Every time when I pick up my children from kindergarten, I always see many parents asking endless questions about their children as soon as they see them.
In fact, it is a good thing to communicate effectively with children, but if you cannot ask about in , you always ask in random directions. Not only will it not have a positive effect, but it is also likely to confuse the child, or will make the child feel bored. .
For example, some parents will ask, "Did the teacher criticize you today?", "What homework did the teacher assign?", "Did you sleep at noon?", "Did you have snacks in the afternoon?" and so on.
These words may seem like words from parents who care about their children, but to the children they will sound less focused, and some of them are not topics the children want to mention. Some of the questions may even evoke bad memories for the children and make them feel depressed.
After kindergarten, parents ask 2 sentences, which will make their children fall in love with kindergarten. It is more effective than asking 100 nonsense sentences.
① What are you happy about today?
When parents pick up their children, they should generally ask more positive questions instead of negative questions.
For example, asking "Have you been scolded today?" is a very negative thing. It will only make the child feel depressed, make the child have a bad mood, and even make the child's character gradually become irritable and full of inferiority.
Therefore, we should ask positive questions such as "What happy things happened today?" because the answer to the question is always the answer that has a positive effect on the child.
In addition, asks the child about happy things , and the child will review his or her happy experiences throughout the day. This behavior of sharing happiness not only has a very important impact on the child's mental health development, but also allows the child to be more active in verbal communication and expression of wishes with parents, so that parents can better understand the child's experience, development status, growth effects, etc. that day.
I will ask my children this question when they are out of school, and the children are also looking forward to me asking this question, because in this way the children can re-share with me the happy things they encountered at school today, and feel the happy atmosphere with me.
Such happy memories will not only make children more happy, motivated and confident, but also allow children to review what happened before and gain more experience and skills from them. I was also quite relieved to see the child's happy look.
②Who is your new friend today?
This question is rarely asked by parents, but it is very useful. From the answer to the question, we can not only know the direct answer to this question, that is, who the child's new friend is, but also learn from the side whether there are problems with the child's personality, behavior, language communication, etc.
Because when children introduce whether they have made new friends, they will express a lot of communication details, and this is the display of children's emotional behavior.
If your child repeatedly hits the wall when making friends, it is likely that there is a problem with the child's emotional behavior.
For example, children do not know how to share happiness, help each other, are rude, dishonest, etc., thus losing many opportunities to make friends. If your child's emotional and behavioral management skills are high, you don't have to worry about your child not being able to make friends.
My child is a perfect social master . Not only the teacher likes him, but his classmates also like to play with him. He made a lot of friends on the first day of kindergarten. In the days after , some classmates invited him to his home to play . He looked unwilling to leave, which made me laugh out loud.
The reason why my children don’t have to worry about me socially is that I never have to worry about going to kindergarten. I reflected on the reason afterwards and found that it was because I often took my children to read this set of "Baby Emotional Behavior Management Picture Book", from which the children strengthened their understanding of their own emotions and behaviors, and mastered the management of emotions and behaviors.
For example, before, our children always couldn't remember the fact that they had to wash their hands before meals, but in this set of books, there is a book called "Wash the Little Hands". I often consciously read this kind of story to my children, and gradually I developed the good habit of washing hands before meals.
and the child were not sure how to say hello before. The politeness of socializing with people was a little worse than , so I showed the picture books in "Good Kids Are Being Courteous" and "Hey Hello" to the child, and then I became polite.
There are also children who occasionally don’t keep their word before, but after watching "Do what you say", the children said that they will never keep their word again.
Sometimes children will lose their temper before. After watching "Don't lose their temper", they will know how to control their emotions. Before
, children always kept playing with toys all over the floor and didn’t clean up. After reading "Handling your own business with ", every time the children played with toys, they would take the initiative to clean up, which saved me a lot of worries.
Since this set of picture books is full of interesting cartoon illustrations, and the content is relatively short, the storyline is rich, and the large pictures and big characters are large, so children like to read it very much.
Like my If I find that my child has any bad habits, , I will use the picture books here to help the child correct . is more useful to me than . It is not a big deal for me to teach my child .
This set of books contains a total of 40 common scenes in life, corresponding to children's 40 emotions and behavior management methods , allowing children to understand and experience faster, thereby improving their ability to manage emotional behaviors.
When I first got this set of books, my child fell in love with this set of books . The production of this set of books is very thoughtful. Picture book story books of the size of a palm are easy for children to read by themselves and are also very helpful for developing independent reading habits.
If parents are worried that they don’t have time to read with their children, and the children can’t understand the words alone, this set of books will also be given a full set of audio. Scan the code to listen to the story so that the children can read without barriers.
Our child is in good condition in kindergarten. Not only is he going very fast every day, but he is also very concerned by teachers. He also gets along well with his classmates. I have to say that this set of picture books is really a great contribution. If you also want your child to "smooth" in kindergarten, you might as well take your child to read this set of picture books to cultivate your child's emotional behavior management skills.
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