Question:
①Children are introverted and like to stick to their mothers. They don’t want to play with children in kindergarten. They just want to follow the teacher
. ②Children are timid and in a strange environment. It’s because I feel scared, retreat from interacting with children, and don’t take the initiative
③The child is not good at communicating with people
④When the child sees strangers, he always hides behind his mother
Analysis: What is the child afraid of?
One is afraid of natural things.
The second is to be afraid of things in imagination.
Third, I am afraid of experiencing a bad experience again.
Fourth, children are still afraid of their parents.
Fifth, other factors have undermined children's sense of security, such as physiological factors, children are inherently "tired", such as parents' simple and rude parenting methods, such as children's timidity, such as poor husband and wife relationship, children's sense of security is severely insecure, and so on.
Countermeasure: What should parents do when the child is scared?
1. Acceptance-parents should first accept their children's fears and help them overcome them slowly.
2. Encouragement-encourage more timid children who are retreating in a strange environment or facing strangers to enhance their self-confidence and sense of accomplishment.
3. Introspection-for the timid and timid children caused by parents' simple and rude education and the disharmony of family relations, parents must first find the reasons for themselves.
4. Love-children who grow up in an environment of love, acceptance and encouragement must be confident and generous! Therefore, a harmonious and warm relationship between husband and wife is essential for the establishment of a child's sense of security.
Let's grow together! Thanks for attention.
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