Introduction:
I think many people have dreamed of getting money at home if they don’t work. This wish can only be realized after retirement.
But it is best to keep a low profile when you receive money after retirement. If you receive more money, you will show off all day long, as if the whole world is not as good as you.
65-year-old Mr. Shao just retired and got more than 5,000 yuan for the first time he received his pension. It was simply higher than the salary of young people. Mr. Shao, who got so much money, was very happy and told everyone around him impatiently.
After a long time, everyone knew that Uncle Shao was rich, so they borrowed money from him. The old man who wanted face reluctantly gave up his love and borrowed it again and again. Later, when his son got married, he couldn't get a penny when he needed money. What's even more terrifying was that the relatives who borrowed money also dragged it back and refused to repay it, which made the old man regretted it and said that he was suffering because he wanted to live with face.
65-year-old Mr. Shao’s self-report:
I worked in the company in my early years. I was originally safe and safe all my life, but when I was on a business trip when I was retired, I accidentally suffered an injury and my leg was in trouble. I limped from now on. Fortunately, my leader applied for an injury certificate for me and went to apply for a disability certificate, which made me feel a little more comforted.
After a while, I officially retired. I rested at home for about half a year. I raised flowers and planted grass every day. I went to get a pension when I was alive. Unexpectedly, I actually paid me more than 5,000 yuan. It turned out that it was the basic pension plus the work-related disabled people. It was suddenly overwhelmed. I felt so happy. The day I received the money from
, I took my wife to the restaurant directly. The two of them ordered a large table of dishes, but they didn't eat much. In the end, they just watched the dishes and drank some drinks. I think rich people probably live like this.
Since I had so much money, I suddenly felt cheerful. I didn’t worry about things every day. My wife was not angry when she scolded me. Anyway, I had so much money. At that time, I realized that when people have money, they would really become more stunning.
Because I have always been very proud of my face, I posted this incident to my relatives group. When I went to the park, I also found out with my old friends. My friends were all surprised and scrambled to let me treat me to dinner. That day, I went directly to the restaurant to book a single room and invited a bunch of friends to have a meal and drink. Everyone praised me as a lucky person.
When I was drinking, I sat in the main seat in the middle, and my friend next to me toast me and said something nice and auspicious. At that moment, I seemed to be an old hero in the twilight. Although I was not as angry as before, I was not angry and accepted the "prayer" from everyone with peace of mind. God knows how stupid my thoughts were at that time.
Not long after a comfortable life, an uninvited guest came to my family. He turned out to be a relative. He told me that the child needs to turnover in his business and wanted to borrow 20,000 yuan. My heart was stuttering. 20,000 is not bad, but then I thought, this relative was a real relative. When I was in trouble, I had to lend me money, so I didn't cover it up and asked my wife to give him the money.
He took the money, wrote a note, and left with great gratitude. Before leaving, I took this relative to the restaurant downstairs for dinner until it ended late at night.
Since that time, there have been a constant stream of people asking me to borrow money. A few days later, an unfamiliar relative from a distant place added my friend in the group and sent me a message saying that my child would buy a computer when he went to college, so he would borrow 4,000 yuan and promised to pay it back next month. I didn't want to borrow it very much, but 4,000 was not much, so I lent it to him, and the man left with great gratitude.
Wait until next month, the distant relative did pay back the money and said that when I arrived at the place to ask me for dinner, I felt warm again and felt that it was nothing to borrow money, after all, I had gained a few favors.
But I am still too naive. People borrow money more and more frequently later, and the reasons are all kinds of strange things. More importantly, the amount of money I borrowed is not large, and I will return it as much as I lend it to them. Although I will repay the money, I still feel very uncomfortable.
Introduction:
I think many people have dreamed of getting money at home if they don’t work. This wish can only be realized after retirement.
But it is best to keep a low profile when you receive money after retirement. If you receive more money, you will show off all day long, as if the whole world is not as good as you.
65-year-old Mr. Shao just retired and got more than 5,000 yuan for the first time he received his pension. It was simply higher than the salary of young people. Mr. Shao, who got so much money, was very happy and told everyone around him impatiently.
After a long time, everyone knew that Uncle Shao was rich, so they borrowed money from him. The old man who wanted face reluctantly gave up his love and borrowed it again and again. Later, when his son got married, he couldn't get a penny when he needed money. What's even more terrifying was that the relatives who borrowed money also dragged it back and refused to repay it, which made the old man regretted it and said that he was suffering because he wanted to live with face.
