Speaker: Guo Ma Li Xuan
Source: Reading in the morning and evening
There is a long journey in life, and sooner or later I have to read. Hello, I am Guo Ma Li Xuan, the founder of "Guo Ma Reading". Since January 1, 2016, I have used thematic reading method to disassemble books. I have lectured for 20 minutes every working day. I have lectured for more than 1,100 days and more than 200 books have been taught, affecting more than 100,000 people. Parents’ ways of raising children build a good parent-child relationship with their children.
In today's society, there are more and more "Mambo men". What is "Mambo Nan"? As the name implies, it is a man who listens to his mother and always thinks that her mother is right and mother-centered.
is like Su Mingcheng in "Everything is Good", Ying Qin in "Ode to Joy", and Chen Chuan in "Floating and Sinking" are all typical "Ma Bao men".
Zhu Yuchen, a star in real life who became famous in the TV series "Struggle", is also "Ma Baonan". His mother claimed in a variety show that she loves her son with her life. She is not only very caring about her son's life, but also has a strong attitude towards his son's marriage and love. She will intervene in almost every relationship. However, it was precisely because of the love of his mother that it became a big rock on Zhu Yuchen's heart, heavy and depressed.
Facing a group like "Ma Bao Nan", as mothers, we don't want our son to be such a person. What should we do? Today I will share with you the second book "Boys Should Be Boys" in the book list of "raising boys". It revolves around " why more and more boys are not boyish" , such as the hot issue of "Ma Bao Nan", and provides practical parenting suggestions.
"Boys Should Be Boys" is the practical and advanced version of "Raising Boys". The author of this book is Meg Meeker, a pediatrician, doctor of medicine, and a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics. He has more than 30 years of clinical treatment of children and adolescents. With consulting experience, he is a popular expert on youth issues. The author of
believes that when we complain that boys nowadays are less and less boyish, in fact, it is ourselves, society and family, that have caused this situation. The author of
believes that the three main reasons why boys cannot grow into men are:
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1. Lack of intimacy with adult men (especially fathers);
2. Lack of faith (moral) education;
3. The influence of unhealthy media.
, The author also reminds parents that if you want to cultivate real men, what parents should do is not to circle the boys in the room to play the piano and do homework early, not the so-called "poorly raised boys", strict requirements, strict control, these practices It's all wrong! What should we do when the boy grows up? The trick to raising a boy is "five points of love and one point of education". Companionship, care, love and appreciation are the most important! Z2z
Looking at the entire book list, In fact, this book mainly solves the problem of how to do it. So, let us open this book to see what we do as parents, so that our boys can be boyish and cultivate real manhood.
Come and discuss this topic with me!
