At the request of the kindergarten teacher, I just started sanitation and floor cleaning. I listened to "How to be a parent in the era of lifelong education? 》This short video lecture. I actually feel it after reading
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First of all, when it comes to family relationships, that is what I mentioned when I was studying marriage counselors before: husband and wife relationships are the most important family relationships. Parent-child relationship should jump to second place, and then the education issues about children should be ranked in third place.
Then I think about it, because the child is still in the kindergarten class now, and there is no such learning and education problem. Then the parent-child relationship will not rank ahead of this couple's relationship.
However, because the child is sick and sees a doctor, sometimes this mood comes, and then I find that the child is sick will still cause discord in the relationship between the husband and wife. I think this is something I need to reflect on and adjust.
The second thought came to my mind, because I think I am a lifelong learning mother, so I don’t feel anxious about my children’s education issues at present. Because I know that children are growing up, and I am growing up.
Parents are really a lifelong practice.
didn't study for a few years in advance. We have to study for many years, and we have to study for more than 10 years before we can graduate from college. But parents do not have a certificate. No pre-job training. Just let it go and become a parent.
But I really found that, especially when the child got sick and coughed yesterday, he didn't take good medicine and kept making trouble, I really felt the corruption of human nature and the evil of human nature. I am also a sinner, and the child must be a sinner. So there must be conflicts between two sinners together. Sometimes I really want to strangle the child and then commit suicide. Thinking about it again, the problem is not that bad, it is just a very painful one. However, everyone comes here like this. Just think about it and bear it. When the child gets older, the immunity of is higher and the is higher, and it can be reasonable and will be better.
Because the child coughed for almost one night last night, he could barely sleep at 11:45, and then woke up at 3:46, and the child got up and ate something, and kept coughing. I really feel so painful when I see it. I was also nervous to hear it. I barely slept for another half an hour at around 6 o'clock. It was 7:30 in the morning, it was raining heavily outside, and I didn’t have a nucleic acid certificate, so I couldn’t go to the hospital. My father took my child to see a doctor and went to an expert clinic. I was ready to have a drip, but I said I would take a look at it first when I took the medicine. The cefaclo at home said it was useless and I didn’t need to take it anymore. I also bought several boxes to stock up and fed it with rosomycin. There are also Chinese patent medicines for syrup, etc., as well as atomizing medicines. It was actually half a pack at a time. My hands shook and almost poured the whole bottle over. I took leave today and didn’t go to kindergarten. Fortunately, I didn’t cough too much at home.
Because routine nucleic acid testing is no longer mandatory, there is no longer any restrictions. If you move around, the probability of getting infected with , the new crown is really much more risky. Then I have a little coughing, sore throat and runny nose these days, and I really feel worried. Because I have poor physical condition and weak body, I can’t get Adalimumab because of a cold. So if your body is in pain, you have to take anti-inflammatory and pain-relieving drugs. You can’t wait until the pain is obvious before taking it. It’s too painful.
Although I know not to be afraid, I have support and guarantee, I am still afraid. So I think I am really hypocritical, it seems that I just say that I believe it, but I don’t really believe it. I don't really have confidence. I really see that I am indebted and weak. I want to cry so much. I know my dad saw this weak me. I also accepted me, but I despise myself and look down on myself. Why are I so undisciplined and so skeptical of Xiaoxin? It seems like the sky falls when the child coughs.
So, I think in the days to come, I will really take good care of my body, mind and soul. I feel strong inside and strong outside, otherwise I will learn too much and don’t have a good physical support, which will be too painful. Then exercise more. Only by increasing your immunity can you resist this wave of COVID-19.
I hope that we can serve the community and the people in peace and health under his care and conservatism, and then do our best to serve our community and the people.
Then do your best and don’t have too high expectations for your children. He is an ordinary child, accepting the ordinaryness of his children, and I am also an ordinary parent.
I am very sad that I can provide my children with very limited amounts. But I believe it will only get better and better. If the child can be herself and give full play to her strengths and gifts, she will live happily and be able to support herself.
If there is no condition for children to show their nature due to economic reasons, then try to be creative and create opportunities and space for children
children, which can release her nature and allow children to play more freely.
Thank you and cherish there are so many good learning opportunities and resources now. Now the whole society, schools and families attach importance to family education . I think our generation will be very different from the past. We will be more wise to be parents. Cultivate qualified talents for the society.
