Some time ago, in Yixing, Jiangsu
, a father went barefoot to scoop up the glass slag
smashed by his baby. Many netizens praised
as the power of example! The behavior of
dad attracted the praise of the whole network!
November 3,
, a 2-year-old baby playing by the pond in the community
accidentally broke a glass bottle
father Mr. Gu immediately went to the pool with his bare feet
picked up the glass shards
Mr. Gu said that there are always children here who come to play
regularly There are cleaning staff to clean up
, but I am still afraid that the fragments will be cut by others
must be picked up
Gu dad said that this is to let the child know
. Some things, although not deliberately
, may hurt others
. Own responsibility
netizens: Such a lead by example is awesome!
netizens have praised:
"With such parents, the future of children can be expected"
We often say, what is the best family education?
In fact, the best family education,
is what parents teach by words and deeds.
Last weekend, the teacher invited everyone
to discuss this topic. At
, we received active speeches from teachers and parents, and
will share with you today.
@李修林
"Most teachers can only teach children cultural knowledge (book content), parents are the children's lifelong mentors, and children's ideology (morality), outlook on life, and values are closely related to their parents' influence."
@ aaa
"A good family education should mean that parents do not give up their own growth and grow up with their children. Parents understand the innocence of their children, and children understand the ups and downs of their parents. Parents work hard and be aggressive, and children work hard and learn positively."
@ Banbishan School District: Bai Herong
"If there is a shortcut to education, it must be a role model. Parents are the originals, and children are the copies. There are what kind of children there are."
@北半球的小小静
"Words are not as good as example. Good education is not only about verbal reminders and guidance, but also the subtle impression of educators as educators accumulate over time."
@时光清浅
"We hope that children will develop the habit of reading. As a parent, you must first read it yourself. The child’s eyes are like a video camera. She will record every move of the parent. As the saying goes, "there is a way to learn." Maybe it won’t be long before the child will start reading like us. Get up.
When we understand the importance of'teaching by words and deeds', there may be many educational problems that can be easily solved."
@麦子红了
"Some parents, they can't do things by themselves, but they reason and demand to be done. In fact, it is impossible to teach students the knowledge that the teacher does not know. Similarly, how can you teach children what you cannot do?"
@奔跑的韩大旭
"The best family education:
1, good The relationship between husband and wife is the first.
2, a good father is born on the mother’s lips.
3, the role assignment of strict fathers and mothers."
@徐路婵
"I think there is no best family education, only the most suitable children Education. However, good family education has some common characteristics, such as leading by example, three-minded positive, positive energy, hardworking and kind-hearted parents." Reflection on
: Are you such a parent? There is a question on
Zhihu: How much influence do parents have on the formation of their children's three views? There is an answer, which is impressive.
"When I was in my 20s, when I discovered that the content, tone, and manner of my complaints were exactly the same as those of my family, I felt deeply helpless."
Your three views are actually hiddenWhat the child looks like after 20 years old.
The three views of parents have always been the three views of a family. They will infect each other and teach their children by precepts and deeds.
Every child will become more or less like a parent when he grows up.
Today, Mr. Zhongjiao will share these 5 sentences with you, and hope that none of us will become such parents!
01 You didn't do it yourself well, and you desperately forced your child to
. For example, your fitness equipment has been thrown in the corner for countless years, and you feel normal. But if your son doesn't practice the piano, you can't bear it. You think he is too much.
You must know that being a parent is always more important than words.
Children are not stupid, they can tell the truth in the dark. Therefore, they are more inclined to imitate the behavior of their parents than to listen to their truth.
So, be yourself before asking your child.
02 I am right everywhere, and all wrong is the child's
scolds the child whenever something goes wrong, even if he realizes that he is wrong, he must be arrogant.
never thought about whether his arrangements were unreasonable and his expectations were unreasonable.
03 Love to raise giant babies and enjoy it.
Many parents always feel that their children will not grow up. Therefore, we have to take care of everything and meet the requirements.
However, how can a person be so self-protected?
insists on letting children do what they do at what age is a required course that most parents lack.
04 Forcing children to be saints
Many parents think of their children as saints. Forced that they must love their neighbors as they do. When
made it by myself, he scratched his heart and said that the child was calm and gentle.
In fact, children are selfish and competitive by nature, and their quality is never higher than that of adults.
You can ask them to behave well. But if they fail to do it, you have to know that it is normal.
05 I'm not righteous, and expect their children not to be crooked
Many parents teach their children to be upright, courageous and kind, but when they come across a small bargain of three to five dollars, they immediately reappeared in their original form and couldn't stand the test.
did not know it. I thought I was tall and wise in my child, and I wondered why the child is not like you.
Everyone knows that the child is like you. The real you are, the children will learn.
is the best family education,
means that parents should do the best they can be.
has a beautiful idiom called "Zhilan Yushu". This idiom refers to the children of Xie An's family.
The dignitaries of the Eastern Jin Dynasty admired the Xie family very much:
"The children and grandchildren of the Xie An family are all suave and talented, just like the Zhilan Yushu growing in the courtyard, generation after generation, never declining." There are people at
. He asked Xie An: "I haven't seen you teach your children, how did they become Zhilan Yushu?"
Xie An said a classic sentence:
"The best family education is for parents to be the best of themselves." "The state of
children is often a mirror image of the state of adults.
A child is born with the ability to imitate, and he will subconsciously imitate the actions of people around him.
Every child is a copy of the parents, and the parents' words and deeds are the children imitating each other.
So every word, deed, and every action of parents will affect the growth of their children.
Visionary parents never educate their children with their mouths, but use their own practical actions to influence their children.
hope that children read, they first pick up the books themselves, hoping that the children will develop good habits, they first strictly demand themselves, hope that the children are kind, they are willing to help others first.
Behind every outstanding child is a better parent. To be a better self is the best education for children.
How do you want your children to grow up, and what kind of life you want your children to have in the future, then how to educate and nurture children.
Good parents are good at discovering children's talents from the details of family life and guiding them in a timely manner. This is the way to achieve children's education.
teaches inSchool, education in the family, every parent is the best teacher on the path of a child's growth.
Editor of this article | Jia Wenyi
Editor-in-Chief | Jia Wenyi
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