A parent got my phone number through my friend and called me to ask me a question: my child secretly played mobile games while taking online classes and said that this had been several times. What should I do?
I didn't answer him, but asked him in turn: What do you think should I do? He smiled and asked me if he didn't know how to do it. I still asked him: What are you going to do? You have to have an attitude, it’s impossible to play with your child.
He reluctantly said: Prepare to bear him (criticize the child).
At this time, I shared my idea:
1. As long as I see the child being nervous or even ashamed after the incident, I just give the child a look, and there is no need to use this opportunity to criticize him.
2. If possible, accompany him to take a few online classes. If you don’t have time, explain to your child: Parents trust you because you have realized that it is wrong to play with your mobile phone during online classes. I believe you will listen carefully next?
3. Explain to your child that parents will check his class notes, which is no better than criticizing your child.
In turn, I may wait for my child to finish the class and play games with him for a while after completing his homework.
The parent heard this and yelled, then added: Oh, one Zhang Yichi, it’s right.
Instead of letting your child think about it and even want to play games in online classes, it is better to just play with him for a while. It may not be a bad thing, what do you think?
