Name children is the most troublesome thing for parents nowadays. After all, names will accompany their children's lives. Parents are always worried that they will not be careful to choose bad names, which will have adverse effects on their children. In fact, ancient people have long summarized some common sayings about naming for us. Among them, the sentence "Men do not bring heaven, women do not bring immortals" has been widely circulated, but many people do not understand the specific meaning of this sentence. Is it reasonable? Everyone will understand after reading it.
Let’s first explain the first half of the sentence “Men do not bring the sky”. This sentence is easy to explain. From the literal meaning, it can be seen that its meaning is: boys cannot bring the word “tian” when naming. Many people will wonder why this is?
First, we need to talk about it in light of the times. In ancient times, the emperor was respected as the emperor. The word "tian" could not appear in the names of ordinary people. Similar words such as "long" were also mentioned. The ancients respected the emperor very much. The names of each generation of emperors were different. His ministers would specifically avoid the emperor's names when naming them. So this can explain why men cannot have the word "tian" when naming. This is the default rule of all subjects. Once someone chooses the word "tian" in their name, it is considered a provocation.
Second, the ancients believed that the more down-to-earth the child, the easier it is to support him. I believe everyone knows that many people’s nicknames are “Goudan’er” and “Heiwa”. Although these nicknames are very rustic, they are very down-to-earth. Facts have proved that these children are generally more solid. The sky is the farthest from the earth. It may not be easy to raise children with this word, so everyone doesn’t need it.
Third, the word "tian" carries too much meaning and most people cannot bear it. Although parents are kind-hearted when naming their children, their intentions may be very simple. I hope that their children can fly freely in the blue sky and white clouds in the future and have their own broader world. However, if you go to fortune-telling before naming, you will find that it is generally not recommended to name your child "Heaven", because the word "Heaven" is given too much meaning, and most people cannot afford the meaning behind this word.
After finishing the first half of the sentence "A man does not bring the sky", let's explain the meaning of the second half of the sentence "A woman does not bring the immortal". Nowadays, girls like to call themselves "little fairies", hoping to be as beautiful as fairies, but why can't the name contain the word "xian"?
First, the explanation of this word is similar to that of the above, and it should be combined with our era background. Since the word "天" represents the emperor, the corresponding word "天" represents the empress who is in charge of the world. If a woman uses the word "Xian" in her name, everyone will think it is provocative, so it is a big taboo to use the word "Xian" when naming a girl.
Second, the word "xian" means "illusory, unattainable". In fact, the word "Xian" is the same as the word "Tian", which also refers to a height that ordinary people cannot reach, which is difficult for ordinary people to reach. It also carries a great meaning behind it, and "Xian" itself gives people a illusory feeling. If you use this word for a newborn child, it is likely that the child will not be able to catch it in the future, that is, some bad things will happen, so people who are a little particular generally do not use the word "Xian".
Third, it may cause spiritual harm to the child. Everyone knows that there is no taboo in children speaking, and some even like to give nicknames to their classmates. The word "Xian" usually reminds everyone of fairy-like fairy, very agile, but in real life, there are not many girls who can truly have this kind of appearance and temperament.
Once the child’s name is added to the child’s name and his appearance is too different from it, he may be ridiculed by his classmates. Although we don’t have to care about other people’s opinions, children are still easily affected by people around them, and over time, they may cause spiritual harm. Therefore, when parents are naming, it is better to replace the word "Xian" with some more meaningful words and represent the beauty of their children's hearts.
At the end of the day, there is actually no problem with the common saying itself. After all, we lived in different eras from the ancients, and many living habits are different.However, with the changes of the times, this common saying does not apply to the present. Nowadays, many people do not have too many taboos to choose names, as long as their parents think it is good. The two words "Heaven" and "Xian" are often used in everyone's names, and even the names of many celebrities often contain these two words.
What do you think about this?
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