65-year-old Mr. Shao’s self-report:
I worked in the company in my early years. I was originally safe and safe all my life, but when I was on a business trip when I was retired, I accidentally suffered an injury and my leg was in trouble. I limped from now on. Fortunately, my leader applied for an injury certificate for me and went to apply for a disability certificate, which made me feel a little more comforted.
After a while, I officially retired. I rested at home for about half a year. I raised flowers and planted grass every day. I went to get a pension when I was alive. Unexpectedly, I actually paid me more than 5,000 yuan. It turned out that it was the basic pension plus the work-related disabled people. It was suddenly overwhelmed. I felt so happy. The day I received the money from
, I took my wife to the restaurant directly. The two of them ordered a large table of dishes, but they didn't eat much. In the end, they just watched the dishes and drank some drinks. I think rich people probably live like this.
Since I had so much money, I suddenly felt cheerful. I didn’t worry about things every day. My wife was not angry when she scolded me. Anyway, I had so much money. At that time, I realized that when people have money, they would really become more stunning.
Because I have always been very proud of my face, I posted this incident to my relatives group. When I went to the park, I also found out with my old friends. My friends were all surprised and scrambled to let me treat me to dinner. That day, I went directly to the restaurant to book a single room and invited a bunch of friends to have a meal and drink. Everyone praised me as a lucky person.
When I was drinking, I sat in the main seat in the middle, and my friend next to me toast me and said something nice and auspicious. At that moment, I seemed to be an old hero in the twilight. Although I was not as angry as before, I was not angry and accepted the "prayer" from everyone with peace of mind. God knows how stupid my thoughts were at that time.
Not long after a comfortable life, an uninvited guest came to my family. He turned out to be a relative. He told me that the child needs to turnover in his business and wanted to borrow 20,000 yuan. My heart was stuttering. 20,000 is not bad, but then I thought, this relative was a real relative. When I was in trouble, I had to lend me money, so I didn't cover it up and asked my wife to give him the money.
He took the money, wrote a note, and left with great gratitude. Before leaving, I took this relative to the restaurant downstairs for dinner until it ended late at night.
Since that time, there have been a constant stream of people asking me to borrow money. A few days later, an unfamiliar relative from a distant place added my friend in the group and sent me a message saying that my child would buy a computer when he went to college, so he would borrow 4,000 yuan and promised to pay it back next month. I didn't want to borrow it very much, but 4,000 was not much, so I lent it to him, and the man left with great gratitude.
Wait until next month, the distant relative did pay back the money and said that when I arrived at the place to ask me for dinner, I felt warm again and felt that it was nothing to borrow money, after all, I had gained a few favors.
But I am still too naive. People borrow money more and more frequently later, and the reasons are all kinds of strange things. More importantly, the amount of money I borrowed is not large, and I will return it as much as I lend it to them. Although I will repay the money, I still feel very uncomfortable.
Think about it carefully, I am almost buried in my 60s. What kind of favor can I earn from borrowing money from outside? At such an old age, no matter how many favors you have, it is useless. Maybe this favor can be returned to my son, but this is something that is indefinite. Sometimes I think these people are really annoying. Can't I get it for a few thousand dollars? I have to borrow it. But if I don’t borrow it, I can’t argue. After all, I often brag about how rich I am. If I don’t borrow it, I will seem stingy.
Soon, a big thunder came. One afternoon, I was watching TV in the room, thinking about how many people would pay me back in a few days, but suddenly a phone call came to my phone. I saw it was a strange number and felt strange, but I still answered it. The opposite person said, "Do you recognize me?" The voice was a bit familiar, but I also knew who it was. The man mingled with me for a long time. I was a little annoyed and wanted to hang up the phone. Then I said it. It turned out that it was my high school classmate, who had been missing for decades, and I don’t know how to find out my phone number.
Old friends haven't met for decades, and they feel very intimate. Later, we added friends and chatted on our phones. But after a while, we started saying, "I heard you are doing well recently?" I seemed to have received some encouragement and boasted about my pension, and the other party kept bragging about me.
didn't expect that the next day he came to take care of me borrowing money. It didn't matter, but only borrowed 500. I didn't want to borrow it, so I joked, "Can't you even get 500?" But he retorted: "Old classmate, you are so rich, but you still have to lose 500." I suddenly felt that it seemed like I had to borrow this money. There is no way to go after
. If I don’t borrow money, it seems like I’m bragging. I’ve borrowed it, but it’s not much. Since the other party promises to repay it, I won’t say anything. After lending him
, he left with great gratitude. But within a week, the man came again and asked me to borrow 500 again, saying that 1,000 is fine, because a relative of him fell on a motorcycle and needed money to deal with it.
