For a piece of clothing for the baby, whether to wear more or less, may also cause family conflicts. How to do scientific parenting in life? How can we truly integrate education into life? What skills do parents need to master? ……Today (November 14), the Shanghai Scientific Parenting Guidance Project Team officially launched an action proposal to families with infants and young children aged 0 to 6 in the city-to be a good parent of the "Seven Meetings" together.
Some parents simply think that scientific parenting is not just "raising according to books"! "Among the patients I see every day, I also face all kinds of parents. Among the parental problems that are common among parents now, many of the children’s behavior problems should be managed or not. For example, some children love to stare. Eat a certain kind of food, but should the parents agree? There must be personalized solutions for individuals, but there must also be universal rules for the general public." Zhang Yiwen, chief physician of Shanghai Children’s Medical Center, said: "Today we say let children Come on, don’t lose at the starting line. In fact, parents should be asked to “cheer on” and let them learn systematic and scientific knowledge of parenting, rather than one-sided statements that they see online.” said Mao Hongmei, director of the Shanghai Early Education Guidance Service Center at
. Scientific parenting emphasizes the precepts and deeds of parents in life and care, and the 1000 days after birth of 0 to 3 years old infants and young children are crucial. Parents cultivate their feelings with their children in activities such as feeding their children and playing games, so that they can take every step of their lives from an early age. Experts also believe that in the first 1,000 days of infants and young children, parents need to "sacrifice" a little, pay attention to the growth and development of the child, and pay special attention to company. The best education is to be accompanied by science and be a good parent of the "Seven Meetings".
At the Shanghai Science Parenting Guidance Public Welfare Activity "Parenting Gas Station" held today at the Xuhui District Preschool Education Guidance Center, education, psychology and medical experts focused on "understanding the baby's heart" and "learning to do the "Seven Meetings" from pregnancy The three themes of "Parents" and "Children's Emergency Relief in Life" are explained in detail. Experts and parents talked freely about the connotation and skill development of parents of the "Seven Meetings", and shared their experience. How can
become a "seven meeting" parent who can take care, caress, play with, communicate, let go, wait, and demonstrate? To be a good parent of the "Seven Meetings", you need to be able to take care of your needs, be safe and comfortable to meet your needs, and be independent of food, clothing, housing and transportation; "can caress", express love anytime and anywhere, sincerely accept, embrace and encourage; "can play with you", and integrate into life Walk into nature, follow the game ingeniously guide; "will communicate", listen patiently and respond in time, encourage the expression of respectful ideas; "will let go", create opportunities to encourage exploration, accept and try to develop independently; "will wait", observe and discover calmly, Appreciate and understand and wait for the flowers to bloom; "will demonstrate", seize the opportunity to develop a habit, and set an example to influence.
More than 650 families with infants and young children aged 0 to 6 entered the main venue of the Xuhui District Preschool Education Guidance Center today, together with Xuhui Experimental Kindergarten, West Bund Art Center, Caohejing Street Central Nursery, Huajing Nursery School, Xietu Road Community Parenting Guidance Station Wait for 5 branch venues to enjoy parent-child time and learn scientific parenting knowledge in parent-child game guidance, expert face-to-face consultation, scientific parenting lecture hall and parenting workshop. Parents are also learning the skills of "Seven Meetings" in daily life scenes, museums and cultural venues, indoor and outdoor parent-child games, and exploring the "Seven Meetings" parent development method. Volunteer representatives from the Subdistrict Community Family Science Parenting Guidance Station were given a "Toy Bag to Accompany the Baby’s Growth". Through easy-to-use and useful toys and book resources, they can better accompany and support the baby’s development, and easily realize it in life and family Scientific parenting. Parents who are still unsatisfied have said: “This kind of lively and entertaining parenting public welfare activities have benefited a lot, and I hope there will be more activities!”
Faced with the hopes of parents, the relevant person in charge of the organizer said that in the future, scientific parenting Guidance will continue to be vigorously promoted. On the one hand, it will strengthen the "Internet +" scientific parenting guidance, and make the online "Scientific Parenting Lecture" and "Expert Interaction Questions and Answers" continuously enriched in various forms. On the other hand, it will sink into the community and let more Families of infants and young children can have access to high-quality scientific parenting guidance at home.
"Childcare Gas Station" has been successfully held for 9 years since 2012. This year, Shanghai's scientific parenting guidance public welfare activities entered the community, where experts in the three fields of education, psychology, and medicine had face-to-face exchanges with parents, so that children's families could truly receive convenient, nearby, professional and friendly public welfare services.
