Self-esteem is inherent to a person. From a biological point of view, when people have consciousness, various complex emotions will follow. Some adults often think that their children are still young and don't know anything, so there is no self-esteem. In fact, the inner world of children is more sensitive and fragile than adults imagined. Some children have very strong self-esteem. Parents and teachers may hurt them if they are not paying attention. So what behaviors can reflect a child's self-esteem?
We often encounter such a situation in our lives. Because of the child’s little mistake, the parent criticizes the child. The child ran out of the house and did not go home very late. In the end, the parent went out to find the child. Up. Parents often think that children do not go home because of anger, but more reasons are that their self-esteem has been hurt. In the process of criticizing their children, parents will inevitably put some words seriously. The speaker has no intention of the listener's heart, and the child feels that he is so severely denied and hurt by the person closest to him, so naturally he does not want to go home. This is actually a manifestation of hurting self-esteem.
In campus life, some children encounter difficulties in learning, and they would rather not do it than ask the teacher when they encounter problems that they can’t understand. In fact, this may also be related to an experience that hurt their self-esteem. Some teachers are outspoken. When explaining the problem to the students, the students do not respond for a while, and some teachers like to say, "Why are you so stupid" at this time. Students ask the teacher for help, they want to solve their doubts, not to hurt their self-esteem. Next time you encounter a problem that you won’t know, of course the students will never ask the teacher again.
There are many scenes that reflect children's self-esteem in life. In order to protect children's self-esteem, parents should be as careful as possible in the process of talking and getting along with their children. In addition, children should also be taught not to take other people's bad words too seriously. It is easy to develop a positive and healthy mentality if you don't get into the horns in case of trouble.
【Be a parent and teach your children well】