I felt disgusted. I haven’t paid back the money before, but now I’m borrowing it again? He directly refused him, but unexpectedly he was pestering, cursing and swearing, and he had to take the money, otherwise I would just watch him perish.
had no choice but to lend him another 1,000. Now he was happy, but I became depressed. Fortunately, someone paid back the money that night, so I felt a little more comforted.
When the man paid the loan, he was gone. I called him directly, but the other party said it was still quite difficult and lent him 500. I was furious. This was just a fool of me. Then he said that he was too difficult and had no choice but to pay me 500 first.
is like this, lent out 1,500, and the person only paid back 500. He couldn't contact him later. He found a classmate from the past. It turned out that the person failed in business in his early years, and the money has not been paid back yet. Lending him money is like wasting waste. I hate it too much.
However, there are also wedding events. My son is about to get married. The bride price and other things have been negotiated, but it has not been settled yet. To hold a banquet, I had to book a hotel in advance. I found an old friend who gave me a very suitable price. After the agreement was made, I went home to prepare to get the money.
can save money, but there are already very few. Although there is still 100,000 yuan, it is my wife and I who can't move it.
When I saw the IOU, it turned out that the deposit had been lent out. Now it was a big trouble. I quickly called those who had borrowed money. There were about seven or eight people. After receiving my call, only two of them paid back the money on the spot, and the rest were still shirking. The total amount of money these people borrowed had to be more than 30,000, which happened to be a deposit for the banquet. I can't get back the money
. I'm worried about getting the money I'm holding, but the money has been saved for a regular period and I can't take it out at all. There is no way, I want to borrow money again, but I won’t be able to defeat myself if I brag? Don't want face anymore? Still unable to make up his mind.
finally had no choice but to find the relative who had lent 20,000 yuan and begged him to give me some money, but he was also short of money and said he wanted to borrow some more from me.I am also powerless.
But I looked through his circle of friends and the whole family went out for a trip not long ago. How could it be that I had no money? It was just an excuse to scatter me. I just felt a chill. There was no way, so my wife went to find his sister later, and then she received the money and booked a hotel smoothly.
On the day of my son's wedding, all my relatives and friends came, and a few others borrowed my money. After handing over the gift, they said a joke: "Hey, the gift I gave your son is repaid." I just felt disgusted and swore that I would never lend money again, otherwise I would just be unhappy for myself. After the wedding of
, I sorted out the gift and gold posts and found that not many people paid for it at all. Most of them were 12, 200 yuan, and 500 yuan was pitifully small. If I had known this, I would have prepared fried instant noodles . I couldn't even come back to such a big hotel, and I lent them money for nothing. I didn't see any favors, it was really annoying.
Conclusion: There is an old saying in
that says "wealth is not exposed". No matter when, don't reveal your wealth, otherwise it will easily cause trouble. Although Uncle Shao lent so much money, his son received very little gifts in the end. The reason is that when the uncle showed off, few outsiders were happy. It was good to be able to pay back the money with jealousy.
I am also powerless.But I looked through his circle of friends and the whole family went out for a trip not long ago. How could it be that I had no money? It was just an excuse to scatter me. I just felt a chill. There was no way, so my wife went to find his sister later, and then she received the money and booked a hotel smoothly.
On the day of my son's wedding, all my relatives and friends came, and a few others borrowed my money. After handing over the gift, they said a joke: "Hey, the gift I gave your son is repaid." I just felt disgusted and swore that I would never lend money again, otherwise I would just be unhappy for myself. After the wedding of
, I sorted out the gift and gold posts and found that not many people paid for it at all. Most of them were 12, 200 yuan, and 500 yuan was pitifully small. If I had known this, I would have prepared fried instant noodles . I couldn't even come back to such a big hotel, and I lent them money for nothing. I didn't see any favors, it was really annoying.
Conclusion: There is an old saying in
that says "wealth is not exposed". No matter when, don't reveal your wealth, otherwise it will easily cause trouble. Although Uncle Shao lent so much money, his son received very little gifts in the end. The reason is that when the uncle showed off, few outsiders were happy. It was good to be able to pay back the money with jealousy.
