Recently, Hollywood A superstar couple made headlines for their quarrel.
The woman is the supermodel "Girl Empress" who is very familiar to many friends-
In the eyes of the melon-eating public, this couple has been a loving and happy model couple for many years, but this time it is said that they are having a huge quarrel.
The relationship between husband and wife has become so tense. Why?
The reason is actually very simple. The two originally agreed that Tom Brady would focus on his family after retiring from his sports career. After all, Gisele has been taking care of the children for so many years, and it is time for her husband to do his best.
Who knows, whether Tom Brady retired or not, but announced his return just 40 days after his retirement and continued to play, regardless of the previous agreement with his wife.
Empress Ji suddenly became angry and flew from their home in Florida to Costa Rica .
It is said that the intensity of the quarrel was unprecedented. Empress Ji even threatened to leave her husband. Media reports said that divorce was imminent?
As world-famous stars, Ji Niangniang and Tom Brady are outstanding in their respective fields. Of course, they also love their careers.
Tom Brady is not just a star player, is recognized as the best quarterback in history and a superstar of the National Football League (NFL) .
As a starting quarterback, he has won a record 7 Super Bowl championships, and a record 5 Super Bowl MVPs , both of which are the most among NFL players, is worth $250 million, , An illustrious career that few can match.
Not to mention Empress Ji, the richest legendary supermodel in history, is worth $400 million..
has become the world's highest-paid model since 2002 and has held this title for 15 consecutive years. has changed the demand for skinny models both inside and outside the fashion industry with her fit and healthy image.
Her emergence has set many benchmarks in the modeling industry. Her modeling career is legendary and difficult to surpass.
Such two superstars started dating in 2006 and entered the marriage hall in 2009. Their lives no longer only have careers, but also have families and children to take care of.
How to choose between career and family? They both gave different answers.
Empress Ji puts a lot of her focus on her children. The arrival of her eldest son in 2009 and the birth of her youngest daughter in 2012 completely changed her role.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, she is still glamorous, balancing the roles of "charming supermodel" and "dedicated mother" with ease.
can breastfeed calmly when preparing for shooting,
can take the children to support her husband's competition,
can also take the children to record the warm and lovely details in life.
Whether it is work or life, she controls it like a superman, but it turns out that her mother is not a superwoman. In one of her memoirs, she truthfully recorded her "life as a mother" .
"Although it looks perfect on the surface, you must not imagine what is really happening."
Pregnancy and childbirth and raising children almost overturned her life and psychology. After having children, she had less work, but she still felt that she was not doing well enough.
"I had this horrible, self-imposed feeling of guilt. I would think about what a terrible mother I was for leaving my children (to go to work) even for just a day."
But even if she didn't leave Children, taking their children to work may also feel guilty for causing trouble for others, such as the child crying on the plane.
In addition to life and psychology, her perfect model figure has also changed due to childbirth.
She said in the book that after breastfeeding her two children, her breasts became smaller and asymmetrical.
"I feel very vulnerable, I can work out, I can eat healthy, but I can't change the fact that both of my children, when breastfed, prefer the left breast to the right."
All the while She was always complimented for her figure, and the change caused her self-confidence to plummet, so much so that she secretly had breast augmentation surgery.
But after the operation, she immediately regretted it and felt that she was living in a body that did not belong to her.
These worries are not all. While she is struggling with this, she also has to bear the burden of raising children alone.
Because her husband did not, like her, shift his focus to family after marriage, Tom Brady always puts his career first..
What makes Giselle even more unsupportable is that athletes are not an ordinary profession. They need long-term training and must concentrate on the game.
In the more than ten years since Gisele and her husband have known each other, he often trained for 12 hours a day, and this amount of training did not change even after they had children.
In this case, the husband could not see anyone at all during the day, and the responsibility for raising the children and managing everything inside and outside the family fell on Gisele.
Of course, her financial ability is very good and she has material conditions that ordinary people cannot match, but this does not mean that "widowed parenting" will not be a heavy burden for her.
Over the years, her workload has decreased and she has returned to her family. In 2015, she simply announced her withdrawal from the T stage and suspended her career to manage her family.
This is a decision she made for the sake of her children and family, but it does not mean that this Brazilian woman with a somewhat fiery personality will always allow her husband to "neglect" the family.
This marriage, which has lasted for 13 years and has raised two children, seems to the outside world to be very solid. But according to Gisele herself, "this is not a fairy tale."
has always existed because of the contradiction in marriage. Like before marriage, was pregnant for two months. ML0 is married, the man asked his friends The nanny wore its own four super bowl rings
但这些对于他们十几年的婚姻来说,还只是一时的坎儿,吉赛尔选择接受了丈夫婚前的孩子,也选择让“戒指丑闻”渐渐淡去,无论她是为了自己的两个Children, the family harmony, is her choice.
, but the husband always put his career in the first place, is the always existence in their marriage.
was 5 years ago. In 2017, Tom Bredi revealed in the interview that his wife repeatedly asked him to retire from his career. In 2017, he told him on the night of the super bowl victory. three times.
But obviously he didn't do it.
“如果由我妻子来决定,她会让我立马就退休,她昨晚已经跟我说过三次了。
我跟她说,'宝贝,这可不行,我现在玩得正开心呢。'
do you know, I feel that I can still do it and you can win. L1 so I will work hard to prepare for the game. I also plan to play for a long time.
"A few years ago, she felt that I did not do my best for the family. Say, 'Great, I To do all other business activities, I want to start rugby training ... '
will sit there and say,' When will you do something for your family? 1 This (quarrel) It is an important part of our marriage. The matter '"htl2
for so many years, Gisel's dissatisfaction can no longer be suppressed, and her husband feels dissatisfied with her dissatisfaction.
has not been solved for a long time. The quarrel has continued, resulting in the "not good" of their family conditions, and the degree of marriage consultation.
就这样又过了两年,在经历了22个赛季后,今年2月,汤姆布雷迪终于宣布退役。
This may be the happiest day of Ji Niangniang. For many years, her children can finally have dad to accompany!
is a pity that her happiness has not been able to last long.
is just 40 days after the announcement of retirement, Tom Bredi announced the return of the field to meet the 23rd season!
originally had a long -term intense husband and wife relationship, which was even worse.
For Tom, he feels that he has sufficient reasons to do so. Even after 22 seasons, he still has no decision to leave the court forever.
has not changed even after he announced his retirement, even feels that "the time is urgent after retirement", whether it is really retired, or immediately return to .
, he followed his heart and made a return decision, and after that, he continued to invest in training.
, Gessier's anger is no longer curb.
last month, Tom was absent from the team's 11 -day training. When asked about the reason, he said:
"is a personal reason. With their own unique challenges. I am 45 years old. Friends, there are many things to deal with things.
For Gisel, this matter has been in the marriage for so many years. After saying that they have to retire and go home to bring their children, the children can finally have more time with my father. As a result, you When you return, you will return?
has been ranked behind Tom's eyes in the eyes of Tom.
Gisle: Explosion and anger after disappointment.
is so angry that you can calm down from Florida to Costa Rica, and the relationship between the two becomes very tense.
is reportedly reported that after Ji Niangniang "run away from home", Tom Bredi is very "sad". said that he is now focusing on becoming his children's "super dad".
is the sources.
( (Tom) now very much knows that friends know that they have serious differences this time. It can always be as good as the beginning, but this time it may be more serious.
If it really cannot be reconciled, their relationship may not be able to return.
In short, no matter whether it is reconciliation or disagreement, the problems that lasted for many years in their marriage cannot be dragged again, and it needs to be solved ...