Recently something happened at home:
Several children went to the neighbor's house to play, and the children took out their toys to play with them. Several girls like dolls and there are many at home, so they put out the toys one by one to play with relays.
From the bedroom to the living room, walked around the living room, and when they arrived at the door, several people were still holding a few in their hands!
The children of the neighbors pushed and shoved other children without hesitation, causing the other party to burst into tears.
Adults laughed when they came home and said that there was nothing in conflict between children, and girls should be raised in wealth.
A person shook his head when he saw it and said:
The three words "
" tell the true meaning of raising wealth. The so-called child's wealth cannot be just about being rich, but not raising.
The real rich nourishment is not a material requirement, but the following three meanings.
Being healthy is responsible for children
Scientific raising children is a consensus among many people now, and giving children excellent physical fitness is the top priority for many parents.
It is true that giving children an excellent appearance and good physical fitness is the responsibility of parents.
But the abundance of the body is not an indulgence and excessive nutrition for children's diet.
There is such a fable:
Two magpie children were born. They are very happy and catch many small bugs for them to eat every day.
The little magpie likes her mother's feeding very much. She eats it constantly every day and soon becomes a rare fat magpie.
When it needs to learn to fly, it finds that it is so fat that it can't wield its wings and has no ability to soar in the sky.
gives children a healthy body, rather than just letting their children eat well and eat snacks without restraint.
Scientific feeding is very necessary. Children should eat well and eat healthily.
It is very necessary to take your children to exercise regularly, cultivate their sports hobbies, exercise their bodies, and let their children grow up healthily.
The spiritual abundance, cultivate an independent and confident next generation
What kind of children will eventually have a bright future?
The answer is not a child with sufficient material resources, dazzling grades, and wealthy family, but a child with a rich heart.
He will be awake in good times, be indomitable in bad times, be positive and optimistic, and be confident and hopeful in life.
During the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008, Li Xinyu, who was only 7 years old, was buried in the ruins. Fortunately, she was rescued, but she lost her right arm forever and was called the "one-armed girl".
But she did not feel depressed because of this, but instead studied hard. After a re-examination, she was admitted to Central China Normal University with a college entrance examination score of 625 and more than 90 points, starting a wonderful life.
Many people will ask why Li Xinyu has such perseverance. She recalled that she had a happy childhood, and her parents supported her hobbies and ideas, making her full of confidence.
It can be said that Li Yuxin is very rich in spirit and can help her save herself in trouble.
Tagor once said:
In the long road of life, there are countless problems and difficulties waiting for children. The greatest help parents give them should be to give them the ability to solve problems, and spiritual abundance can allow them to face it calmly and move forward.
Children with rich feelings know how to love
Goethe said:
A survey shows that children who have been loved by their families since childhood will be more confident, know how to love someone, and be full of hope for the future.
Children who lack maternal or fatherly love will obviously appear insecure, dare not communicate with others, are sensitive and fragile, and often appear a little paranoid when adults.
Colleague told her story:
She divorced her parents since she was a child and lived with her grandmother. She seemed out of place since she was a child, didn't play with other children, and had no friends after school.
Others were secretly talking about her behind her back, saying that she was a monster, and she didn't dare to refute it.
After going to college, a boy pursued her, but she didn't dare to accept it. Later, she convinced herself to try to accept it. After the two were together for a while, the boy proposed to break up because of her introverted personality.
Children who have been lacking in love since childhood do not understand love and dare not love.
And a child who is emotionally rich knows how to love someone, and it is easier for him to love himself and others.
The children in the family have a habit of asking their parents to hug and kiss every morning, and he smiles happily every time.
was just a small action, but gradually I found that the child is always very polite outside, and is kind to others, sunny and confident, and is popular.
The subtle power can change a person. When he is given love, love will take root and sprout in his heart.
Emotional abundance will illuminate the hearts of children and allow them to grow up happily.
Conclusion
"Positive Discipline" has this sentence at the beginning:
If you really love your children and want to raise them richly, don't ask them for material things.
instead give them physical, mental and emotional abundance, which will be their lifelong wealth.
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