Nowadays, children are no longer as good as when we were young. When I was young, my parents basically didn’t care about it. Now, children are full of interest classes, and at night, their parents basically do their homework!
It’s not easy for parents and children!
How can we improve children's self-confidence?
I think the following points are more important:
1. I always think that my kid is introverted, but in fact, what he is interested in is still more lively. Last night, my family went to an English interest class. Parents accompanied me in this class. My husband went to listen to it. When I came back, I told me that my son was beyond his imagination and was very good at interacting. He raised his hands to speak actively. He also interacted with the children very frequently. It was so unexpected!
My son likes the English teachers in the training class very much, and he also likes to take English classes, so I think it is important to like it!
2. Occasionally let your child be the leader, let your child do things he has not done before, and meet challenges, and will have a good foundation for children’s self-confidence!
3. Learn to give your children the opportunity to choose. For example, when parents buy clothes for their children, they always choose according to their own perspective. If they can give their children the opportunity to choose by themselves, they will buy them the styles they like. This can help children learn to think independently and build their own self-confidence!
4. Don’t laugh at him, and don’t deliberately emphasize at that time. Teach him again after a while. When your child is studying, your ridicule will make him lose confidence and interest in learning!
5. I usually watch TV series he likes with my children, discuss the characters and lines he likes with, and express my interest in his views. I think equal getting along and communicating is a ladder to give him confidence!
Hello everyone, I am Xiaoye Quxian. If there is a better way, everyone is welcome to leave a message!
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