based on its own characteristics. Secondly, when facing various attacks from society , never lose confidence, discover your own shortcomings in time, and use certain methods to change to make yourself better.
After all, employment still places great emphasis on academic qualifications, so for graduates, there is not only one way to find a job . You can also choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination. While working, you can take the postgraduate entrance examination to accumulate practical experience while improving your academic qualifications. This way, after completing the postgraduate entrance examination, your job search will be smoother.
To sum up, university is free and romantic, but it is also full of traps and challenges . What we have to do is to stick to our true intentions, not be fooled by appearances, and insist on being ourselves . Although the university brings together talents from all over the world, don’t underestimate yourself easily. Believe in yourself and keep working hard, and you will definitely live up to your expectations in the future.
