Steal, this is a very sensitive word mentioned in daily life, but in fact, parents think about it carefully. I believe that in many people’s childhood memories, there are more or less people who secretly took things from relatives and friends. memory. Things that move others without permission are "stealed" in the eyes of adults.
But many times "stealing" for children, especially preschool children, may be just the thoughts of wanting and liking that sprout in their brains. In their eyes, they may just play with them and don't quite understand "stealing". concept.
But as the saying goes, "Stealing needles when you are young, and money when you are old", many bad habits are slowly developed since childhood. Children have no concept but parents do. Therefore, parents must consciously educate and guide their children from an early age to establish a correct sense of property rights, consumption, and money.
Recently, in Jiangmen, Guangdong, a video of a boy stealing money from his grandmother and being "sent" into the police station by his mother became popular on social platforms. In the video, the little boy stood in front of the police station window, confessed to the police uncle, crying and begged the police uncle "Don't shut me down", crying, and his attitude was very sincere.
According to the boy's mother, because the little boy stole his grandma's money to buy an Ultraman card, he was admitted to the police station by himself. He also said that the little boy had secretly taken it once before. After being criticized at home, he did not expect to take it again, so he took it to the police station, hoping to let the child get rid of this bad habit.
After watching the video, many netizens praised the mother for doing the right thing: "Mom's actions are right. This kind of behavior should be picked up from an early age to make the children aware of the seriousness of the problem." Many netizens also ridiculed: " Ultraman: Do you believe in light? The cold light of handcuffs", "Not to send, it is to , to the police station hahaha".
Actually, there are a lot of news like this. Children are still young and don't have a deep concept of money. At this time, if the parents are not well educated and give timely guidance, they may be tempted and headed in a bad direction.
A few months ago, Wugang , Hunan, broke the news that parents smashed a small shop near the school.Aroused the attention and discussion of many parents.
The cause of the incident was that the commissary induced a third-grade child to buy snacks worth nearly 100 yuan in the commissary by means of credit. Because the child had no money to pay the bills nearing the summer vacation, he had to go home and steal the money. When he was discovered by his parents, the parents were furious. The parents not only brought their children to the store to reason, and let the children kneel in public to admit their mistakes, but they also smashed the store in anger.
Once the news was sent out, it caused heated discussions across the network.
Many netizens believe that the commissary owner should not allow underage children to take credit. This is obviously to induce the children to make mistakes. However, more netizens believe that although the owner of the commissary is at fault, the child is already in the third grade. The money owed indicates that the parent’s usual education is not in place. The child sets a bad example.
Children in the third grade have learned to pay on credit. People can't help but think of the endless online loans and naked loans of college students. The fundamental reason is that the children did not have a correct understanding and understanding of "money" since they were young.
Many parents feel that their children are too young, and some parents don’t have to touch money too early, and they don’t worry about their children buying snacks, toys, etc. on their own. As everyone knows, sometimes the overprotection of parents will make the child lose the opportunity to practice. It is better to teach by example than words, and it is better to directly involve the child in a thousand words.
Let children know what “money” can do
Generally, when children are 5-6 years old, they will gradually develop a certain concept of money. Parents can establish a pocket money system for their children at this time. For example, by helping parents to do housework and organizing their own toys in exchange for pocket money, first let the children understand that money is not easy to come by, it requires labor.
When you usually take your children out to shop and eat, you can tell your children that these need "money" to settle, including toys that children like also need money to buy, so that children can more clearly understand that "money" can be used. what is it used for.
How to "spend money"?
In many cases, children do not have a clear concept of the value of items. When my baby was young, everything was "two yuan" in her eyes.And these can be exercised through daily life.
Parents can try to "seeking help" for their children, such as giving cash to the convenience store downstairs to help children buy soy sauce, salt and other daily necessities, so that children can experience the complete shopping process and be more intuitive about money This concept can also be used to exercise children's ability to deal with things and cultivate self-confidence.
When you take your children out for shopping, you can let the children choose the items they like, but there are certain restrictions for the children, such as only buying one toy or the cost cannot exceed how much. If the child wants more things, he can let the child choose by himself and decide the final purchase right.
In the child's selection process, there may be differences from the parent's choice. Parents should try their best to respect the child's decision and help the child analyze it from an objective perspective, but the ultimate choice is still left to the child.
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