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Parenting:
1. You said I was bad, I said I was great
Last night the brothers went to bed after soaking their feet, and the older brother sleeps on the upper bunk. Want me to sleep with me).
The younger brother wants to turn on the light and look at his nails, but he refuses to turn off the light. The elder brother took the initiative to close it, and I said: Oh, it’s better to be the eldest son (in fact, he said it to the elder brother on purpose, he often said that he is the younger brother).
The younger brother said unhappily: Humph! I want to turn it off, I turn it on and then turn it off. When I said that, I turned on the lights and turned them on and off twice.
I laughed and said: You are too much, bad luck!
Brother Guan Hao came back and said with pride: I am great!
Brother laughed and said: narcissistic guy!
I laughed and said: When others say that they are bad, they can still say that they are great. This is worthy of praise! I didn't have this ability when I was young.
The younger brother was even more proud, and came to hug me.
I said again: Everyone has narcissism and low self-esteem, it is normal as long as it is not too much.
Feeling: It feels very good to interact with children in a real and mobile manner, and you can also take the opportunity to convey your own values.
2. The more adults let go, the more conscious the children are.
Today I saw many partners doing better than me. I was very happy and ashamed.
So,After school, I said to my brother sincerely: Tell you, I deeply reflected on it today.
Brother: What?
Me: I found that I still don't trust you enough. Today an aunt shared a better job than me. I am a teacher and not as good as a student, so I have to reflect deeply.
Brother: What did she do?
Me: There is a fourth-grade brother in their family, and she believes in that brother very much. I think I still don't trust you enough, it's too much interference!
Brother: This is how you are!
Me: Yes, so I want to change, trust you more and avoid interference.
After a good dinner, I thought of the survey form submitted by the head teacher, and blurted out: Is the survey form to be sent today?
Brother: Yes, so what?
I immediately said: Hey, did I interfere?
Brother: I don’t know.
Me: You can tell by instinct.
He didn't say, I feel there are both. After dinner, he took the initiative to say that I should submit the survey form first.
Just now I said: Ouch, it’s almost 8 o’clock, students, let’s take a foot bath at 8 o’clock.
Brother heard that: I can do my homework, right?
I thought of course it was okay, and I was a little surprised to say: okay, my brother and I will collect toys.
He said: What time is it?
I said: 7:53.
He said: I will do my homework at 8:10.
Just now I asked: 8:10 points just said, right?
He said: It is 8:15,Isn't it here yet?
I said: Oh, it's not here yet.
He complained a little bit, and while playing Lego, he said: he is going to do his homework again.
I said briskly: I will wash first, and then help you collect toys. How long will your homework take? What time do we soak our feet?
At this time, he got up and ran to the schoolbag and said happily: Of course I will do it faster first, hehe, I only have two math problems left! Then I went to do my homework.
I also feel that the state of my desperate need just happened naturally. [呲牙]
Realization: It is true that the more relaxed the adult, the more let go, the more conscious the child.
Study:
1. Today I went to meet a friend who is a sand table . We talked a lot about parenting, growth, and psychology.
I shared with her the happy Zen and Dantian exercises that I do every day. It shares the sand table and digital psychology she is learning and practicing. I am very interested and plan to learn later when I have the opportunity. Down.
My friend also helped me make a sandbox, so that I can see that the family relationship is harmonious and what I am doing is in the right direction. I am very happy.
Feeling: Resonating with friends with the same frequency will make you happier!
After reading this, do you have any insights or touches? Welcome to leave a message!
Author: Liu Xuqi Focus on the research and practice of parent-child communication, and the cultivation of internal motivation of children and adolescents. Lifelong learning, lifelong growth!
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