A child is a mirror for parents. We can see the quality and moral level of the parents behind them from their words and deeds, and we can also see how parents educate their children.
In today's fiercely competitive society, many parents are beginning to realize that the education of their children can no longer be attached to the grades, but should pay more attention to the quality and moral education of the children, because the noble personality really determines the future of the children The height of life.
Recently, a treasured dad became popular on the Internet, and he has a very positive image. Even CCTV praised this "responsible" dad.
It turns out that this precious father has a two-year-old son. He is usually a bit mischievous, but he has the rules in general, and he will not mess around.
On this day, Dad Bao took his son to play in the community. When he came to the pond, his son wanted to play here for a while, so Dad Bao agreed.
did not expect that one did not pay attention. The child accidentally broke the glass bottle in his hand, and it happened to fall into the pond. Although the weather was getting colder, there was still water in the pond.
Seeing this scene, the child was a little frightened, and instinctively wanted to pull his father away, but he was stopped by his father. Dad Bao hardly hesitated, took off his shoes and socks, and regardless of the cold water in the pond, he went into the water barefoot and began to fish for the broken glass.
The child watched his father fishing a little bit in the water, and he didn't know what to say, but his father said, “Many children in the community like to come to this pond to play. Besides, there are cleaning staff who clean it regularly. Fragments scratched, that is our fault."
For his own behavior, Bao Dad feels it is necessary, not only to be responsible to others, but more importantly, to set an example for his son, because he wants his son to understand that he must be brave enough to take responsibility for mistakes. Z1z
netizens also praised this treasure dad one after another, saying: He is really a qualified and good dad.
Don’t neglect to cultivate children to be responsible.
I don’t know how many parents can do the same as the above-mentioned treasure dad. For their children, parents will always instinctively protect their children, especially when the children are young. They think that it doesn't matter if the child makes a mistake, so most of them will pass by with only one eye closed.
But the Bao Dad mentioned above did not do this. Although he could directly ask the cleaning staff to clean up, or take the child directly away, no one found out, but he wanted to let the child learn to take responsibility, so he did it for his son. The best and most correct example.
Whether a person is responsible or not is related to how children will make choices when facing mistakes in the future, and whether they are brave enough to face them. Only those who are responsible will get more opportunities and get more recognition.
How should parents cultivate children to be more responsible?
1. Cultivate children's awareness of rules
The so-called awareness of rules, that is, there must be rules. Many parents may be reluctant or disagree, thinking that children should be unrestrained, using too many restrictions to restrain children, which is not conducive to The growth of the child.
But in fact, cultivating children's awareness of rules and restraining children are completely different things. No matter what occasion, there are rules and polite children will always be more favored.
Parents should not let their children become lawless and have no sense of boundaries because of spoiling, but should let the children understand which behaviors are correct and which behaviors are wrong and undesirable.
2. Correctly guide children
People who are not saints can make mistakes, and everyone makes mistakes. This is especially true for children who have not fully formed the concept of right and wrong. Some parents are grumpy. Although they will not shelter their children when they make mistakes, they may be handled Will be too harsh, and even beat and scold the child.
But sometimes children make mistakes unintentionally, or there are other hidden reasons. Parents directly use violence to punish children without asking them indiscriminately. In fact, they will not get very good educational effects.
When a child makes a mistake, parents should learn the correct way to guide, such as first figuring out the reason for the child to do so, and then let the child realize what bad consequences might be caused by doing so.
Only if the child really understands what is wrong with this, will he deepen his impression, noMake a similar mistake again.
3. Parents lead by example
is like the father of the above, he has played his role as an example, because parents are the best and most important teachers for their children.
What children like to imitate most is their parents, so as a parent of a child, you must restrain your words and deeds in front of your child, and make yourself a correct benchmark first, so as to help your child form the correct three views.
, especially the father of a child, is a symbol of bravery and responsibility in itself, and we must set an example for the child.
The physical and mental health of children is a major event. Parents must not take it lightly. Only by helping children with both moral education can they be truly responsible for their children.
