Text丨Mother Kapok
When a child goes to junior high school, it also means that the child begins to enter "adolescence". Of course, some students who don't like to be restrained will often confront their parents and teachers. Students don't dare to mess with it, and teachers don't like it very much.
After entering junior high school, girls are relatively easy to manage, but some junior high school girls are not very pleasant. After entering junior high school, these three types of girls are not very popular with teachers, and parents should be aware of it.
01. The girl who likes makeup
I have been living in my hometown for a while. At that time, my niece was in the second year of junior high school, so every weekend I would go to school to pick her up, and then send her to school on Sunday.
I chatted with her on the way to pick her up. She said that there is a girl in the class who is very good at putting on makeup. She spends a certain amount of time doing makeup every morning when she wakes up. For this reason, the teacher stopped her class several times, but she still insists on putting on makeup.
's niece's classmate said: I'm used to wearing makeup, and I can't go out without makeup.
The age of junior high school students is not too young, but they are not adults when they are said to be old. Make-up for junior high school students is still prohibited in most schools.
Some time ago I participated in an activity and met a teenage psychological counselor who specializes in resolving psychological problems for children and students. Some time ago, she was doing psychotherapy with a girl who likes makeup. The girl's parents are high-level professionals, but she is very helpless to her daughter. Maybe she was too strict when she was a child. Her daughter just likes makeup and wears heavy makeup. , often rub very heavy eye shadow, painted very bright lipstick.
Although quality education is now advocated and children's diversified development is advocated, schools in most areas prohibit students from wearing makeup, so if children in the family always like to wear makeup to go to school in junior high school, it may cause teachers' "disgust", because this behavior It is a public violation of school rules.
02, girls who like to swear
swearing is a bad habit, let alone girls, even if boys often swear, it will make people feel rude and uneducated.
In junior high school, children like to be unconventional, new and different, and they like to use these to show that they have grown up and matured.
Although such behavior may seem childish, it is actually a stage that every child must go through.
Some children become rebellious because of puberty, and some children because of family reasons. There was a student before
whose parents didn’t get along very well. When I was in the first year of junior high, my personality was very shy, and I rarely spoke loudly. In the second half of the first half of the first year, I got closer to a few girls outside the school, and my personality gradually changed. Now, I started learning makeup, swearing, and even fighting. When I was in the second year of junior high, I had already held a meeting to collect protection fees from my classmates.
Therefore, it is not easy for a child to become such a character. There are also reasons for the parents. Perhaps the parents are too strict, or the parents are negligent in discipline.
03, the girl who often contradicts the teacher
"The discipline in the class is very messy!" The teacher took a maternity leave for a while, and when she returned to school, she saw the messy class discipline, and the teacher was a little angry!
At this time, a student said, "Teacher, it's pretty good today, but it was even more chaotic in the past!
teacher smiled and said: Is it? The teacher has a big face and a big face, right?
At this time, a girl opened her mouth to speak, and said in a neither high nor low voice: The face is bigger, bigger than before!
teacher silently glanced at the girl, but said nothing. This is what happened when we were in middle school.
Some girls also imitate boys. They will coax and talk back to the teacher. Although the teacher criticizes the boys without hesitation, although the teacher will save some face for the girls, the teacher will still feel a little uncomfortable. After all When you go to junior high school, you are no longer a child. If you always contradict the teacher, the teacher must have some opinions in his heart.
Cotton's mother said:
After entering junior high school, some children are particularly difficult to manage when they reach adolescence. In fact, it is not that children are difficult to manage, but that the parent-child relationship has not been laid well when they were young. Children's education is not an overnight thing, but a long-term process. We must learn to love children and learn to get along with them, so that children will be willing to share with you when they reach adolescence, and there will be no so many generation gaps.
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