mentions one subject and two doctors, I believe everyone thinks of Zhang Wenhong and Zhang Wenyu brothers. Yep, that's them.
But have you guessed who the people in the Three Peking University are? I have a little suspense here.
As the saying goes, sow melons, sow beans, sow beans.
A psychologist study found:
"A person's achievement depends 20% on his acquired efforts and 80% on his parents' teaching." In education, through analysis, I found that parents' precepts and deeds determine the size of their children's future achievements.
Families of people with great achievements, their parents, without exception, attach great importance to their children's learning, and constantly encourage their children to study hard.
If one does not read, there is no future.
When Zhang Wenhong and his brothers were very young, their parents instilled the idea of " if one does not read, there is no future for ".
Zhang Wenhong's parents like to read, and they often tell their two children what they have learned in books and historical stories they have seen.
In 1979, the country carried out reform and opening up, and there was a wave of migrant workers. With the resounding slogan of "Let some people get rich first", motivated by money, many young people have chosen to drop out of school, either to go to sea to do business or to go out to work in pursuit of their dreams.
But Zhang Wenhong's parents are just the opposite. They often teach the brothers not to be influenced by the external environment, to insist on studying and study hard, and to take a long-term perspective.
It is precisely because of the good teaching of parents, emphasis on reading, and more emphasis on own example, that there are two doctoral degrees later, and also the achievements of Zhang Wenhong and Zhang Wenyu today.
The three armies can win the commander, but no one can win the ambition.
The three Peking University people are Baidu founder Li Yanhong and his two sisters —the eldest sister and the third sister. As far as Li Yanhong is concerned, the one who has the greatest influence on him is his father Li Guifu.
Li Guifu used to be a boiler worker in a chemical factory. He studied private school, memorized the Four Books and Five Classics, knew poetry and songs, and liked to write calligraphy.
My father said to Robin Li the most often the phrase " The three armies can win the commander, but the man can't win the ambition" . Later, when Li Yanhong grew up, he also took this sentence taught by his father as the motto of his life.
During his childhood, his father often warned Li Yanhong to study hard and get admitted to university, because their family is an ordinary family and there is no back door to go.
is precisely the tireless teachings of his father, which made Li Yanhong keep moving forward, bravely pursue his dreams, insist on his independent personality, and finally create his own business.
At his father's memorial meeting, Li Yanhong mourned his father:
"Although my father did not have great achievements and dazzling fame and status in his life, in our hearts, his father is an honest, kind, great and excellent father. The growth of our children It is inseparable from his teaching in any way."
Yes, parents are the guides of children. The growth of every child is closely related to the parent's teaching, and also determines the size of the child's future achievements.
Parents' excellent words and deeds are the best education for their children
Looking at the family education of Zhang Wenhong and Li Yanhong, they all have a common feature, that is parents' excellent words and deeds.
Their parents like to read and practice it by themselves; they attach importance to the creation of a learning atmosphere, so that children can make up their minds early and have long-term aspirations;
Carl Witt, the founder of early childhood education, said:
"Early education will affect a child's life. If a child does not have a good family education, even if he asks the best educators to do the most careful education, there will be little success." .
This shows the importance of family education, and the reason why Carl Witt said so, is because he personally experimented and educated his son, who was considered to be demented from birth, to become an all-rounder.
His son can freely use German, French, English and other six languages, and he knows chemistry, physics, zoology and botany and other disciplines, and is especially good at mathematics. He was admitted to the University of Leipzig at the age of 9, received a doctorate of philosophy at the age of 14, a doctor of law at the age of 16, published Dante's Error at the age of 23, and published the German translation of the Divine Comedy at the age of 33. He taught at a well-known German university throughout his life.
Family education, school education and social education, these three kinds of education are indispensable education for everyone, but in the final analysis, the most important thing in is family education.
As Cai Yuanpei said in "The Cultivation of Chinese People":
"Family is the school at the beginning of life. The character of life, the so-called invariable invariant, is probably embryonic in the family."
What kind of person a child will eventually become, what kind of character he will have, and the size of what he can achieve, in fact, has long been decided in family education and under the influence of his parents.
