"Good wife, loving mother, diligent and thrifty housekeeping", such people are always praised by others, but such women are often unsatisfactory in life. On the contrary, people who pay attention to dressing up every day and are willing to spend money for themselves are not praised by others. , But life is changing, and family harmony. Therefore, women should not be too economical after marriage, otherwise their children will despise themselves.
1. Don’t save on image dressing.
Many women still pay attention to their image before they get married, but after getting married, think about their children’s diapers, milk powder, toys, life costs are relatively high, so they want clothes , No more cosmetics. But often my own savings will not be understood by family members. Sometimes children will dislike themselves. Now kindergarten children know the aesthetics. If your mother is dressed plainly and does not make-up, the mothers of other children are all dressed up very well. Exquisite. If you don't let your mother come to school in the future, it is very likely that she is the mother who dislikes. Therefore, mothers are saving, and should not be saving in beauty.
2. Don’t save
on your children’s friendships. Children also need friends. Children’s friendship is also very simple. They are delicious and fun to share together. If mothers always have difficulties at home and don’t spend money on their children, then the children Psychology is also low self-esteem. Too little will be isolated by classmates, so they will not play with their own children. When children cry and say that other children do not play with themselves, they will resent their mother because they have no toys. Therefore, you can't save too much on making friends with your children.
3. Don’t save
on children’s hobbies. If children are interested in one thing at a certain time, don’t drown out their hobbies. It is possible to develop their hobbies into one of their specialties and cultivate children’s Hobbies and hobbies can stimulate children’s inner motivation. In the future, they may do a lot in this area. Even if they are unsuccessful, they will not resent their parents. If mothers let their children give up their hobbies because of saving money, the children will have rifts in the relationship between their parents. Blame the parents.
So even if you are not rich in life, don't save in these areas. Instead, you are thankless and let your children dislike yourself.
